Can my Step Mom spank me?
Im 12 and my step mom said she's gonna spank me. Here's the story. My bio dad is on a business trip. My bio mom not around. So i get stuck with SM. Not a big deal live with my bio dad and SM most of the time. So i walk in the door from school. SM says " Hey Sof (my nickname) what do you have for homework?" I say " Stuff" BTW this annoys her when i say things like stuff, things, or if i said home work she would get really annoyed to all of these answers. Then she says " Sophie I know you didn't just say stuff. Now what do you really have for homework." I think for a sec well dad's not home I'm gonna test her nerves. I say " I just have some papers and STUFF" he he he devil comes on my shoulder while angel never appeared sadly. SM says " Sof are you PMSing" I say " what the hell! Are you serious?!" OK at least i didn't say wtf because now i super happy that i didn't. SM says " Sophie Elizabeth Go to your room NOW!!" now I'm not thinking she's gonna spank me or anything. Then she comes up the stairs with THE PADDLE! Now I'm freaking out. She pulls down my pants AND underwear. Then puts me in diaper postion. She smacked gave me 10 swats on each buttock and thigh. It really hurt at the end. Then i was told to stand in the corner. Once i was done with that she hugged me and tickled me. She told me if i ever did that again i would be spanked harder and longer. She called my dad and I'm expecting another spanking from him soon. So do you think she should have done that. Aren't I a little old for spankings. BTW this happened last week on Friday. I had no school sice Mon. because of all the power outages. I have power thank god! I would have been fine with just a grounding. Oh and I'm a girl.
My step mom spanked me? Please read?
I am a 17 year old girl and I have a dad and step mom. We have a bad relationship. I used to always pull mean pranks on her when I was younger because she was so mean. She would act nice when my dad was around, then the second he left, she would turn into the devil. She makes fun of me, calls me names, and has even pushed me and slapped me on some occasions. Anyways, my dad is out of town until Monday, and today here's what happened... my step mom and I got into an argument because I wanted to go out with my friends and she said no. I said "why, so you can keep me here to bully me?" and she said something along the lines of "Is that what you tell your dad, you little b*tch? You don't deserve anything good." And I said "That must be why you're in my life" Then all the sudden she grabbed me and I tried to fight back (but she's really strong, she's one of those abnormally muscular women) and she put me over her lap and spanked me with her belt. I had shorts on, but they're cotton shorts and provided no protection, really. My butt is a little bruised. What do I do? I am livid. I can't stand this lady. Please help before I go absolutely insane.
My step brother spanked me for no reason. What do I do?
My mom and step dad are away for the holiday week and my 24 year old step brother is in charge. I'm 16. Today I was on my computer messaging on facebook when he walked in the room and started yelling at me because I'm "too young to have a facebook." My mom knows I have a facebook and allows me to, and I calmly told him that. Then he told me to get off the computer and go to my room because I was in trouble for back talking and hed be in there to talk to me later. I waited in my room listening to my ipod, and when he came in he told me I was getting a spanking for talking back to him and I was going to get it worse now for listening to my ipod. I tried to run but he grabbed me and put me over his lap, flipped up my skirt and started spanking me. I fought back but he just spanked harder. He even spanked me on my bare botom. I feel violated. What should I do? My parents won't be back until friday.
Step dad spanked me........?
ESounds funny but im 25, my wife and I had to stay with parents for a while. Admitedly I had been backtalking my mom. I had even cussed her. My step dad told me to stop, I didnt. He grabed my ear and basicaly pulled me to the next room and spanked my bottom with his belt. It went on forever. My mom, wife and sister heard the whole thing from the next room. The house was quiet, my spanking was not, neither was I. I got sent in to apologize to the women, who were very amused even my own wife. Then sent to the room till dinner where it HURT to sit. Did he go to far? I was being rude but still....and was my wife wrong to be amused even though I was being rude to her and my mom?
What age should you stop spanking your kid?
The last time my father ‘spanked me’ I was 16 yrs old [64 yrs old now] He had this thing about us boys, ‘BEND OVER AND GRAB YOUR ANKLES !” And he would use a belt.The last time he did that he swung that belt five times and five times I started ‘LAUGHING’! He got pissed then, he turned it around and used the buckle end, I LAUGHED HARDER… [Dumb teenager didn't know any better] Then, he stood me up and said, “SO YOU THINK YOUR A MAN NOW, HUH? WELL YOUR WHOPPIN’ DAYS ARE OVER!!! FROM THIS MOMENT ON, I’LL TREAT YOU LIKE A MAN… FROM NOW ON!”Two weeks later, our report cards were ‘mailed’ home instead of given to us. I seen Dad at the dinning room table and he said, “Bill, give me your keys.” [I had problems with it running rough and I gave up my keys] … “When these grades come up, you’ll get the Keys back!” I was pissed and I said, “I BE A SON-OFVA-BITCH!!!” Well, Dad had what I call ‘Selective Hearing Disorder’ and the only thing he heard was ‘SON-OFVA-BITCH!!!’ Then he motioned for me to come closer and like a good son, I LEANED IN and met a LEFT UPPER CUT! [He was left handed]I woke up an hour later in my bed with a swollen jaw and a loose tooth!I seen him and ask him why he belted me in the jaw like that… his answer.“BOY, LET THAT BE THE LAST TIME YOU EVER CALL YOUR DEAR ‘OL DAD’ A SON-OFVA-BITCH!!!”“Dad, I never called you one… I SAID, I BE A SON-OFVA-BITCH !!!” [My Dad and Mom was divorced when I was a lot younger] … His reply: ‘Well, you are!” and went back to reading the paper!*NOTE*This happened in the late ’60s and ‘CHILD ABUSE’ was clearly not well known. Years later, when I was on the County Police. I ask my step-mother where Dad was? She said glued to that TV on downtown court. I went in and seen the case he was glued to: A woman was taking her father to court for child abuse! She was 30+ yrs old and he was 60+ yrs old. The case came after 15 yrs.I glance over at Dad and said, “Dad, remember when you use to whip Larry, me and Eddie with that belt?” He turned to me with a worried look. “And you used the buckle on me…[I started laughing] …DON’T WORRY, I WON’T FILE CHARGES!!!” He had a few choice words for me, then I took him to our favorite ‘watering hole and bought him a beer!
I was disrespectful so my dad spanked me?
My dad just spanked me with a hairbrush for telling my step-mom to shut the hell up. He sent me up to my room and while I was waiting for him to come up I put a pair of jeans on, so it wouldn't hurt as bad. He told me to go put the other pants on and I said no, so he pulled my jeans down and spanked me over my underwear. He said if I ever disrespect my step-mom like that again he would spank me with a belt. I'm 14 and I don't think he would spank me with a belt, but I really don't like my step-mom. Should I be mean to her or should I just pretend I like her?
My step dad grounds me 4 no reason?
Been There Done That has a good point, well half of one. You might not be aware of what you are doing. Good parenting would have him explain why he grounded you before doing it. Part of growing up is learning to act maturely. I use those words because it really is an act. Most adults aren't mature, but those who can act like it get a lot further in life. Keep a firm grip on what you are feeling and ask him to explain why he grounded you. Even though you will probably be thinking, "those aren't good reasons", or "that never happened", don't let it show on your face, just ask him what you can do to make it better. If he won't be reasonable, or the insults are extremely hurtful, (be realistic if what he is doing is excessive compared to other dads), then tell someone at school. Best of luck to you.
Is it wrong not to hug my stepmom?
My parents divorced when I was a baby. My older brother and sister have a few memories of them being together, but not many. Our dad married our stepmom almost 10 years ago and they've been together close to 13. So she's been around almost my whole life. I know I probably should be close to her or love her because of that, but I don't. Neither do my siblings. They dislike her a lot more than I do, which has meant dad puts more pressure on me. I'm at my dads house now and last night we had this really awkward dinner because my stepmom started talking about when I was little and I'd push her away and refuse to hug/kiss her, but would hug/kiss my mom and dad and siblings. My dad agreed with her and told me to start treating her like part of the family. I was uncomfortable and tried to leave, but he threatened to ground me. Things got worse before I went to sleep. I was talking to my brother and my stepmom wanted to talk to him but he hung up on her when she took the phone off me. Then I wouldn't hug her (again). My stepmom is very strict. She's been this way since we were kids and we've always had to sneak around with some things. Like friends. She hates two of my friends and my brothers best friend and we weren't allowed to talk or hang out with them during our week with her and my dad. But we also had to hide our talking to them while with our mom because she'd punish us once we got there. Even now.
One more questuon about my stepmom??
I'm a stepmom, and my 10 yo stepdaughter calls me by my first name, or M'aam. Her mother is still alive although she refuses to contact her daughter. I've never had a problem with my sd calling me by my first name, and she's been living with us for 4 years. Maybe your stepmom is afraid of trying to replace your mom, and is trying to distance herself. I'm not sure what to say about the grounding....it seems pretty dumb to ground a 16 year old for silly stuff like that. Does she have any children of her own, or are you the first child she has been around in a parental sense? I would suggest that you sit down and try talking to her. Tell her that you love her and want to have a special name for her. It wouldn't necessarily have to be Mom or Mother since she seems to be skittish about that...but it would be something to warm her up. I don't think she hates you. I think she's just trying too hard. Good luck! Carol