My parents are getting on my nerves!!!!!!!HELP!?
Well, it's mostly my mom. I don't even know why she all the sudden starting to act like this. I'm 15 and not the ugliest girl in the world. Ok like whenever we go somewhere, she and I'm not at her for like THE WHOLE TIME we're there [if I walk off or something], she throws a fit and starts calling out my name and stuff and I'll be doing something normal like hanging out with my friends. And recently, I was just talking with my best friends bf about school and stuff and we were alone waiting for my friend to come out of the bathroom. We were sort of standing by a door but not completely in a corner. I wasn't flirting with him or anything like that. My dad walks out, notices us, smiles, asks me a question and then walks on. Later on he told my mom that he had me 'cornered' and when she asked me what we were talking about, I said school. Which was the absolute truth. And yet she still gave me this face like "I don't belive you." And yet she says she trusts me. I just hate it.
Why are my parents getting on my nerves lately?
There is really one thing that's annoying me the most./: I was able to access Facebook on my phone about 1½ years ago. Well, about ½ a year ago some freak decided to hack my account and change my password. My parents told me I wasn't able to get on Facebook on my phone. I asked them for how long, and they said they'd see what happens. Well, it's been ½ a year and nothing has happened to my Facebook account. I asked if I was allowed to get on Facebook on my phone again and they said they'd tell me within 3 days. They talked about it and told me no. Their reason was because I'm still a teenager, and they think I'm too young, and I'm lucky to even HAVE a Facebook. Honestly, almost everyone has a Facebook!!!! I even saw on the news that 2nd graders had Facebook!!!! Seriously, 7 year old kids on Facebook!!!! Also, I am not allowed to have any pictures – other than my profile pictures, with a face in it. Any random person can go on your page, view your photos, and do whatever they want with it. My mom read that was a new “rule” and told me to remove photos. So... I can’t post any pictures I want of me and friends. Nor and I allowed to have photos tagged of me, even just like, cartoon things. Am I over-reacting on this; what should I do? If I told my parents why I think they're being ridiculous, they will yell/raise their voices at me; they will most likely ground me for a long time. I wrote in my journal about this, hoping my parents won't read it. My writings vent my feelings, but I'm still just angry. PLEASE, don’t look at this and go, woe, this is way to long for me to read, forget it. I read things this long, and longer!!!(:
Parents ughh..they just get on my nerves....!!?
ok..so i got grounded cuz one day..i came home and i had a hickey...my mom saw it ..nd she didn't do anyything cuz we were @ the mall..this happened on a saturday..during saturday class..like akways she told my dad..THEY both screamed at me ..so now i dont get to go to Saturday Class.. or the phone..i cant go out with friends anymore..or use the comp..except for homework..my dad doesn't talk to me since..Tommoroe is saturday nd i really wanna go..b'cuz i get credit for high school..what should i do?? They said that i lost their trust..
Ugh my parents are getting on my nerves.. what should i do?
i'm 21,have a full time job,go to college full time,pay my own bills,bought a new car in my name,pay college as well... and still have time to run two business on the side.my parents try to have say in everything.my mom isnt so bad besides the fact she and my dad say hateful things about my bf of 3 yrs. my dad is the worst one...he says my curfew is 12am (so is my 18yr old sisters),i can't go most places without her,i have to always answer thier 50 calls when im out,they don't agree with my choices or my ideas for my future.theyve threated to throw me out of the house if i go against them(ex.marrying my bf,finishing college,moving out)he always insults me calls me a loser,MF,stupid ***. we never resolve anything.& what he says always stays in my head & i feel like i'm not good enough.ive told them we should get family counseling,but my dad says no.he said i need to see a physciatrist.im trying to prove im an adult but they treat me the same as my little sister. what should i do?
How to tell your parents you got a piercing?
Please don't listen to anyone saying take it out. Your fourth and fifth holes are actually ear rim piercings and are part of your cartilage. Removing it too early can invite infections which can actually turn very serious and become hard to remove (in severe cases resulting in loss of hearing, permanent disfiguration of the ear, and even infection in the nerves & brain), as well as causing damage to the cartilage around it. Be honest with them, tell them you got them done, and in the future ask them before you do things, because soon enough they wont be so easy going if don't listen to them. Piercing yourself unprofessionally is never a good idea, either do it professionally, or don't do it at all. Hope it turns out okay.
What can I do if my parents give me anxiety?
Oh, great question. I’m going to answer anecdotally.Step One: Get some therapy or counseling. Just let it all out. Have a NORMAL conversation. Have the conversation you wish you could have with your parents but just can’t.Step Two: Get some boundaries. For me? That was remodeling my room, soundproofing it and getting a lock on the door.Step Three: Get some hobbies. Get out of the house as much as possible. I study at the library until like 9pm every day. I like it.Step Four: Save money to move out. Try to get a promotion. Or if you’re going to school, just focus on that. Then, move out as soon as possible.Now my issue is going to be making sure I see my parents enough so I don’t worry about them. Once every two weeks seems to be a happy medium.Good luck!
I came out as transgender three years ago and my parents told me to think about it more before committing. I'm ready for testosterone, but I'm nervous to bring it up again. How should I go about this?
The first thing about anxiety is it feeds off thoughts about the future.My oh my! My anxiety is probably the time my mind is the most imaginative. Coming up with stories I'd rather call fantasy than prediction.I'm sorry I don't know much about being a transgender. But I do know anxiety.The only thing to remember is, you don't know the outcome yet. Why don't you keep it that way in your head?I know. Thousands of thoughts swarm in. Hundred things you could say wrong, a hundred ways they could disappoint you. They are gushing in the sheer overflow drives you crazy. You can't get anywhere like that.That's exactly the point. Hold on. Catch up with your breathe. Remember you've done what they asked for. You've been understanding and patient. If you feel you are entitled to a decision now. It is yours and only yours. You shouldn't be nervous. You shouldn't be guilty.And you shouldn't anticipate. I know it sounds crazy to the person in the situation. But hope for the best and be prepared for the worst. Walk upto them not expecting anything at all, no unknowns are necessary. The only thing you need to hold onto is what you feel and your commitment to it.Nothing else really matters.No words are stronger than 'I am'.Defining yourself out loud is one of the most exilerating things. It sounds so true. It has as much power as you do. Imagine that.Imagine all the strength you've taken to accept, to move forward to try. Let it full your chest with pride and not worry. And when you go talk to them, I hope that helps keep your head held high.Just say it.Great things will follow.Have a little faith.I wish you all the best.