What should I do? Need advice
Stop Taking Sedatives. You will and you can sleep naturally once you learn to be with yourself ! I am not an expert in this field but being an ardent follower of the philosophy of Bhagvad Gita, I have learnt that a person is responsible for his/her own situation and we HAVE that power to have control over our emotions, we have that power to get guided by our intellect, and we have that power to focus on the ball DESPITE all sorts of emotional turmoils. Arjuna had to fight and kill his brothers and uncles. Anything more depressing than that? I don't think so. Krishna told him to listen to the call of duty ! I say, when you truly and sincerely listen to the call of duty (whatever are your obligations and you are SUPPOSED to do), you will get in flow of life and things will fall in place. You just need courage to do so. Once you are settled and once you start confiding in yourself, you can always introspect in retrospect and kill your weakness and harness your strengths. I have no Idea why are you depressed, neither do I know if my words are making sense to you, just know that I know things can take an impulsive turn. I know and understand that pain that runs in your heart (Yes, in your HEART, literally physically). It might be hard to handle. In such cases we need to listen to our brain- not our mind, but our intellect ! Think of what your mom would advice you if you were to communicate these feelings to her. Or your dad, or your mentor or teacher, just Think ! That is also your intellect speaking, right? :) To tap into your intellect you have to MEDITATE ! Just meditate, despite the pain, let those tears role down, cry hard, but sit yourself down and force yourself to meditate ! When you can harm yourself of depression, you also have that strength to cure yourself against it. PULL YOURSELF out of it, FORCE yourself to be optimistic. Our minds gravitate towards the negative. Always rememebr. :) All the best. Humanity is with you ! :*
What do I do with 50 grand??? I need advice...?
Hi, I just got out of the army and now I have 50 grand cash from deployments that Ive saved. I have a job now and I can pay my bills and etc. just fine but I need some advice on what to do with this money. I dont want to hold on to it in the bank because Ive heard that the value will just decrease and with inflation and everything the interest wouldnt make any difference. I like real estate. Any advice?
I need advice with my life. What should I do now?
Step1— Set 2 goalsA long term goal (for a span of 5 years or more)- like you want to be a great engineer, doctor, actor, entrepreneur, salesman etc in next 5 yearsNow chose a day to day goal that can help you fulfill your long term goal -like working out for 8 hours a day to practice skills that can help you achieve your dreamNow my friend you have successfully set up your goal .Step2— Priorities- Now that you have your priorities set do that task daily for 8 hours a day before any other tasks . Work hard no matter what it takes. After successful completion of your task reward yourself with the things you love the most ( maybe you like to eat chocolate cakes)Step3—Stay committed - Daily commitment will get you going in the flow and it will become your habit .You will no longer have to be dependent on the daily motivation as it will be a part of your daily habit or routine and so you will definitely be able to see the results.Bonus tip-Stay relaxed , practise meditation,read self help books, develop a growing mindset ,learn from your mistakes and don't presume anything.You will achieve anything that you want , provided you are willing to work for it .Stay blessed,NamasteyANKIT CHAUHAN.
Why do we need advice about dating?
It is true that you should often trust your own judgement, but the situations they ask about often refer to social situations that involve other people who are not themselves. As humans, I doubt that most people understand themselves completely (Myself included), so trying to act on their own thinking in a certain situation that could injure other people or affect other significant individuals of your life, I think you would want others opinions as to how to approach this situation. Many people have different opinions and think differently, so it would help since you can't always think like the other person in your difficult situation. Another thing is that if you are terrible with socialization or just plain confused with the whole thing, you would want advice on how to interact with another person without hurting the other party. As well as more than often the advice is not step by step instructions like a walk through for a game.
Confused. Need advice.?
I can’t tell if I hate myself or love myself. I go from crying because I’m overweight to admiring my face and embracing the fact that I’m a bit chubby. I don’t know if I like someone. When someone admits they like me, I can’t help but like them back, and that makes me seem whore-ish because I go from guy to guy. Also, I’m always told that I won’t end up with my boyfriends, and I know that’s true. So am I just supposed to not date the people I’m interested in? But here’s the BIG problem; I’m a teenager and everyone has their troubles during their troubles during these times. I’ve grown up without a dad, and wouldn’t say without a father figure because I have an older sister, who’s 10 years older than me. All my mom does is sleep (literally for weeks at a time) My sister works 3 jobs and goes to college, so she’s rarely home, and when she is, she’s spending time with her boyfriend. I eat frozen or canned food every night. I lay in my bed all day on my phone. It’s not like I can go outside (because of my mom) I’m overweight and right now I hate myself for it. When the doctors tell my mom something about it, she just gets all mad and says their bad doctors for telling her how to raise her child. I get embaressed at PE, so I just walk while everyone’s doing the actual excersises (I’m failing that class) I do a bunch of different excersies in my room, but that’s not enough. I can’t talk about it, because in my mom and sisters eyes, I’m healthy. But I’m not. I just need advice.
I need some advice, Im feeling lost. What should I do?
It's ok. Just keep going. You can totally do this. We have all had times in our lives where things don't go as planned. You know what that tells you? That you're trying. And you know what that means? You're bound to succeed. Just keep trying. You can try the same things again, or try different things. You're practicing for success. Success will come. Get yourself ready by continuing to practice.
I really need advice... did I push him too far away?
So I have been friends with this guy since 07.. nothing has ever happened between us, all though I know he has always liked me. He told me he believes I'm his wife. lol. We'll I would always tell him reasons why I'm not, and that I wouldn't make a good wife at this time.. I tend to be very anal and analytical.. he's horrible with calling to let me know if plans have changed, etc.. so the other day I blew up... he later told me he wasn't sure if he wanted to continue the friend ship.. then we talked later that night.. and told me that he wanted to be friends, but wasn't sure if he was "good enough," to be my friend. We went from talk almost all the time to talking maybe 1 time per day.. he stopped the good morning, good night text.. and now I think I might actually like him... plus he's excellent with my son... what do I do? Did I push him too far away? Do you think he still cares about me? I don't even want to tell him the feeling is mutual now.. its pride huh?
I need advice on what to do about my step daughter?
My step daughter started dating a girl awhile back. My step daughter is 16, her girlfriend is 15. Yesterday my step daughter had her girlfriend over, they went to her room. Nothing unusual. They were watching a movie and it was a bit too loud so i went to her room so i could ask them to turn it down. And I saw my step daughter holding her girlfriend on her bed. Her girlfriend had a pacifier in her mouth. And was holding a sippy cup. I didn't know how to react so I just left the room and went downstairs. Should i tell my husband? Should I tell the girls parents? Is this a normal thing teens do? Should I just need bring it up at all? I'm so confused. My step daughter and I haven't talked since that happened.