I hate my sisters boyfriend?!?
remind her that you'll be there for her if she needs someone to talk to. just make sure she knows that you're there for her and that you care about her. she'll open up to you if she feels that she needs to. if she doesn't want to then there's not much you can do about it. as for the boy, i don't think it's a question as to whether they should be dating. he's obviously a bad guy and letting him be near your sister will only make things worse for her. if he's really hurting her, you should talk to the guy. if he persists in hurting her, take disciplinary action. call the authorities or the school board or something. don't just sit around and let the problem get worse. do something. you're her brother.
I hate my sisters boyfriend?
I'm 24 and my sister just turned 17, our parents died 3 years ago so I'm the one who has always taken care of her. Anyway, her boyfriend of 3 months came over to pick her up last week so they can go to the movies. He greeted me in a good manor and this is where I start to hate him he said this "well Cole you know that everyone in our grade wants to go out with your sister, she's so hot and has that body that makes us all want to jump on her and have sex with her", I just nodded and sat down on the couch. My sister got ready and he said "hey Bella I thought you were going to wear a short dress or skirt, what happened? I said something short and tight" (she was wearing new jeans I bought her and a nice blouse with floral print and as always her black chucks). That comment was what pissed me off and my sister responded "well Jason I didn't agree to wear that slutty stuff, I just said it won't be something short" he said "fine but at least take off that ugly bracelet". The bracelet is not ugly at all it is a bracelet our parents bought her when she was 13 it has their names and a heart on it. I just had to ask if they've ever had sex or has he ever pressured her into sex. She said "we've already talked about it and I told him I want to wait till marriage or at least engaged but he said he really loves me and would like to do it sooner, I won't let him" I just smiled and nodded. Today she seemed really upset so I asked what was wrong (it was 1:00am and I didn't expect her to be up so late) she told me "nothings wrong" but I had to know so I grabbed her by her arm as she was walking away and she just got down to her knees and started crying. I asked repeatedly what was wrong, when I decided to pull up her sleeve and there was this bruise that looked like she was grabbed and they couldn't have been my marks because I didnt grab her where the mark was. I asked who did it and when I said Jason she went upstairs in her room and started crying (I could hear her bawling her eyes out). I'm scared it might be her boyfriend because I sense that he's demanding and the way he bosses her around is just horrible. I think he hits her but she won't talk about it with me! I know I'm an over protective brother but I still have to make sure she's safe. Here are my questions How do I get her to open up to me? And Should I still let her date the boy?
I hate my sisters boyfriend?
me and my sister have been close for years. until i moved in with my dad after my moms now feonsay assaulted me. she is my only full sister. we ran away when we were little we hung out everyday being weird and dancing crazy to our favorite songs and just being sisters. she is now 16 and im 14 about to be 15. i have had a few boyfriends and my sister always did something to make him break up with me. she had never had a real boyfriend i have seen her get hurt by guys that just use her as a booty call. first time she thought she was in love she was 12 and had sex with him. anyway, i love my family and i just started talking to all of them after about a year because they said i was lying about what my moms boyfriend did. and now my sister has a real boyfriend. his name is chaz. i don't like him at all. at first i thought he cool and i would say hi to him when i called her. but then i went to my hometown on vaca to see them and my aunt told me something that pissed me off so bad i flipped. she told me my sisters boyfriend was calling my brother fat and said he was going to kill my uncle and he cheats on my sister. and still does with this little girl. he is 17 and the little girl is 13. to me that is wrong. my sister keeps on going back to him when i know she can do better. ever since we were little she has let her friends bully me to be cool when i was 5 her boyfriend knocked me out. so i will not let anyone mess with my family like she let her friends. what do i do? i want to except him and get to know him he is my sisters boyfriend and all but how do i when he does this crap. i want to for my sister it kills her that i don't like him. but he is disrespectful and cocky, and an ***.
I hate my sisters boyfriend?
I hate my sister boyfriend. My sister is 19 am im 16. My sister and me were always close but ever since she got her boyfriend she always ditches me for him. Like an example would be if he is at work and he not at are house yet she will ask me to go with here somewhere but if he shows up 5 minutes he just leaves and goes with him and doesnt even ask if i still want to go with her. I know part of me hates him because he is kinda taking away my sister from me but the other part is just the way he acts he is SOOO controlling and if he doesnt like something he will act like a baby and start to whine. A part of me feels like he does not like me at all bc when i am talking to him he has this pissed off voice to him. I if like he has made my sister and relationship bad. Like i get made at her for not doing anything but im mad bc he is with her or if she is talking to her.. I know its wrong to get mad at her for being in love and happy but i mean i really dont like the guy. A im kinda sad that im loosing my sister., Sorry this is long. do you think its crazy for me to be mad at my sister?
I hate my sister's boyfriend!?
Me and my sister agreed with everything, until she found her first boyfriend: they've been together for 2 years now. The problem is, whenever me and my sister gets into a conflict, he always comes inbetween us and targets me. Just recently, my sister and I got mad, so I decided to sleep with my mom. She complained to her boyfriend that she was afraid, and he talked to my mom about how vicious it was for me to leave her alone on the second floor. He then verbally attacked me, calling me horrible names. All this time, my sister has done nothing. I feel so betrayed, as I was ALWAYS there for her when she faced a conflict with her boyfriend. Then when I told my mom, my sister defended him, saying it was all my fault. The thing is, he doesn't even know how my sister and I are like normally, so he really has no right to judge me. Right now, I'm deciding not to talk with either of them. But is this the right decision? I really don't want my sister to be with this guy. But what can I do?!
Is it normal to hate my sisters boyfriend?
k. the thing is that I always have problems with my sisters boyfriends, I can't stand seeing her kissing him, and I can't stand him! and it's about him personally, because I also had problems with he x-boyfriend! is it normal? why does it happen!
I hate my sister's boyfriend. What do I do?
The only thing you can do here is to grit your teeth, bite your tongue, and keep saying to your sister, "I just want you to be happy." Repeat as necessary. You don't have to like him, but if your sister feels like her family is ganging up on her about this guy, she'll choose the guy. Furthermore, is she ever DOES decide she doesn't like him as much as she thought she did, she'll be reluctant to break up with him because she won't want to hear, "I told you so!" out of her family. So you need to make it clear that you love and support your sister. Don't mention the guy. Don't bring him up. If she brings him up, just tell her, "I just want you to be happy." I dated a lot of jerks, and some stuck around longer than others. But when the inevitable meltdown happened, I knew I could go to my family, because they always made it clear that they "just wanted me to be happy." And they NEVER said "I told you so." Even when they had. Good luck.
What should I do? My boyfriend hates my sister’s boyfriend to an extent where he wants me to choose between him (my bf) and my sister. I love my sister more than anyone on this Earth and I love my boyfriend to bits.
Your boyfriend clearly has a lot of maturing to do. Always pay attention when someone wants to divide instead of unite. He doesn't want to make amends, tolerate or forgive whatever the trespass is so instead he would rather you pay with your relationship to your sister. His love and respect for you should cause him to tolerate and/or forgive the person because of you. To love means patience, kindness. It's not envious, boastful, arrogant or rude. It doesn't insist on its own way. Would you say he is operating out of love for you? For you to decide. It's alright to love someone, but when they “try” to make you choose between relationships that person clearly does not care how this affects you and is extremely selfish. Never allow anyone to hold you and someone you love hostage because they refuse to operate in love. Talk with him and let him know that your relationship with your sister is not a bargaining chip, it's for keeps.
My boyfriend's sister hates me. What can I do?
She may hate you because she is close with her brother and her fear has gotten the best of her since you are probably taking away the little free time he has on you instead of her. How to deal with that….invite her along with you 2 or get to know each other without her brother around, find a common ground of the things the three or two of you like to do. It’s completely natural and if it weren’t you, she’d probably hate most of his girlfriends, so relax and take it in stride, always be inclusive not exclusive. I find that works best!