My parents always insult me and I am starting to get sick of it?
Tell them what you told us=) Good luck!
My mom always makes fun of me when I cry?
I know this sounds a bit ridiculous, that I cry when I'm upset. Outrageous, right?! A few years ago, I started to develop anxiety; i think my mom was the source because she's always tried to put me down. I get anxiety attacks and I always burst into tears when I try to get my point across. Everytime we argue, we start screaming over each other and, involuntarily, I start crying. I'm not 3, 5, or 10- I'm 16 year old girl. I can't control it! It's my anxiety and frustration and if I were to tell my mom that, she would deny it. What do I do? What do I say to her? We were just having an argument right now and I started crying as I told her she always criticizes me and she started making fun of my crying and when I get a job she'll laugh because I'll be crying all the time. The thing is, rarely EVER cry, never with other people, only with her. I always try to explain that it's anxiety but she keeps hassling me, asking "why do you always cry? what's wrong with you?" It's moments like these where I feel so broken down and misunderstood.
I'm tired of my dad always criticising or insulting me. I've really had enough. College is my only true home now. I'm so confused. What do I do?
I can relate to the over controlling dad. Always barking orders and telling me that my opinion did not matter. I used to be very scared of him growing up. He is very successful in terms of business and ran a company out of fear for 50 years. I realized later in life that he was underneath it all a scared little boy that had been rejected at a young age. Like most of us we come from this place of feeling not “good enough”. Without awareness on your dads part we see the need for parents to control the outside environment as a way to feel safe, keep people under them in order to feel “better than”, etc. Little do they know that by controlling and squeezing to hard they recreate the same experience of rejection from others. No one wants to be around a tyrant.-However once I could see the hurt little boy I realized just how fragile he really was. Yes he would yell, bark, threaten but in the end he never didn’t come through. Helping me with college, always (during my rebellious teen years, still by my side). I realized what he didn't realize and that was this: Dads can be a lot of hot air, scary and controlling. But what is most scary is the fear of rejection from them.-My advice is to trust that your dad will never change but also that unconditional love (he does not see) runs there like a current. That gave me the ability to say to myself. “I am no longer afraid of this man. Others may be but I am not.” I started using my voice, having an opinion and stopped trying to please a person who found fault in everything just because he was always going to see it that way. Sure it ruffled his feathers but there was nothing he could say if I disagreed, or said, “I hear you but see it a different way. Thanks though for your advice dad.” Then move on.-Have fun in school. Shift your focus to some of the best years that lay ahead. All is well.
My boyfriend always insults me. He says he is doing this to improve me. I feel very bad. What should I do?
True lovers don't insult each other. he does that because he is selfish and he wants you to adjust with his behavior. you should take long break now tell him directly that you don't want to be improved. Cut him off completely for next 2 to 3 months. He will then realize his mistake and will never repeat them. Even husbands don't do this with their wives He is just your boyfriend. It's time to find good one.
Why does my older brother always insult me?
I know people can be cruel, but he's supposed to be my brother? He makes fun of my laugh whenever I laugh around him, gives me dirty looks, and makes fun of almost anything I say. I can't talk to him because whoever I try to, he'll insult me about something. He acts nice to my friends but he's never nice to me. I've never insulted him before. He openly calls me weird. I tend to ignore him. I had to block him from Facebook because he kept sending me hateful messages..He accused me of being "disrespectful.", likes he's my father. He's a jerk to my mother as well, but I don't understand why. Do you have any ideas?
My family is repeatedly insulting me for my low marks in class 12 exams. I'm very depressed, what should I do?
I got low marks in class 12 exams. Although we lived away from our relatives and there was no one to say anything about it to us, I can totally relate to the pressure associated with it. I used to be a good student before 11th grade and always got decent marks without putting too much effort. I just stopped studying in 11th and 12th and got real bad marks. It was a huge let down for everyone.To answer your question, if your relatives are saying stuff to you and your parents, you can't shut their mouth. If they are like that, they are like that. What you CAN do is not get depressed. Less marks in 12th in today's world means less chances of getting admission to good colleges. The point is that although by scoring less marks in 12th you have certainly lost out somewhere, it doesn't make you a loser. There are countless examples of people who focused on their strengths, interests put in tremendous hard work and succeeded in life. So I'd say be cool, see sensibly what your best options are for further studies and go for the best and do the best you can do. As for the people who bitch about you or your bad performance, fuck it. They'll always be there. Not worth your time.
How do I stop my family from constantly making fun of me because I have unorthodox approaches towards business & life?
You can't make anyone do anything. You can have the last laugh though by being a success and by rolling in the dough. Are you happy? Do you love what you do? As long as you are not hurting anyone, keep doing what you are doing. Enjoy life. Ignore them! Or cut back on your visits to show them that you are tired of their attitude. If they ask why you haven't been around lately, tell them you are tired of being insulted, put down, made fun of, etc.Unique people are the explorers, engineers, artists, out-side-the-norm type of people.
How can I stop my family from making fun of me? I have moved into my own apartment, I'm paying my own bills, etc. but my mom and dad are still trying to run my life and are constantly making fun of my decisions or trying to make me change my mind.
Make fun back. Make fun of them for being older. Make fun of them for out of style choices, and then make fun of them for making fun of you. It’s how they communicate, and I’m sure you grew up with it. You already know how it works.Don’t take it to heart too much. This is a lot more a fun way to show your disapproval of a choice than yelling or actually trying to do something about it. Don’t make this more important than it is.Parents make fun of their kids either directly in front of them or behind their backs because their kids do things that they did when they were that age. A lot of those things turned out bad. They’re laughing at you and at themselves. If they think something you’re planning is going to have awful consequences, they’re going to go past making fun of it.If you’re in the same room as a six year old who is telling you his great idea, and you know that it isn’t, you’re going to make fun. You might do it in front of someone you love and who loves you back or behind the kid’s back if he’s not that close. I mean little kids have hilariously terrible ideas. Guess what? So do adults, especially young adults.Now, you’re going to do what you’re going to do and them making fun isn’t going to stop you. You know that, they know that, and I think you should either just ignore it or have fun back.Are you rolling your eyes at me? You are, aren’t you. That’s OK. I’m sticking my tongue out.
How to handle the insult by teachers? Recently my teachers made fun of my stuttering during a viva-voce.
Some teachers are so stupid. They actually only think about themselves,they are pure evil and have no quality to be a teacher. Especially, a senior teacher or professor, is the one to blame. They have nothing to fear as they are now senior members of a department. Insulting /humiliating a student in front of a class, is a child's play to them. They never regret.Even you know you do nothing still he forced you to get out,you can't say a word against his will. It seems only they have dignity and the students are here only to be insulted. You don't even have the chance to ask why your teacher insult you or what is the cause? He will simply say “How dare you question me?” Get out of my class. They will never listen to you nor ever try to realize your situation, your mental condition. You are humiliated, you are crying, so what? It doesn't affect him. All you can do is to be silent and do nothing. I know it's difficult but you have no other way but to show at least some fake respect. And just pray to your creator and hopefully, this kind of things will never happen again. Just hope that your bad senior teacher get retirement as soon as possible before it's too late. Ironically show him /her some respect but truely you should never forgive him/her if he/she is truely guilty.Sometimes, I think who made them teachers? Do they have good teaching abilities? Perhaps, they do but without having a good character and kindness or ethics, they can't be said the builder of a nation. No way I will respect those who insulted me so badly.