I hate looking like my sister?
People tell me i look like my sister. People always ask if we are twins, others assume she is older than me, she is taller . i wish i could look unique i personally don't think i look like her and it bothers me alot when people say we look alike how can i stop feeling this way?
My younger sister hates people with down syndrome?
My grandma used to make fun of down syndrome children and my aunt told my mom that my grandmas going to regret saying things if someone in our family is ever born with down syndrome. Sure enough, a few years later, my brother was born and he has down syndrome. Then 7 years later my nephew was born and also had down syndrome. I'm sure my grandma is embarrassed that she ever made fun of children with down syndrome. You're sister very well might one day have a daughter with down syndrome or a family member with down syndrome if she ever does, make sure to remind her that you still remember all those awful things she said about them.
My little sister said that she hates her skin color. What should I do?
Dear Big Bro/Sis,It's endearing to hear that despite the length of time that has passed, you still have deep concern for her “love of self” and took it upon yourself to search for advice.I believe you hold the answer to that question. I sense your question is deeper: how will I know that she loves herself in spite of physical attributes, in spite of societal cues that sometimes tell us all to either love who we are or change or hate certain features?I have some questions for you.Did you ask her why she felt so? Have you followed up recently to find out if she even still feels that way today?Did you ask her how she felt about others skin colors and did it help her to like them more or not? Why or why not?Does she know what causes skin color?Ask her: what does our family look like? How do you feel about them? Does their “look” impact how you view them as people?What struggles is she familiar with or not about blacks? Has she read about famous figures who are black and what they faced because of their skin color, or rather what they accomplished in spite of what others chose to look at: their skin color.Her answers to these questions among others that I hoped sprung to your mind hold the keys to helping her see past her skin and into the truth of who she is. In fact, you may pleasantly be surprised that all she meant by it was: she wish it were darker! (Okay, I don't mean to belittle your genuine concern, but truth is, you need to dig deeper).We all make brash comments and statements of ourselves that we know not to be true or that we would never use to judge others by. Sometimes we all need a reality check as to why we feel and say the things we do to allow reason and critical thinking to serve its purpose.Love her. Tell her how beautiful her skin is but even more so how beautiful her mind, spirit and being are. Tell her what an impact she has on your life not because of her nose size, hair type nor skin color, but rather the kindred spirit that you share that until this day made you seek answers that helped you to tell her how much she means to you.Finally, be patient; love of self is a journey we all take, some get there faster than others. I'm over 40 and I'm still reminding myself:“If you have the ability to love, love yourself first.” Charles Bukowski
My dog hates my sister what should i do?
Get a new sister. Keep the dog.
Why My Sister Copies Me and Hates Me At The Same Time?
Your sister IS competing with you, to stay on top. She wants to be top dog. She wants what you have all the time. The best boyfriend, the best friends. I have had to deal with this from my own sister. Your honestly better off to just ignore her and go on with your own life instead of worrying about what she is doing. She obviously does not care who she hurts or how she does it. I, too, have been there for my sister but yet I am still treated like the black sheep of the family. Yes, family is supposed to help and support each other, but you do have to draw a line as to when you will not help. You can help too much and they learn to rely on it. They do have to learn to walk on their own and, even though it hurts, you have to let them sink instead of swim. Instead of letting her know the who, what, when, where of your life, keep it away from her. If your at family gatherings, be nice and say hi to keep things cordial but do not go beyond that. The less she knows, the less she can hurt you. Do not include her in hang-out time with your friends if you want to keep them and do not bring you boyfriend around as she will try to steal him away from you. You sister is one that feels the need to be better or be on top. People like this are difficult to live and deal with. No matter what you say, she will not change, especially since she is now 40 years old. She could be having a mid-life crisis, but I doubt that as this seems to be a life-long thing. I love my sister too, but I have resolved myself to keeping the peace and not divulging too much information about what is going on in my life that she can use it against me. She has done me wrong so many times that I have said enough and that she is on her own from here on out. Your sister is old enough to take care of herself and not have you fighting her battles for her. Its tough to do that to family, but take this experience and learn from it. I wish you best of luck and I hope that I have helped you some.
I hate my Sister In Law !!!!!?
I hate my sister in law. She has hated me from day one I married her brother. I have been with my husband for 16 years and married 13 of the years. She bad mouths me all the time treats me real bad at family gatherings. We have had verbal arguments and to know avail. I am now just not going to go to anymore functions. My husband has spoken to her and nothing helps. I am soon going to tell her that she is no longer welcome in my home. I have a sister in law from Hell.
How do I kindly tell my sister I hate her so much and that she is adopted?
Its true she is adopted but she doesn't know it. I want to see the look on her face when I tell her in front of everyone. I want to see her cry and feel bad. I don't want her to sit at the dinner table. She should wait till we are done and eat outside in the yards. I want her to stop talking to me and telling others that she is my sister. She can sleep on the porch because I want her room. Why doesn't she move out? Am I a loving brother??? She looks so good in that outift i bought her from khol's. She 18 and I am 26. She is really attractive and i can say that because she is adopted but i still hate her. She is stupid and sleeps with all of my friends. My dad hates her too. I try to make her cry everytime I get a chance. Last night at dinner I told her date that she had herpes. I thought it was great. She was crying and locked herself in her room for like 4 hours. It was great. She deserved it
I have a twin sister. I feel irritated just by looking at her. How do I not hate her?
I'm guessing you're a teen girl, because only teen girls can get irritated with someone just for living. My twin girls thought they had it so rough because they had to put up with each other. I told them all the time that their issues were not specific to twinship. One wished for an older brother and the other for a younger brother. I told the one that she's going to be mad at her older brother for going off and leaving her behind. The other one is going to be mad at the younger one for following her around everywhere. There's going to be a problem NO MATTER WHO IT IS. The one unique problem for twins is that people will treat you as a pair, especially if you hang out together and look alike (not just your physical traits but the way you dress and do your hair). Cultivate your own interests and spend time apart. Catching up at dinnertime will be much more interesting.