My stepmom talks bad about my mom!?
I'm so tired of it! My stepmom can be so mean... my dad has to pay for my moms house rent because she's poor. So what? okay, I know she can sometimes be selfish but I'm tired of my stepmom holding her head high and acting like she's such a good person and that my moms crap. She says how my mom and her ex should hookup because they both are terrible. ( somewhere around that ) and she says my mom is the reason my dad has so much stress and she doesn't even do anything that should stress him! I just don't know how to handle my stepmoms hurtful words because today was a great day with my mom and I and we had so much fun together. But I cried when my stepmom said that hurtful thing because my mom actually is loving and sweet and I just love her. I just don't know what to do. I did say after she said that not long ago, "if you want to say bad things about my mom, say it to my dad not my face because I don't appreciate it and it hurts my feelings!!" and then I stormed to my room. I just need advice
My stepmom doesn't talk to me what should i do?
Not much info like how long a step mom, where is your mom, do you live with her primarily of part time? But my first question is; is that really such a bad thing? If it is then, try noticing something she gets engaged in like a book, film, television program, issue or hobby. Walk up to her sometime that things are slack and, as an example, hold the book in your hand and say, "Tell me about this book, is it interesting? Would you recommend it? Just try to get her talking. If she doesn't respond well just say 'I am trying to get into an engaged conversation with you. Lets get used to each other'
Why does my stepmom always talk bad about my mom?
My mom and dad had me when they were both 20 and still in college. They had a one night stand, so they never got together, but when they had me, they just stayed friends and dated other people, but still took care of me. My mom got married to my stepdad when I was 1 and my dad married my stepmom when I was 4. My mom and dad are on pretty good terms, so its not like they hate each other. But, my stepmom always talks bad about her. I am living at my dad's this week (I change weeks with him and my mom). I came home around 7 from swimming with some friends and went to start cooking dinner. My step mom walks in and asked did I have fun and how my day was. I told her we went swimming at the lake and tanned with my girls and it was fun. We continued talking and laughing about different stuff, when I tell her how my mom was suggesting that I get a new make over before senior year starts, like do my makeup differently, change of my style, of cut my hair,. Before I could finish saying, "and I agree with ther because I've been wanting to try this new clothing store out in the mall" my step mom says, "Your mom is always trying to change you. Always wanting to cut that beautiful long curly hair of yours, always wanting to lose weight when you are already skinny, or making you dress like a whore. Just because she dressed like one when she was younger doesn't mean she needs to make you to" then she goes on about how she spread her legs and having a one night stand with my father, and how she was stupid for ever thinkin about aborting me (she thought about aborting me when she found out she was first pregnant but changed her mine) and how if my stepmom had the power, she would take me from that whore's hands and let me stay with my dad full time. I told her to shut up and ignored her the rest of the night. Everytime I am actually having a decent convo with her, she always bashes my mom and I have no clue why? My mom has barely spoken to my stepmom over the past 17 years unless it inolved something about me.
Why does my stepmom always talk bad about my mom?
My mom and dad had me when they were both 20 and still in college. They had a one night stand, so they never got together, but when they had me, they just stayed friends and dated other people, but still took care of me. My mom got married to my stepdad when I was 1 and my dad married my stepmom when I was 4. My mom and dad are on pretty good terms, so its not like they hate each other. But, my stepmom always talks bad about her. I am living at my dad's this week (I change weeks with him and my mom). I came home around 7 from swimming with some friends and went to start cooking dinner. My step mom walks in and asked did I have fun and how my day was. I told her we went swimming at the lake and tanned with my girls and it was fun. We continued talking and laughing about different stuff, when I tell her how my mom was suggesting that I get a new make over before senior year starts, like do my makeup differently, change of my style, of cut my hair,. Before I could finish saying, "and I agree with ther because I've been wanting to try this new clothing store out in the mall" my step mom says, "Your mom is always trying to change you. Always wanting to cut that beautiful long curly hair of yours, always wanting to lose weight when you are already skinny, or making you dress like a whore. Just because she dressed like one when she was younger doesn't mean she needs to make you to" then she goes on about how she spread her legs and having a one night stand with my father, and how she was stupid for ever thinkin about aborting me (she thought about aborting me when she found out she was first pregnant but changed her mine) and how if my stepmom had the power, she would take me from that whore's hands and let me stay with my dad full time. I told her to shut up and ignored her the rest of the night. Everytime I am actually having a decent convo with her, she always bashes my mom and I have no clue why? My mom has barely spoken to my stepmom over the past 17 years unless it inolved something about me.
I haven't talk to my step mom for months, what can I do?
Oy. Stepmother problems I know.As difficult as it is, try to be respectful and kind, even if she is not. You can ask her what you can do, WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT, NOT WHEN SHE IS IN A FULL RAGE, to help make things better. Choose a moment when she is more relaxed or friendly, if that ever happens.If at all possible, try to get into family counselling with your stepmom, that way, you will have another adult to back you and try to smooth things out. This story is older than Cinderella, but then, again, look how that one turned out.
My step mom hates my real mom?
so you can either A. talk to her and tell her to leave your one true mommy alone IF THAT DON'T WORK B. Say: LISTEN DID YOU GIVE BIRTH TO ME? NO SHE DID SO SHUT THE H-E-L-L UP ABOUT MY MOM! C.talk to your dad he might be able to calm his bitchy wife down D say to your step mom ILL KNOCK YOU ON UR FCKING @$$ IF YOU SAY THAT AGAIN E. if your mom has a brother(s) or you have maternal half brothers get them to say it for you :) F. just punch her G. tell your dad you saw her sleeping with another man or that she is a prostitute that will get rid of her and her smugness H. KICK HER @$$ OR AT LEAST SLAP HER I. tell her your dad and your mom are having an affair J. have your mom defend herself K, talk it out with your real parents L. ask to go live with your mom full time M. say ATLEAST MY MOM HAS MANNERS AND RESPECT FOR OTHERS N. start calling her Cruella devil or Hitler O. just tell her to back off nicely P. ask you mom if she can file for sole custody Q.annoy her to death R. tell your dad his wife is treating you with disrespect by insulting your mom S. tell them if they don't show your mom some respect you will take them on a talk show like MAURY ANDERSON LIVE or KATIE T.make fun of her mom U. apply to be on maury Anderson live and Katie maury is best tho because he wautomaticallytake your side V. tell her if she doesn't respect your mom you wont respect her or your father W. tell her that of course your dad loves your mom they have a permanent bond named...YOU X. just ignore her Y. you and your mom can make fun of her and see how she likes it! and last but not least Z. get her some HOT coffee or tea spill it on her and say "sorry bout that I guess god burns people that lack manners and respect "
My mom is so jealous of my stepmom, PLEASE HELP ME!?
Ok, so my father recently married in December to a women named Eleanor. She is the sweetest person I ever met. Shes even nicer then my real mom. My real mom always talks terribly bad about my stepmom and dad right infront of me. I feel like i'm stuck in the middle of everything. My stepmom and dad live 8 hours away from, so I don't get to see them that often, but when I do go down to visit, my mom cries when I'm gone and says things like, I'm not going to come back. Then when I was down there visiting, my mom and "stepdad" came down there also to visit are other family members, and my stepmom wanted my mom to come over so badly and meet her and talk to her and be friendly. But my mom wouldn't do it. I think maybe the reason my mom feels this way is because, my sister lauren who is 21 went down for there wedding, but I couldn't and after that they asked her to come down and move in with them and she did. Now there asking me to live down there and my sister is even saying I should come live down there. I'm only 14. They want me to live down there very much. What should I do? Please someone help me!