My sister makes me so angry what do i do?!?!?!?
My big sister makes me so dang angry i dont know what to do! she always gets mad and whiny when she doesnt get her way and when my oldest sister comes home she acts so different it makes me so aggravated! The other night after i was working out i went to their room to see what they were doing. and before 2 min she screamed "You said i can put a bump it in your hair!" i said no and then she kept making things up on when i agreed to let her and why. after i argued and said No she puts on this Bitchy little face on like a 5 year old not getting their way! for christ sakes im a 16 year old boy and shes about to turn 19 or 20! all im asking is for some word of advice and
Why is my sister always angry at me?
My sister and I are three years apart and fought like cats and dogs when we were younger. I'm 32 now and she is 29 and we are just getting to the point where we can have a conversation without jumping all over each other. Our birthdays are only a couple weeks apart as well and we are both Aires...probably a bad combination. I always thought that we were radically different from one another but then there are times when I wonder if it is that we are just too much alike to really be close...I'm still not sure. What I am fairly sure of though, is that when sisters fight it is rarely about the thing that started the fight...she doesn't yell because you asked her to do a small favor. She yells because there are huge under currents of emotion between the two of you that she doesn't know how to handle any better than you do. You are two teenage girls living in the same home and there is going to be a lot of jealousy, resentment, anger, and self centered emotions coming between the two of you for a while. The best thing you can do is give her space, you enjoy your space, and make up your mind that no matter what mean things she says you aren't going to treat her badly. If you make up your mind that nothing she can do will make you hate her and you do your best to not say mean things to her then you have more than 50% of the control. Know that when you get older and your parent(s) aren't around to hold the family together anymore it will be up to the two of you and any other siblings to remain close for the benefit of your children. You can't control how she feels about you and what other issues she is having in her own head concerning you but you can decide that having a sister is more important than hating each other and not speaking for years. Sometimes you have to bite your tongue, I do it a lot with my sister, but not saying something mean is better than having her actually have a reason to be mad. If you kill her with kindness and stay out of her way she will get over it at some point and you will have been the bigger person.
How can I repair my relationship with my sister when she won't talk to me anymore?
It’s hard to answer this in a more extensive manner since you did not explain the cause of the riff. I have no idea how deep the pain that was caused, if it’s just a matter of sibling rivalry,…But I believe that if you really want to repair your relationship, you don’t stop trying.Own up and apologize for any wrongdoing on your part. If she did wrong as well, do not bring that up anymore. Just tell her you want things like the way they used to be between the two of you. If she asks if you still blame her or something, tell her no, and do mean it. Do not dredge up the past. Tell her that your relationship means so much more to you. You don’t want to grow old hating each other when you can grow up and grow wise together.I think that’s what I would do if I were in your case. I do feel for you especially because I only have one sibling/sister. I don’t want to lose her due to some quarrel that over time, would seem petty in the end. But the damage has been done because of that.Don’t let that happen. Keep trying!
Why is my sister always mad at me?
Now im gonna tell you something about having you sister be mad at you because if there is someone who knows what its like having a mean bigger sister THATS ME.Things is there are mutiple variations and those are:You are a girlShe is youngerShe is olderYou are a guyShe is youngerShe is olderYou pick which one.If you got:She is jealous of you, she wants something you have, she is immature and hates you for being olderShe thinks shes better than you, shes immature, she thinks youre spoiled, she is jealous of you for having something she doesnt even though youre younger (this goes for both body, mind and parents attentionShe likes annoying you cuz youre older, she thinks something you do is bad, she is immature, you did something to upset her.She thinks she can tell what you should be like according to her ideal boy type, you did something to upset her, you are immature, she is immature, she thinks youre spoiled, she is jealous that you have some stuff that she might wantLook i can stay here all day long. The answer is always that you did something, she/he did something bad, you got something that they want, you are doing something bad etc. Asking such a general question is literally impossible to answer. We dont know anything about you two. You probably know why shes mad at you and if you dont you shouldnt ask on quora why she is mad at you, YOU SHOULD ASK HER.Its like me going to the cashier and be like “would i like what i just bought”. Shed say in 1 second “ how the f *ck am i supposed tl know that”
How do I become closer to my sister who is always angry at me?
Sometimes if your sister is mad on you. You have to ignore her and good with her. Because she is your big sister and your wellwisher.Whenever you need anything from your sister, she always help you and make the perfect best friend. She is your mirror, and she is more precious than jewels, nothing you desire can compare with her.Your sister may not always be at your side, but she is always in your heart. Remember , those who try to destroy between you and your sister ‘s happiness, do so out of jealousy, they are unhappy with their own miserable lives.Actually sisters are forever friends. Mainly jealousy and love are sisters. My mom says that sisters are for sharing laughter and wiping tears. That's true. Having a sister is having a best friend for life. My sister is one year younger than me and bosses me around all the time. I like her very much. Because I adore her.I love my sister for who she is.A sister is God's way of proving He doesn't want you to walk alone. So you have to good with her, no matter where your sister is she will always be in your heart.Your sister loves you,unconditionally.
My mom read my diary and got very angry?
Your mom should have more respect for your privacy. She shouldn't have read it once she knew what it was. Next, she shouldn't have gotten upset. This is how you felt at the time. You mom needs to chill out, and take a pill. And no I am not a teenager. I am 52 years old. And I got in trouble for reading my step sisters diary when I was young. It is a personal thing. As I say, she should applogies to you for reading it.
My sister got mad when I pointed out that she's fat. Why?
What, so she was surprised?!! She had no idea and needed to be told? She knows her weight. She doesn’t need you to tell her.Let me inform you of a little social etiquette: we don’t talk about how much money we make, we avoid conversations about politics and religion. We don’t tell people we don’t like their haircut, even if they ask we spin the answer. We don’t tell people we don’t like their boyfriends. And we don’t mention they’re skinny or fat.Being that you only had her health in mind, and that you know she knows, I’m sure you sat her down and lovingly and tactfully suggested ways to eat better: NOT! As a nudgy butiniski brother, you probably actually said it abruptly and unkindly, to push her buttons. You owe her an apology.Edit: You didn’t have your age in the original question. So, take her reaction as a lesson in things you don’t say to people. Apologize and she’ll hug you.