Im 13 my parents are so annoying help?
I am 13 and my parents have been so annoying lately. They're being so strict they said i couldn't go to my friends party because it started at 10 thats not late im not a kid anymore i want to go to latish parties. I didn't even have school the next day so i dont even know why they said no. I was so mad i was yelling at them and cussing so they sent me to my room. I was so mad and crying and they told me i couldnt come out until they told me could or else i would have to go to bed early for a week EVEN ON WEEKENDNS. i didn;t think they were serious so i decided to sneek out my window and go to my friends house i did and the party was so much fun. I got home at 1 and my parents relized i was gone and go really mad. They told me i had to go to bed EARLY that WHOLE WEEK. How unfair!!! i hated it i usually go to sleep at 12 and they made me be in bed at 9!!!! i hate them. Every night i was yelling at them and crying and i told them they were so mean! Help what should i do there're being so mean!!
Ughhh, My Parents Annoy The Hell Out Of Me!?
I had the worst day! I got in a huge fight with my best friend and now we aren’t talking. I had a Calc test that I probably failed and then to make everything worse I come home and of course my mom starts ******in at me about stuff, like grades, and saying how I’m grounded and shi* because I went to a party and came home late and shi* like that. And then she starts pressuring me like You know, you better make the honor roll or you’re going to be grounded even longer. My mom is always bitc*hing at me and then she wonders why I go out with my friends and do stuff that she doesn’t approve of like drinking and sex! I don’t see why parents are always nagging and yelling at their kids! Maybe if they lightened up a little bit everything would be better! Is anyone elses parents like this? They really annoy the hell out of me!
My mom called me annoying! Help?
Hi I would really appreciate anyone's advice. My mom is plain out mentally abusive. She constantly makes remarks about how I look and bitches everytime she gains 2 pounds. 10 out of 12 months a year we get along but when we don't I feel horrible. A few nights ago she called me annoying. I would never let her see me cry so I just went to my room. She acts like a saint in front of my friends. And so all of my friends are like "let's go over to your house" and "your mom is so nice". But the truth is is that she is just mean. Another example is that I cleaned the kitchen like she asked, she said it was too clean and she knew I couldn't do it by myself and that I must have had help. And everytime I make a mistake or I do something she doesn't like she will be like " don't ask me for anymore favors" or " I'm done with you". Like I'm just trash or something. And it's not like I can say anything back to her she just says that I am the most disrespectful child she has ever met. Anyone who has any suggestions please comment.
Why is my dad so annoying? Help?
I dont get on at all well with my dad, he dont say please or thanks-you, he eats with his mouth wide open and makes a really bad noise but this only happens when me and my sister are in the room not my mum too. There are 3 ladies in the house and he leaves pee all over the seat for us to wipe off and says its not him when all 3 of us knows it is. He slaps my dog bout 4 time round the head and mouth when he was jumping up at the tv ok the dog has got to be stopped from doin it but not like that, he thinks that me and my sister are slaves, he dont show any love or respect for us, he says we only come to him when we want something but we never ask him for anything but he only speaks to us when he wants something, I.E, tv, cooker, microwave, help all with out a thank you. he goes mad over the smallest thing. he hate my dog cause he dont come when he calls him but does for us. He is 65 and im 14, Is there any1 who can help me or any dads with teenagers???
My parents annoy me just by existing. How do I deal with this?
By realizing that at times, you have annoyed them just by existing.What, you think it only happens to you? Trust me. Your parents have wanted a full nights sleep, more money, more free time, more space, more privacy, less work to do, less drama to deal with.It's part of being a family. You are with these people constantly. They get on your last nerve. Just because you are related does not mean you have the same thoughts and feelings. The difference is that they are much more experienced at life, and know a lot more about it than you. They also are required to keep you safe and teach you how to care for yourself.The problem is that literally EVERY person ever at around age 15 or so believes that they are grown enough to know anything they need to know. But the truth is that nobody knows anything until they are about 25. That is when you start learning something about life. Even if you are living on your own, working, married, or have children, you are still clueless.And do you want to know something? The fact that children of that age do not want to listen, do not understand what it takes to raise a child, do not see dangers that are obvious to us old folks, annoys the living sh*t out of us! We are trying to teach you and keep you safe and we get attitude and arguments. Parenting teenagers is literally the most annoying thing ever.So suck it up. You may feel oppressed and misunderstood, but that is nothing compared to being a parent and watching your child make terrible mistakes and turn your good intentions against you.I saw a lot of coddling in other answers. But this is the truth. You are not some special child prodigy who knows everything. You are not the only one suffering from this situation. And there are many young people who would love to have parents who cared enough to be annoying.Parents have reasons for everything they decide to do. Some of those reasons are none of your business. But unless they are actually abusive, your best bet is to just listen to them and try to learn from them while you can. But as you simply stated that they are annoying, I doubt you are being abused. Only raised. And the thing that annoys you is that you think their job is done now. But clearly it isn't. Because being annoyed by the existence of someone is not a thing. At least not for grown adults.
My mom is annoying the hell outta me .. Help?
Last night i talked back to my mom in front of my relatives and then she burst out crying saying how she hates her life and she wants to commit suicide etc. Then today she started blaming my dad for not lecturing me when i talked back to her. And just tonight she started crying again and repeating the same story to my grandmother and its getting MAD ANNOYING. What the **** should i do? I already apologize but shes like I dont care. Helpppp??? Ty.
How do I deal with my parents asking me annoying basic tech stuff like how to buy something online if it pisses me off that they don't want to learn?
Years ago, my mother called me at work and wanted to know how to run her new computer, which was Microwave 95 (her words). I didn't want to take the time, but my supervisor told me to take as much time as I wanted. I never got passed getting her signed on. I'd go to Florida once a year and change her clocks and all her appliances.In fact, she asked me to organize her files for her (in her office) and she had everything filed under "The" ("the bank" "the post office," the menu," etc.)Dad got a Gateway Computer and crashed it. They got him up and running again (they provided customer crash protection or whatever) and he got upset that they had lost all his stuff. I had to go and reinstall all his software.Years later, he and his wife took a trip AROUND THE WORLD for $250 ea. because they were teaching the elderly how to set up e-mail accounts.There's no use getting mad, because it won't make a difference. I refuse to use anything other than my $20 flipphone from Walmart and it doesn't have the Internet or all sorts of bells and whistles. I prefer either learning on my own, or getting something I know how to do.I can't tell you how many times (and ways) I tried to show my mother how to use her remote control. It went on for years. Some people, like you as a poster, are looking "just for the answer." It's annoying, because I would like to think people younger than me should know how to use their computers well enough by now.Before 1992, there weren't home computers. My son once asked me what courses I took to be "good" on the computer, and I explained I had never taken a course. You just grow up with it. I have no reason to learn anything new, unless I want to teach myself.Don't let people get you mad. You can make money teaching computers to people (especially seniors) who are very happy to be able to read e-mail and look up their recipes.Almost nothing makes me "angry." I might get frustrated if I've shown a 20-year-old how to do something for the 10th time, but if it's for someone older than me, I'm very patient.
MY MOM KEEPS ANNOYING ME AND MAKING ME HELP HER WITH HER LAPTOP!!!!!!!WHAT DO I DO?!?!?
You learn patience. You must remember tech keeps changing all the time and someday YOU will be totally confused by the new things that your kids will understand completely. Then YOU will be asking them how to make things work over and over. If someone showed you how to fly the space shuttle one time do you really think you'd remember the details the next day? No. That's what tech is like for most adults.
My boyfriend's parents annoy me and I don't know how to get over it?
Okay so there are so many things that annoy me about these people, I probably won't cover them all. I guess it all just comes down to the fact that I plainly don't like them, and get funny vibes off them that make them unlike-able. lol To give you an idea, first off, his dad is like the most arrogant person I've ever met. He speaks with an air of superiority, he is the only person in the world who matters to him basically. I guess part of the reason this bothers me is because I've been with their son for over 2 years and he basically shows no interest in getting to know me, I know I shouldn't take this to heart too much because my boyfriend says he is the same with him too. But I find it rude and disrespectful. Also he is ALWAYS showing off his stuff, motor bikes, cars, fancy cameras, etc. Now his mum. She is over 50 years old and still tries to act as though she is 25. That wouldnt be a problem since I act like a kid myself a lot, but she is just plain scary. She just got a motor bike license today and wants to ride a motor bike...this is a woman who always complains of arthritis everywhere and has operations on parts of her body for having poor joints and poor health altogether. It's like she can't accept she is ageing. It annoys me. I know I sound like a *****, like I said, it just comes down to the fact I don't like them. I feel as though her and I have to compete for my boyfriend's attention and affection, like she can't let him go. It's quite disturbing really. I feel like she takes advantage of him in a way because she always makes him do everything with her, shop for her, paint for her, now she's even making him go motor biking with her. Is this normal?? He is 21. So anyway, first of all, am I just being weird and unreasonable or are all families like this? I don't know what a normal family is because I was never part of one. Second of all, how can I learn to get past it? I really need to, because things are very serious with my boyfriend and I need to live with it because I don't want to hurt him, or our relationship. Thanks