My Parents Are Taking My Brother On Holiday But Not Me

Brother is planning on having a party while our parents are away?

My parents are going on holiday in a few weeks and are leaving me (17) and my brother (15) in the house alone for 7 days. They have left us home alone before although not for this long. Recently my brother took me aside and mentioned that he was going to have a few friends over and asked if I could stay with a friend or something for the night so I would be out the way. Naturally I questioned him and he eventually told me he was having about 20 people over. I wasn't happy about this because I didn't want people in my room and things would get broken etc and I am aware there would be drinking and drugs. Today I found out that he had lied to me as people were talking about it in school. It turns out he has invited most of his year and people in the year above, well over 50 people. I am angry that he has lied to me but I am also worried as I mentioned before about the alcohol and drugs, with this many people there may be police involvement. I really don't know what to do, we have a nice house and I don't want it to be trashed. Also I know that my brother will not clean up properly and if this goes ahead my parents will definitely find out and won't trust either of us even though I am no part of it. I have not yet told my brother that I know about it and over my dead body is this party happening. I don't know if I should tell my mum, because I'm close to my brother I would feel horrible. What do I do? If I do tell my parents how do I explain without getting into trouble myself?

My parents don't take me on holiday?

I am 15 year old girl. I am French and used to live in France until I was 12. When I was 12 we moved to England. Until then we used to go on holiday 4-5 times a year. Now my parents say that they want to see England - so most holidays we go to different parts of England which I find very boring. Now we only go on holiday abroad about once a year and even when we do my parents make it seem like they have done me a huge favour instead of realising that it is their job to take me on holiday. What should I do? I told my parents that I found travelling around England boring but they just said that they like it so we will travel around England. It isn't that we don't have ebnough money to go abroad...

My parents get my brother amazing gifts but not me?

Seems that you've taken to the internet to voice your frustration and disapointment with your mother. Its evident by your comment "how to make her love me too?"
Without knowing the family stuation I would just go by the mindset that parents tend to love their Children but can sometimes do things that makes it appear the opposite. If they are actually telling you that they can't afford to buy you gifts but can for your brother that sounds very troubling. Without knowing all the details I would definitley ask your mom for a few minutes of her UNDIVDED attention and explain to her how you feel and how upset and sad you feel. Chin up though, you will be fine as it may just be a misunderstanding or a parents guilty concious over some past issue. Take the mature approach and talk to her, don't shut her out or act out in an angry way.

Am i to old for my brother to spank me?

Once again, NO, you are NOT "too old" to be spanked. And if your parents will not devote enough time to you to train you and to punish you when needed, then be VERY thankful that your older brother is willing to be so bothered and troubled with it that he will do what they don't. Your brother is your GUARDIAN?

At 12 or 13 years of age you stay out TWO hours over curfew!!

OF COURSE your brother should NOT have been SHOUTING at you, though I suppose he is so exasperated that he just SHOUTED.

Yes, I would agree that you are too old to be SMACKED ... at your age it should be the belt or hairbrush!!

How can you stop it? By obeying your GUARDIAN when you are home for the rare visit. You are old enough you should behave and not need to be spanked!!!
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I am going to meet my brothers internet girlfriend over the thanksgiving holiday. ?

They may have just met physically but I bet they have been chatting on the net and on the phone a lot prior to their meeting each other and they most likely feel as if they have known each other for some time now. So it is not as new as you portray it, at least from their viewpoint. That is something you will have to come to terms with.

Well one way to put her at ease is to remember that this is the girl who is making your brother happy. So remember that and think you also owe her a (small?) debt of gratitude for making him happy.

Others here are correct. You'll get to know her over the Thanksgiving Holiday, so no worries there. Wait till you meet her before you decide to hire a Private Investigator to do that back ground search. Plus at Thanksgiving, if you play your cards right, you will get more back ground info on her to aid your back ground search, so be patient.

Good luck. Please do not tell him you did the background check unless you find out something major or you may drive a wedge between you and your brother

How can I convince my parents to let me bring a friend on vacation with us?

Okay, so my family and I are going on vacation for a week. We got a house, so my friend wouldnt be an extra cost. Also it will just be my parents and I, because we are going down for a baseball thing, and my brother is staying with his baseball team. So, i will be completely alone with nothing to do, because my brother's team mates siblings are so annoying i cant bare to be around them and my parents are going to want to do there own thing, because i cant drive i wont be able to go anywhere, ill just be stuck in the house. How can I convince them to let me bring a friend...
Thankss! xxx