My bf wont give me any space?
My boyfriend and i have been together for four years. He always thinks that we need to do everything together if i want to have a girls night out, he wants to come, if i want to go stay with my family, its you dont love me or he guilt trips me so i dont want to go, or makes me feel bad if i do. I am the type of person who needs my own space and own times and i have tried telling him and i just get a o you dont love me crap.. He doesnt really have any friends, and the ones he does he doesnt want to hang out with. Now i have been talking to a guy, and me and the guy kinda fell for eachother, and my bf knows and so i pretty much stopped talking to the guy friend of mine to save our relationship... but the problem now is i have absolutly NO time to myself, he wnt go to bed til i do, if i go somewhere he just calls and text if i am gone for more than 30 min. i feel like i am being smootherd and i dont know what to do. Thanks for reading this advice plz? We also have a 8 month old baby
My girlfriend wont give me space!!!?
for example in the span of a week ill see her every day i barley see my family and when i do its not for very long plus i work mornings so when i get home i go straight to see her.i dont hang out with my friends that much and when i do it only for one day and that makes her mad and she nags for me to get home early.she says a i dont sacrafice alot but im patient and i give her 80 percent of my time..how do i get her to realize she needs to give me aleast one day with friends every once in a while while???? PLEASE mature answers
My boyfriend is clingy and won't give me space.?
My boyfriend is clingy, codependent, needy, and over emotional. Although I care for him...he is making me crazy...I asked for space..a break, just for some breathing room and he gave me an ultimatum. He said today if I didn't move back into our place (I have been staying with my mom for a week now), it was over. Is he being selfish or is this justified? I just wanted to take a step back, because he was making me so insane. I left because he doesn't have friends of his own...drinks too much...never wanted to go out and I started to lose my attraction to him. I thought a break may bring back those loving feelings I once had. This whole week instead of reconnecting with friends and family, he has been acting crazy. Emailing tons of my friends and asking them how to win me back, emailing a co-worker and asking her what was up with me, and as far as texting my mom about all of this...it is over the top. The situation isn't all that complicated...he was smothering me and I left for a bit...that's it. Did I do this to my boyfriend or is there underlying problems with his mental stability and security?
Help! My boyfriend won't give me space! What should I do?
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half. I love him to death, but there's one thing I have an issue with - he won't give me space. We literally do everything together. The only time we're not together is when we're at work. If I wanna do something and it doesn't work with his schedule, he will change his schedule to make it work so he can join. This is becoming extremely annoying, because sometimes I want to have lunch with my friends without him. Sometimes I want to talk to my friends about my relationship, where we are in it, where I hope it goes, etc - but I can't really have those kinds of convos with him there with me all the time. Why do you guys think he's like this? What can I do to change it without being rude or hurting his feelings? Thanks!
How come my ex wont give me a second chance?
She left me for reason i can't quite understand. she left me because the little things she found cute at the beginning of our relationship began to annoy her. its been a month since she left me and i been devastated ever since. no matter what i do (hobbies, friends, etc) i think about her every moment, even when im asleep. i loved her so much, and when i try to tell her that I am sorry for all those things that bugged her and that i can change, she wants me to go away. she says its best if we never talk again. her whole family loved me, and took my side of the break up. and after this month, when i tried to talk to her again about fixing this she says things have been too weird this past month to ever get back together. and now she is gone from my life. i feel so much pain right now. i loved this girl so much, and even thought i would marry her. now she is gone. and i dont think i will ever see her again. why did she leave me? she didnt leave me for another guy, for that i am absolutely positive. she isn't even planning on dating anyone. so why wont she let me fix things. i miss her so much.
Why won't my girlfriend let me comfort her when she's sad(independent women much appreciated)?
I am the same way- I do not want to be perceived as weak, or unable to handle things. Its nothing personal, if she wants some one to hold her up- trust me you will be the first to know. Instead of trying to physically comfort her- just sit there and LISTEN to her. Rub her feet, cross pinkies (hold hands). Buy her a card, surprise her with flowers, just let her know you know she is feeling sad and you hope that she feels happier soon. Stick a calling card inside of a care package and deliver it to her with her favorite candy, new book- something small to make her mile. If she doesn't want to be comforted physically- then find another way to do it.