My parents are fighting?
My parents have never fought for this long before. They always have it worked out by now. They've been fighting for over a week. My parents are both upset all the time. I hate it. ITS CHRISTMAS EVE!!!!! They shouldn't be yelling at each other all the time. I'm used to going to my parents whenever I have a problem or need to talk. But now my parents are the problem. I just don't know what to do. All of my friends have gone out of town for the holidays, and even if they were here, I can't call them on Christmas Eve to talk about my problems! They don't want me calling them during the day for that, OR for at ten-o-clock when they're keeping me awake. I just need help...from anyone...
What do you do when your parents are fighting?
It gives me a weird stomachy feeling, and i get really scared when i listen to them yell. so i have no other choice but to call my brother(he's 25) to come & pick me up,every time. How do you teens handle your parents fighting?
My parents are fighting and it's my fault. What should I do?
As my Dad and I were driving home from my grandmother's house tonight, I decided that it might be a good time to let him know that I've been suffering from depression for the past 6 months. After I told him he said, "You know...sometimes people think they have diseases...but they really don't. You know what I mean?" I nodded. Then he said, "These people are called hypochondriacs...and I think you might just be one. You sort of...blow things out of proportion sometimes..." I was a bit concerned that he was writing off my depression, so I used the broken record tactic. I just kept telling him, "Dad. I DO have depression. I'm not faking this!" He didn't listen, he just gave me a lecture about the importance of staying postive and not "playing the victim" as he put it. Later when we got home, I joked with my mom about it. I said "Me and Dad were talking tonight and he, uh...he thinks I'm a hypochondriac. But it's nothing, it's really nothing! It's um...actually kind of funny that he thought that, sort of..." I didn't bring up the depression part since I was a bit disturbed with how my Dad had reacted earlier that evening. Anyway, my mom flew off the handle when she heard that. She said to my Dad "Why are you telling our son that he's a hypochondriac!!!!?? You're damaging his self-esteem!!" Now my Dad's mad at me, and my parents are fighting again. I didn't mean for this to happen! I didn't want everything to explode like this when I told someone about my depression...
How do I deal with parents who fight all the time? My parents argue over trivial things. Mom has a temper, blames people, and controls everyone. She compares us with others, saying how good they are. Dad is too stubborn to apologize, and has an ego.
There is nothing you can do about your parents' fighting. Believe me. I spent years wondering what I could do.The only thing that you can do is get some space from it. It is not likely that their relationship is going to change unless they decide to change it. It's not up to you or your siblings to change them and trying will just make it all the harder for you to disengage from this very toxic dynamic in your family.It's time to grow more independent of your family and seek more sane and peaceful relationships for your own life. These dynamics have a way of creeping up into your own relationships simply because you have been in the midst of them for years. You need to know that and begin to become as conscious as you can about thinking about and having good communication in your life.Decide how you would like to proceed in creating a different energy in your life from the one that your parents have created. Get some help for this. Over time, you will create your own set of relationships that are based on healthier, more loving values. If that becomes your goal, you will begin to beat the stress and move forward in a new direction. Just don't spend your life getting stuck in their dynamic- unless you want to create such drama in your own life.
My parents are fighting and I can't take it anymore.?
AW callum listen , I know where you are coming from , although my parents are still together and don`t fight as much . Its hard seeing one person your meant to look up to be so harsh to another at their time of need. Tell your mum how much you care and that she should not have to put up with what your father is imposing whether he loves her or not! I am not saying your dad isn't`t a good person but he is in a tuff time remind her of her illness and say you couldn't`t bare loosing her and this won`t do her any good ! None of this is your fault that's what you have to remember in this situation. Times are very very hard at the moment a lot of people have no money and no jobs but there's nothing that giving out or moaning is going to do about it. Its a time when family need to stick together and be strong push through. I know happiness seems far away for everyone, But just remember a good memory be it of you and your mum or you your mum and your dad , And use that to persuade your mum to do what best and stand up to your dad. Please don`t take any of this out on your self!! its not your fault! I really hope this helps !
My parents fight, and I get the blame.?
My parents fight all the time, it's like my mom is paranoid he is messing around and it's like she tries to plant stuff on him so it looks like he is but he isn't. So they constantly fight and I, being the oldest of 2 kids, gets in trouble for it. After a fight, my mom throws stuff at me, hits me sometimes, tells me that I can't do anything right, and blames me for everything. I could be sitting somewhere minding my own business and all the sudden she comes out screaming about how I'm sitting or something. I'm so fed up with it, I'm 15, so I can't leave. I can't take it anymore, so much I have started to cut myself and have thought that if I just was gone forever, and killed myself, everything would end and I wouldn't have to deal with all this. I need help, what can I do?