Huge fight with parents?
Edit for m. I can grasp the fact that speeding is "wrong" I don't know where you find that in my question. I do see that I shouldn't be speeding, but me asking them why they can do it and I can't doesn't make me less of an adult, or more of a child. It is just a simple question. It's philosophical. I also noticed you said you hope that I get pulled over and get my permit taken away. IF YOU CANNOT SEE WHY YOU HAVE JUST CONTRADICTED YOUR WHOLE ANSWER, YOU HAVE HAD PART OF YOUR BRAIN REMOVED. IF YOU SAY IM BEING A CHILD AND IMMATURE AND YOU SAY THAT, THAT IS AN EXTREMELY CHILDISH AND HYPOCRITICAL THING TO SAY AFTER WHAT YOU JUST SAID. I CAN SEE YOUR AN ARROGANT PIECE OF **** AND I CAN GUARANTEE THAT YOU WOULD NOT SAY THAT TO ME IN REAL LIFE. ITS EASY TO HIDE BEHIND A SCREEN ISN'T IT? BY THE WAY, THERE ARE MANY THINGS I WISH UPON YOU, BUT I WILL REFRAIN FROM SAYING THEM TO KEEP MYSELF FROM LOOKING LIKE A HYPOCRITICAL CONTRADICTORY ARROGANT SCREEN HIDI
Parents fight on my Birthday, What Should I Do?
On my birthday I canceled all of my plans with my friends because my parents said they would take the whole family out for a nice breakfast and they wanted me to spend my birthday with them. As we were driving to the place, my parents got into a fight over how cheap my dad is, how my mom never shuts up about anything and how much they hate each other. My mom started crying and my dad refused to go inside the restaurant when we got there. My mom yelled at him more and then my dad said he doesn't care and is taking us home. On the way home the shouting continued and my 2 younger brothers and I (I turned 17 that day) remained quiet. When we got home my mom (still crying like a maniac) told us except my dad, to get in the car and that she would take us somewhere and kept saying stuff about my dad. I didn't like the vibe at this point and was scared my mom was going continue talking about how awful my dad is, in the car so I said no and started doing homework in the basement where no one would bother me. Upstairs I heard a lot of noise and knew it had gotten physical. None of my parents apologized to me since and its been almost a month. I continued talking to them both because i thought it was the mature thing to do but I'm really hurting. I didn't expect my dad to say sorry because he never does but I expected my mom to and she didn't. Nowadays I take little jabs at my mom about how she's not a good mother (I make it sound sarcastic and over the littlest things so it doesn't look so obvious) and today she started yelling at me about how I never care about anyone. Like who cares more, me or the parent that ruined my birthday and didn't apologize? I always make they're birthdays super special and they know it but why do I deserve this in return? Who do you think is right here and what should I do about this? I haven't talked to my parents at all about what happened on my birthday and no one ever brings it up.
My parents got into a fight?
My parents sometimes get into arguments, but never as big as the one they just had. The only other big argument they've had ended with my mom crying (which she never does). I woke up because they were arguing really loudly about my older sister who's away, I couldn't really tell what the issue was but my mom warned me yesterday that my dad was under a lot of stress. They were yelling really loudly and then I heard this smashing noise and my mom screamed. Like a really high pitched scream at the top of her lungs, I've never ever heard it before, and she ran up the stairs screaming, went into my parents' room, slammed the door and I heard her screaming inside, banging her fists and blowing her nose. She came out after about 20 minutes and got in her car and drove off. I think she's back now but I'm too scared to check. I feel like crying because my parents have never fought like this and I'm so worried about my mom. It must have been something really big to scream like that. I don't want to say it in case it might happen, but what if they're going to.. you know.. the d word?? What should I do?? I'm 14 and so is my brother. We're both in our rooms with the door closed and it's been about an hour since the argument and I'm too afraid to go downstairs.
What should I do if my parents had a huge fight and are on the verge of ending everything?
Is it their first big fight or has this been going on for quite some time? I only ask because that is a major factor in this answer. If it's been happening all the time then yes they might want to walk away from each other but on the other hand even if they don't yell at each other at all it could be the end. My parents never fought, at least not in front of me and my brother. And then all of a sudden my father was sleeping in the guest bedroom and then a week after that he was living with his friend. But then after all of the depressing feelings and anger my brother and I went through my parents decided they were going to make it work. Two weeks af I didn't get along with my father very well after all this happen because he met a woman and he'd try to push us away. For 15 years my parents had Christmas at our house. We never really got toys we got 100 two $50 bonds and the rest was cash to be put into a college fund with the bonds or whatever. Then my brother and I were given $10,000 each to put towards College. Then when I hit my college Years I asked my father for the money and he told the while the story I have ever heard it made no sense he kept contradicting yourself and feeling with his hands. It's so hard as a little kid to wash your father why directly to your face. So after all the money went missing my father who had no money was able to somehow put a down payment on house. I am really sorry I got off topic and went on and on but I think I just really had to vent and you gave me that opportunity so thank you
My parents are always fighting, what should I do?
My parents had been fighting since I was a kid. I am 23 now and they still argue every single time. As a teenager, I know there was nothing that I can do. So I made the decision to go to boarding school during high school and now I am studying at oversea university just to get away from them. Don't get me wrong, I love them very much but constantly being in the middle of a fight, I just can't take it anymore. My brother is 13 and I am really glad that he is going to boarding school. It is his own decision and I actually feel sorry for him because I had to left him when I was in high school. We are very close to each other but I had never talk to him about our parents. I'm just waiting for the good time and I believe at these age, he can handle serious discussion. The only peaceful moments that I had at home are mostly the time that I spent with him without my parents. We love to go out just to eat ice cream ,went shopping or just watching cartoons at home. I really miss him. Back to my point, being away from my parents and house is really working for me and I enjoy not having someone arguing with each other 24/7.
My mom and i had a BIG fight?
so my momand i had a big fight. she told me many times that i would take my license today after school, but when i get in the car and told her if we were still up for it, she goes NO because she has to go back home & sleep. when we got home, i turned the computer on & i turned some music on, she told me to turn it off & i was like NO! so she comes to my computer & turns it off then she hits me on my arm then i hit her back. then she hits me again & i hit her back. i really dont think she has the right to be mad at me cuz first of all weve been planning for MONTHS that i would take my license &+ she was already mad this morning for something i didnt do, so shes taking all her anger out at me. now im thinking, im just gonna drive off her car at a friends house or im going call a friend to pick me up & go on a run away to a friends house for a couple of days because once my dad gets home, shes gonna tell my dad & this will cause more violence. i know my dad, im pretty sure he'll take alot of my prvaleges away but im not gonna let that happen cuz i didnt do none wrong but stood up for my rightsss. what should i do?
I'm 21 years old. My parents had a big fight today. I'm frustrated. What should I do?
I am sorry to hear this. But it is normal to feel helpless and frustrated when near and dear ones quarrel. Best thing to do stay away from situation if you can't offer your support. Let them cool down and things get back to normalcy. Parents are human beings who are not always perfect. So sometimes it so happens that indulge in these kind of quarrels disturbing the minds of kids .. best thing to do is not to involve yourself if possible. In case of physical abuse you need to intervene. Else.. the only option is to sit it out.
How do I stop my parents physically fighting?
I was fourteen, playing soccer in a field with my friends, when my sister came running and said that our mum and dad were fighting in their bedroom and she was frightened. (This was in England.)I went running home, dashed up the stairs, to find my mother was holding a pair of scissors, raised, and was about to stab my dad. There was no question who was the aggressor. What to do? I picked up the poker from the fireplace, and then had one second to figure out who to hit. Well, of course, I cracked my dad on top of his head, near the front, which soon put a stop to it. He groaned and sat on the bed. My mother scolded me, said I could have killed him. All these years later, some 70 actually, I still haven’t put the experience in a proper place in my brain.Well, military service took over, and I left the UK with a spell in the merchant navy, and buried the memory.