I get mad about friends who drink?
Only you yourself will be able to work this out, but I'll guess and see if it gives you any ideas of why you might be like this... Two of my friends (who dont know each other) are really against alcohol and I think this is why... Person 1: Feels that she's better than those who drink, she actually puts on a disgusted look when someone is drinking in front of her and makes a big deal about even the smell of alcoholic drinks..... I don't think this is your situation though as you would know that you think your better than drinkers already??? Person 2: Finds it weird that people drink to get drunk - he simply doesnt understand it - he's not 'against' it he just thinks it's pointless, a waste of time and would rather just hang with mates who are sober and having a good time.... this might be your case??? Either way in person 1's case I think, if she feels she's 'better' than everyone else... why is it that some people who enjoy alcohol buy bottles of wine upwards of 100... they have to have good careers to be able to afford that type of drink! In persons 2's case... ok it's not something that he likes, but he's gotta let people get on with what they want... they enjoy it so as long as they're responsible whats the harm? I think maybe you find it pointless? and would rather your friends were sober and have fun without alcohol? and you probably find that alcohol takes away from a lot of oportunities e.g. going to the cinema for example? At the end of the day, they enjoy it so you've just gotta let them get on with it. This is assuming they are of drinking age...
What should I do when my friends are mad at each other?
Stay out of it! Otherwise it will probably end badly for you and you will end up loosing both of them.If you interject, they will feel you are taking sides. At this moment in their minds, you'll be taking sides with the opposition!If you wish to hear them both out separately, the one you listen to last, will assume you care more for the other. Definitely not your intention.The only way around it, would probably be to arrange a quiet lunch in a neutral setting, convenient to both. Just the three of you.Consider starting the conversation with “I like/love you both very much and it pains me to see you argue. I'm not here to take sides. I've arranged this meeting in hope that this issue will be sorted out. Not everyone has the same ideas and opinions; but as friends we accept that the other feels differently & as a friend we can accept the others choice and not impose or inforce our ideas on the other. Let's try and sort out what has caused this rift between you.”And then you will have to accept their decision, regardless of the result, because you feel that the above statement was true of your intentions.But from my personal experience, in some warped way, it will all become your fault and you should have stayed out of it and let them work it out for themselves.Friendship = A reason. A season. A lifetime. That's why they are in your life.Good luck.
My friend (girl) is extremely angry at me and I don't understand why?
Their is nothing you can do, you did tell her that you was sorry, and that was that! She is mad, because you should not have gone into her phone, that was private and personal info, and she may have thought you even looked at other things in her phone. At this point their is nothing you can do, just go on with your life!
What do I do when my two friends hate each other?
Believe me this a real trouble .I will tell you a very interesting story of mine only . I usually had a group of four closest friend like we all were in deep friendship. We used to roam , eat , party , booze all together .One day one among us fell in love with a girl , we three other were happy for him , they were in a relationship . But the twist came when we came to know that one among three of us also loves the same girl . And then starts the fight between two of the friends among four of us. I and other friend were very worried , because the other two were always fighting for that girl .We decided to do something for them , we tried to make them understand that the girl will one day leave you both , but we are best friends . Please don't ruin our friendship . But ego played it. They were not ready to listen . That time girl was more important as usual it happens .We decided let them fight , one day they will surely understand. .They learnt their lessons. The girl left both of them .And for God's sake we are again together . Though we stay 1000s of kms far . We love each other.First time going anonymous .Hope this helps !
Should i be mad if my friend lied to me and blew me off?
Well I think you should be a little mad but, not extremely that you don't talk to her. You should confront her about the situation. Just go to her and say I thought we were best friends but you are lying to me and blowing me off. What's up? Are you really my friend or not? Also if she really was your friend then she wouldn't want to miss your party. Maybe she isn't the good friend that you thought that she was.? I hope you and your friend resolve this problem! I hope I have answered your question. With love, ♥Lindy♥
My friends are annoying me?
I have two friends that are twins. We don't have many similarities in hobbies and interests but i love them... sorta.... maybe,. The only thing that makes me want to slap the **** out of them is the fact that they constantly compare me to the personality I had a year ago, which i think is still the same! Such as "You've changed so much! You're like an entirely different person!" And they say it in a negative way. They also are straight forward in there answers, telling me if I'm being mean because my friend asked me how her face looked and i told her the truth, or how I'm weird because I like a wide variety of music and not just rap. Also It's not just them being straight forward, its the fact that they always agree with each other and gang up on me when we discuss things and tell me I'm wrong when I know I'm right. (I'm a smart ***) They get mad when I go to there house and hang out with one more than the other and then complain how I'm not there friend anymore because we don't hang out for one night! I'm getting so tired of being their friends!! They completely bore me because we don't have the same interests. I like the news, politics, and reading, learning more about the world. They're into jersey shore, their looks, drugs, and alcohol.(I like the last two I just get tired of talking about them everyday) I'm seriously contemplating on whether or not I should make new friends. But It's extremely difficult for me because I have anxiety and depression. But finally I'm getting medication for it, so maybe I should start to make new friends. Also I'm there only friend they've got so i don't know :/ So I was wondering what I should do about this problem I'm having with, and how I should deal with it!! 10 points to best answer!!
I introduced two of my good friends to each other and they have become very close friends. For some reason I'm not liking them together. How can I handle this situation in a better way?
Let's start with one simple concept people don't seem to understand - You don't own anyone nor does anyone owe you.Now what can you do? Start focusing on yourself. Focus on how you interact with each of them separately, and also when they are together. If it is working for you or if you can make it work for you - great. If not, then take a break from them and focus on other things. It is surely insecurity and that can only be addressed by building your own self confidence and not by anything they do for you. Focus on that. Why you feel you can't have great friends? Why do you get jealous? What can you change about yourself to be better at friendships? Are they really the best you can have with your long term goals in mind? Are you at a stage of relating to them or need to grow? So on and on.Now, don't be killing yourself over these questions. Just reflect on one thing at a time. Don't over react and keep improving yourself.
What does it mean to dream that your best friend is angry at you and doesn't want to be your friend anymore?
It means you subconsciously or consciously (only you know) are afraid of losing her and others because of an insecurity about yourself. Youre wrapped up in thinking that she doesn’t or won’t like you because of something you think you are doing or will do. You probably feel slightly insecure about your relationship with her and feel she might drift away from you or turn on you easily.Or, you may have actually done something bad to her and your subconscious is worried that it has affected her. But I feel like if your questioning why you had a dream where she was angry you obviously don’t think you’ve done anything ill willed so my bet is on the first option.Just try to relax and let your guy’s relationship flow naturally. Don’t feel anxious or try to push anything in it. Be open and honest maybe even tell her about the dream and see how she reacts. Either way, I’m sure everything will be fine afterall, it was just a dream. :)
Friend gets mad over little things?
Her "friend" probably wanted to work with someone cooler. It depends what they fight about and how bad the fights are and how they make up. In the past I lost two friends in two different fights. They were the worst days of my life because I got so hurt and would cry for hours because my "friends" were nice, yes, but when we fought I saw their true self: bitches. I never started the fights. I dropped the friendship, actually telling them we couldn't be friends anymore, that I didn't want to deal with the fighting. Now, I've got so many great friends around me who support me and invite me to fun parties and stuff. If we do fight, it's just something small, not even a fight, just a slight disagreement, but that rarely if ever has happened. Remember, no one is forcing your friend to be friends with the other girl. Friends are supposed to be fun and kind, if the hurt and fighting is greater than the fun and kind, then the friendship isn't even friendship anymore.