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Why is everything a problem for some people?

Every day I get home from school and Ryan has some problem with me. Whether it’s my shoes, the way the pantry is organized, or the amount of cologne I’m wearing. Ryan is always pissed as damn hell and walks around with a permanent scowl on his face. He needs to calm his *** down. How can I get to the bottom of Ryan’s problems? I’m sick of Ryan!!

My Mom thinks everything is hers. Mental problem?

It's definitely a drug addiction and your dad most likely has known for a long time. Speak to a school counsellor.

Why do I find everything boring? How can I solve my problem?

The point here is “how many things have you tried yet”?and “In which context are you asking this question”?In general even in academics everyone do like to study one subject among many and if you are talking about life in general I feel this is because either you are not trying so their is lack of exposure or you have created a mentality that you find everything boring.how on earth is this possible that u find nothing interesting among so many things.Sometimes you just need to ponder and give everything a shot.. Maybe in the process you find your one thing!

Why does my dad have a problem with everything I do?

By the question I'm guessing your under the age of 18 so I'm going to answer you as such. Honestly, no one on the internet can tell you the why without knowing your father. What I can say is things like this happen when parents see too much of themselves in you. He also, may see characteristics in you that reminds him of things he may not like about your mom. Its a toss up, but rest assured that its really not you with the problems. Its him… I imagine it has to be hard being ridiculed by someone you love due to what appears to be no fault of your own. This is where you have to grow thick skin. Try not to take it personal and know that he may see you going down paths or towards things he know will bring you trouble and doesn't know how to react to it in a more constructive way. Look, if he loves you he'll only want what's good for you and the problems he has may just be him being afraid that whatever you're doing, whoever you're hanging out with or wherever you're going isn't good for you. Look at it as a logically twisted protection mechanism.

Should we tell everything to our parents?

Should we?  I have a difficult time saying "yes" but that's because I don't.  In reality, I don't think you should because the information that you tell your friends and other family members is separated as well.  I don't think there are things that other people should ever know about you because of the personal nature.  On the other hand, you know the audience that you're divulging information to and you know what their reaction will be if you divulge something.There's at least one example that I can think of that should never be discussed with anyone and that's sex.  When I say sex, I'm talking about what you do during your performances, the props you use, how you like it, your fetishes, your fantasies.  Are these things that you'd be comfortable telling your parents about?Now for negative type information, I have a personal situation that I still haven't informed either of my parents about and that's the long distance relationship that I'm in.  I haven't told either parent for two very different reasons.I haven't told my dad because it would surely mean that we wouldn't be able to see each other as often as we do because I'd be moving out of state.  Knowing that I'd be moving out of state would break his heart but it's something that he'd be more supportive about than my mom.  When I do make the choice to pursue the long distance relationship to the next level, I will tell my dad.As for my mom, I haven't told her about the long distance relationship for one reason and one reason only.  The reason is the age difference between her and I.  My mom severely frowns on large age differences in intimate relationships.  I have asked my mom why she feels this way and she's never been able to give me a clear cut reason.  I know in the end, if I do decide to leave the state, my mom will know the reason and it's something that she'll have to overcome.When it comes to sharing information, you will only divulge what you want to individuals (this encompasses any friend or family member) based on the information you have about that person and whether or not you'll be judged for what you say.  No one likes to be judged, especially by their parents because they are supposed to love you unconditionally.So in the end, should you tell your parents everything, my answer is no.

Family problem; why does everything my aunt do annoy me?

OMG I had the same problem to you but this was years ago when I used to live with my grandma and aunt and cousins. My aunt was sooooo annoying, she kept nagging me and telling me off when I did something wrong. Maybe you should deal with it, and just don't look at her or talk to her because aunts can be annoying and wants to be intrusive

What does it mean to be told "you are my everything"?

Usually, as mentioned, it is a declaration of love. Although, make sure it is only that because in reality and in a healthy relationship you should not be your significant other’s everything.In my opinion, if someone needs you to make them happy or their entire world revolves around you then that is not a sustainable relationship. If someone wasn't happy before you met them does that mean they have suddenly dealt with their previous problems when they met you? No, it means they have temporarily set those aside and are in their own world with you.Eventually, whether it be weeks, months, or years those previous problems will come up and can be devastating as they have had many years to fester and grow.What I am basically trying to say is that make sure you can be happy alone and happy with yourself because your significant other should not be your source of happiness or vice versa. It would be draining if one person is the only one who is responsible for the happiness in a relationship. Of course everyone has their own issues to deal with but make sure you deal with them together and before you make any major life decisions.In closing, make sure that you are increasing each other's happiness and not that you need each other to be happy.

My parents complain about everything I do?

My parents complain to me about all my failures and shortcomings, is this normal?

They also try to dictate everything in my life, i have less than a year left before i turn 18, why can't they realize I'm capable of making my own choices? How do i convince them that I am capable?

The main problem is my dad, his mom just died and now his dad has stage 4 lung cancer, and is 8 months past his life expectancy, he could die any day. All the frustration my dad has , all the pain and fear, all the tension he has had with his dad, he is bringing it out on me, and causes me to hate my life, I have one year left of highschool then I can finally escape, how should I deal with my Dad?

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