My "Best friend" slept with my ex, any advice?
okay so before I get started, if you're gonna say "ohh they were both single at the time so they can do what they want." please don't bother commenting. Anyways, so I broke up with my ex about a year and a half ago, and last night out of no where I stumbled across some crazy information. turns out my "best friend" and I mean my besets friend, the only person I trusted with my life, he was somebody I put high on a pedestal. in all of the 15 years ive known him, he's always been the person I always wanted to be like. that being said, I found out he actually hooked up with her and they both had sex about 3 months after we broke up, so naturally I might have been okay with it if he would have asked me, or at the very least told me he was gonna do it. cuz I can't and won't stop him if wants to do it. but seriously? didn't even tell me, and he probably would have never told me if I didn't find out. anyways I need advice, im in so much pain right now because I feel betrayed and I don't want to lose my best friend, especially not like this. but I know our friendship will never be the same now. please help guys.
How do i make my ex best friend jealous? (REALLY need advice)?
I only going to say it once, DON'T DO IT! I don't wanna sound like your mom but it is better to makes some new friends because if you use someone to make her jealous and that person you are using finds out your going to stump to your ex-best friends level, a big bully, and probably won't hear the end of it. Besides don't get involved its best to make some new friends and play it cool. I'm sure you will be fine :)
I am sleeping with my best friend's husband, need your advice?
If you don't think she is going to find out you are just kidding yourself. He won't be the one to tell her because he knows it would end the marriage. What is going to happen is you will no longer have these two as any kind of friend. Going through a difficult divorce is no excuse for what you have done and, as you have stated, will continue to do. This woman was your very dear friend/sister-like/boss and does not deserve what you are doing to her. Her husband is not much better then you. Joking around with you about sex was where he crossed the line and so did you. That subject should never have been spoken of, so why was it? You are an unhappy woman because of the divorce. Your use to be friend is not. You are jealous of her and are trying to ruin her marriage. That is why you have said you will continue to see this woman's husband although you know it is wrong. What is it you are looking for, him to divorce HIS wife and marry you? Ain't gonna happen because it rarely does. If, as you said, the wife is like a sister to you then you must really hate your sister. You said you can't stop yourself from wanting to have sex with him and maybe you can't. You can, however, not HAVE sex with him. He is not forcing you. Finally, here's what you will eventually lose if the wife does find out, the boss-wife-friend-sister and the husband. Now, was the sex worth it? You don't need anybody's advice. You know what is wrong and you also know what you should do. p.s. After writing this yesterday I thought about it last night and I have decided I do not believe any of this is true. However, I will give you and "A" for imagination. You knew exactly what to say to get people PO. But, just in case I am wrong I hope his wife tears you and her husband a new one. You both deserve it.
My girlfriend left me for my best friend and i need advice?
im 18 and last summer I finnaly got my first girlfriend and my best friend stole her from me...now i hate them both and am extremely depressed and angry...no matter how hard i tried to explain to him after she broke my heart that i didnt want him to date her he would just lie to me and tell me he wouldnt date her. i found out about them wanting to date 20 days after she broke up with me...and he says he didnt steal her from me even tho when i was dating her she would flirt with him and i was jealous but she would cry and tell me she liked me alot and not him at all. Me and my best friend were really close and i trusted him but he lied ALOT right to me and i feel so betrayed and hurt. now they date and they both know i hate it but dont care. They think im overeacting and shouldnt care at all. i told them i would be their friend still because im trying to be happy again. but im hurt so bad and so angry and feel like it was so wrong. I dont no wat to do to feel better...any suggrestions?
I want to write a song for my best friend, any advice?
my head isn't functioning so well right now and I'M HUNGRY so i hope this lyrics i made just now would help you ~~~Every little Things~~~ 2 years passed by but I’ve know you all along In every first times there and then in our lives I fall down you give me the best smile And tell me I will never be alone. You read me so well like an open book And I can read your mind with just one look Every little things Every little things You know the time when I’m happy or sad And I know when to back off when you’re angry and mad Gotta love it though Because no one else will do And come between me and you Best memories are kept in our hearts Every little things Every little things Chorus: Every little things That we shared will live forever Every step we take we’ll treasure together count me in your life and I will have you in mine i will hold your hand at anytime and every little things every little things I didn’t ask for you in life But you came anyway So don’t think I won’t run after you When you decided to hide away Best of friends hang on to each other During our darkest hours With every little things Will keep building memories in our hearts With every little things Every little things
I can't stop thinking about my best friend, advice?
Make sure he doesn't have a girl friend first. Then you should call him and tell him how you think you feel. I wouldn't waste a minute! You will wonder and worry about it until you do. And I promise, from experience I know, you will wonder forever if you never tell him. Also I can tell you from experience do it sober ; ) Good luck!
My bestfriend steals my crushes! Pkease help! Advice needed!?
Get off your pedestal and be friendly with the guys. Flattery goes a lot further then looks.