Girls I need your advice?
So I've been talking with this girl for a while, we've gotten to know each other some what well, she calls me, I call her, on valintines day I sent her a box of chocolate covered strawberries, because those are her favorite.the only thing, it's been kind of hard hanging out with her. She has a daughter so sometimes she has to cancel. Which I totally understand, her daughter comes first. I've talked to her about it, if shes no longer interested or just wants to be friends I told her to tell me, i don't want to waste her time and mine. But she keeps telling me no i want to hang out with you i want to meet you. Blah blah blah. The other day she told me her daughters grandpa had passed away. Shes been going through a lot. So on Friday I just wanted to talk with her. I asked her what she was doing this weekend, and she replied no I have too much going on right now. I texted her sorry I was just trying to make conversation with you. She apologized for assuming I was going to ask her out. And I just ignored her. She later on texts me sorry I didn't mean it in a bad way, I'm just shocked about what happened I don't know what I'm feeling right now. I told her dont worry about it. And she thanked me for understanding. I haven't talked to her since that day which was 1 day ago. My question is should I just delete her from my snapchat and her number and just move on? Or wait for her. I'm actually pretty hurt, but I'll live. Girls, should I move on?
Tips on talking to girls?
Seriously dude, you don't have to be worried or anxious or anything. I was just like you my first two years of high school, and I got no girlfriend from it (supply was low), but the last two were a blast. The difference was that I stopped caring about what other people think. I know that sounds cliche and simple and might be hard to actually do (it took me two years!), but after you stop caring, you will gain confidence about yourself. If you know her from somewhere before talk to her about that but if you don't know her just ask her for her opinion on something (it works for me) and that could be random. An example would be like hey, you sold me my jeans at Express! (random but kinda hilarious) Then introduce yourselves. If she's being a total beee otch about it she's not worth it anyways.
Am I wasting my time with this girl? Advice...?
okay so I have been talking to this girl for the last month. we had a class together. we have already hung out once and gotten together to study. there is chemistry between us tons of it. we flirt a lot with each other, physically and so on. she would invade my personal space and I'd tease her saying how she seemed to enjoy it. she'd say "well at least i admit it". She knows i like her even though i haven't said it directly. So we make plans to see each other a few days later on Sat. She told me to call her Sat afternoon to confirm. I call she flakes on me saying that she has to go out with her mom somewhere. Next class I see her and tell her how that was messed up and that she could have called me earlier so i could have made other plans. She says sorry. Next, on the last day of class we talk and she says how we should hang sometime and im like yeah we should. So a few days later I text her to say whats up. we text back and forth. I call her cause I like talking instead of texting. She doesn't pick up. I get a text from her saying she is busy and that she'd call me in a few minutes. Okay so 7hrs later I am out with some friends and she texts me at 9:30pm asking what's up. I text back that I am eating and that I'll text her later. I text her 45min later and she says she is busy eating now too. She says she will text back after she is finished. Never got a text that night. The following night I text her saying hi. we text back and forth I bust on her for not returning my calls or calling me back after she said she would or text me when she would, again she apologizes. So I text her that we should hang out she says "we should" I tell her that I would call her later this week. This was last Sunday. I have not called or texted yet I want her to sit by the phone and wait for a call from me...but I don't want to be an a**hole...either...at the same time I don't want to waste my time on someone who bails on me. Any advice...
How to talk to girls?
find something you have in common and work from there, talking comes natural, dont mess up on a girl you like honestly it may sound stupid but if you dont have the best talking skills the only and best way to get better at talking is with complete strangers at first. Talk to EVERYONE you see, at the store in the mall, getting food, start striking up conversations and see things you talk about and that work and come easy to you. Then talk to her and you will have more confidence and it will probably go a lot smoother
I CAN attract girls, but CAN'T talk to them? Please help! Need advice!!!?
aw, lol nice to see shy boys, haha. anyway, the only available option is to force yourself to talk. even if it's small talk! gradually the conversations will get better. don't worry too much on trying too hard, being too perfect, that results in boring conversations. try your best to relax and laugh! share some past experiences/stories, make sure they're funny lol Goodluck xox
How do I get a girl one grade higher than me to talk to me?
Look for an extremely good compliment. One that she has never heard before and will not be likely to hear again, from anyone. What is her absolutely best attribute? Say it's her hair, which may actually be why you are so interested in her, which is fine. But it doesn't have good compliment potential because she already knows she has great hair, right? That's what everyone compliments her on. So eliminate that one unless you can find a really good and different angle on it.What are her next 2 or 3 great attributes, including personal skills and knowledge? What can she do so easily she doesn't even have a clue how good she is at it? A compliment in this area by expanding her self knowledge and awareness in a very valuable way could score big points for you and dramatically improve her impression of you.What negative attributes does she have about which she might be self conscious? These can have HUGE potential if you can find a way to turn that around and put a positive spin on it.Example: At the company I worked for there was a tall woman, like 6'2" 'ish, a couple inches taller than I. She was very nice and attractive. As I was getting to know her I noticed she had very large hands and almost asked if she played basketball, but then realized that would be a bad mistake. She probably was self conscious of her hands. A few days later my company was passing out surplus tickets for a famous concert pianist who was playing that weekend. I immediately got two extra tickets and went to see if she and her husband would be interested. She was out of the office, but by asking around I was able to get her phone number. Called her at home on a Friday afternoon about the Saturday concert. She was very excited and we found someone who lived near her to drop the tickets off on their way home from work. She looked me up the next week to thank me and then, recognizing I had gone to a quite a bit of trouble, immediately asked, how did you even know I was into piano? My answer for which she fondly remembered me FOREVER was.: You have such graceful hands I just assumed you were probably a piano player and would love the concert. Look for deep compliments that she has never heard before from anyone about features she probably under values and she will be very grateful. Give it a try. There are no guarantees with girls. Sometimes you win sometimes you don't. But you never win if you don't try!