I need advice.....my life feels worthless?
i think that you might feel that way now but no one really knows why we feel sad. i think we all look for someone to accept us so we can't accept ourselves until they do. but we have to be able to listen for them they might be saying it and we can't hear them. so listen for them. and maybe you will be able to start accepting yourself for who you are and you won't think that way anymore.
I'm 16, I'm ugly, I feel worthless, I have braces, I'm a blue eyed brunette, and just want to be labeled as hot?
Blue eyed brunette!? You sound gorgeous! Braces isn't anything to be ashamed of! Most people will get them/need them in their life. you think yours ugly? That's that annoying voice in the back of our heads we all have that points out everything. I have insecurities to, but I try and love my self because if I don't love my self who will? You should try when you go to a mirror, instead of saying the negative things, list all the postitive things. Stay stromg
I feel so dumb and worthless?
You are not dumb nor are you worthless. Do not sell yourself short. You have managed to find and keep employment in a time when that is not an easy thing to do. You are now finding that you have come to a point in your life where you think you are at a standstill and you can't do anything about it. We all get there. I suspect that some of your depression may be caused a bit by the fact that you are feeling unhappy in what you are doing. Having said that you may need to see someone about receiving treatment for the depression to assist you with this. Next part, start looking around and think of what you would like to do besides working in the factory. Do you want to work in an office, do you want to work outside, do you want to work your way through a technical college and get a degree in something else? There are a lot of possibilities. Then I would check into any possible funding assistance you may qualify for through the school, through the government, through training programs, through social services. Sometimes there are great chances for paid learning opportunities if you choose to go into a program where the government is hoping to increase the trained people in that field. Check it all out and go for it. You can't change where you have been and where you have been is probably not bad - thing is you want to move on now and you can make so many different steps and moves to make your future the one you want.
Do you feel so ugly and worthless everyday? Do you feel nobody will ever want to actually date you?
Not every day, but sometimes.Yes, I’m insecure, but I’m a teenager. As a kid in my band class said:“It’s high school, who is secure?”My advice is: If you feel insecure and worthless, don’t panic. Find something you’re good at, and remind yourself that you’re good for something, even if you haven’t found out what it is it yet. I even have a song for this:But yeah, I get the feeling. I spend more time than I should thinking about how I’ll probably never find love because of how unattractive I am. And sometimes I have emotional breakdowns and never see anything in my past except for my failures, but I assure you, we are all worth something. We all have a purpose, even if we haven’t found it yet.
Why do people call me ugly because of my acne? I feel worthless.
Probably because it’s the first thing they see when they see you and it’s noticeable.If you are really worried about it, I’d Just start looking for and trying/experimenting with cleansers that suit you and reduce the acne.I don’t know why people get so worked up over this—everyone gets acne at some point in their life, EVERYONE!It is not a disability, it is not a unique thing unto you unless your acne is actually something else that’s really bad, like skin cancer or something very serious.You can try cleansers, or see a dermatologist, etc. I wouldn’t bank my whole self esteem on having bad acne. I’ve had acne too, even now as I’m older, I still occasionally get it, and I’m 37!And guys still hit on me, from time to time, sometimes young guys who I would never date or be attracted to!Celebrities get acne too, they just cover it up with lots of makeup or they have enough money to go to a good doctor and take care of it!Just do what you can, start trying different cleansers, and see what works and what doesn’t. You sound young, and I’m betting by the time you’re older, this acne will all clear up, or that you will just have to save money and see a doctor about it and do what you can and what he/she tells you to do.Remember that Your acne is not you. It’s just a inconvenient blemish on your face. It doesn’t mean the world is ending, and that you won’t ever be able to ever get a date! There’s a lot worse things than acne being on your face, for instance, like having a tumor in your head, which would be much more serious, actually.So, go to the store, and start trying cleansers. Or ask some other people on Quora who’ve had acne what products they used. Who knows, they might have had the same problem too and can help you.Have a good day!
Why am I always so sad and feel like I'm worthless, stupid and ugly?
Because you are not! You are just fine and there are reasons behind this. Either someone you love or care the most is making you feel this way or you are too depressed and stressed out to realize the good things in your life. Feeling worthy, confident and beautiful is your choice. Noone has anything to do with it. If you decide to be useful and beautiful, no one can change it. It's your view of life. So you need a lot of positivity to do so.First of all, realize that we are far more gifted than we deserve. Always look at people who are in a miserable situation and be thankful that you are better off. Mingle with people who will give you positive thoughts and be happy. Choose a hobby, plan a trip, sit away with a good book or simply do nothing! Everyone is special in some way! When you realize this, you will know what you are worth
Do i need help, because i feel worthless. 16 year old?
no one cares about me. I feel so ugly everyday and i hate to go to school or public place because i feel people staring. i was born with a cleft lip, and im 16. i still have braces and a scar but its was fixed nicely, but it will NEVER go away i can never be normal.I weigh 150 pounds and im 5'6 i feel so fat and i am bulimic, i dont throw up everyday only when i eat alot and when my parents leave the house. I feel unnoticed everyday, i am not cool enough for people at school. if i was gone no one would notice. Its not like i am anti-social and dont have friends, cause i do but i just still feel like i am wearing a mask all the time, no one really understands me. I am so sad and i cant escape myself, i feel like a failure. the only thing i have is my music but im too scared to play for people cause it makes me too vunerable. i feel like i will never find love i needed a place to vent, im sorry if this was worthless to read.
I feel Jealous/Ugly/Worthless because of fiance's porn habit?
My fiance knows that his watcing porn makes me feel like sh*t. I have expressed this to him many times. Whenever I find it on his computer/cell phone i can't help but get seriously upset and insecure. It makes me feel completely worthless, and he knows this because he's seen how it affects me first hand. It makes me not want to be seen by anybody, I feel so ugly and inadequate. He always says he will stop because he doesn't want to make me feel that way, but then a couple weeks later I always find more. (which hurts even more because he knows how terrible it made me feel before) Why does he do this to me? If I'm not enough for him why doesn't he just leave me and go be with one of those whores? It is becoming a serious problem and I am not going to be able to deal with feeling this way much longer. I love him and I don't want to leave him, but how can I make him understand how much it hurts me? And it's not like I don't give him what he needs, I am always ready and willing whenever he wants (except when I find the sh*t on his computer and then I feel to embarrased by my own body to even let him look at me). I've never felt particularly unattractive before this, I've never been on the same level as a porn-star, but it's not like he shouldn't be turned on by me or anyhing. And one of the most hurtful parts is I took pics of myself for him since he says he needs the visual stimulation or whatever, and he still chooses to look at other women for satisfaction... What do I do?