What does it mean when my boyfriend hides his problem from me?
It depends on what he is hiding. Is he hiding something that has been bothering hi for a while? If it is maybe he is shy or he is afraid of telling you. You should probably give him some time. If that does not work I suggest having a serious conversation with him. I hope that helps! Love ya too!
My boyfriend has an attitude problem. What can I do about this?
Does his attitude manifest in any way negatively toward you? That is my first concern! If that is the case then you should consider getting support and leaving. If he’s is just childish and immature then you should examine if this is someone you want to invest more time in. Does he have any redeemable qualities, does he make you want to spend more time with him? DO YOU SEE YOURSELF IN THE FUTURE WITH HIM?Know that you can’t change him and it’s not your job to change him. The question is what do you want for yourself? What kind of relationship do you want? Have you talked to him about your concerns? He may not be aware of his behavior and it’s affect on you and the relationship.Take the time to address the hard questions and then go with your intuition it will not lead you wrong! My sense if you is that you’re both young (under 25) and this is probably your first real relationship. There are real growing pains and learning each other will take time. However, you must communicate your needs. He can’t read your mind!! Tell him what you need to and don’t be confrontational. Just be open and honest. His response will tell you all you need to know! If he dismisses your concerns or blames you for everything then that’s your answer because he’s not willing to take responsibility for his behavior.Also, take a look at your behavior! Are you contributing to his attitude? Are you ignoring his feelings? There are usually two sides to every story and when we take on the victim mentality that makes the other person wrong!!If I’m right and you are young know that there will be many relationships over your lifetime if your lucky or there may be one or two that will bring you joy and contentment! Contentment is easier to get and maintain than happiness. Only you can make you happy. Contentment can be a collaboration of like minded people.So take a good hard look at your relationship and see where you can make positive changes for yourself. He should respond in kind if not then have the courage to do what’s best for you!!My motto all my life is “there’s always next”!!!!Angela
My lebanese boyfriend and I have problems?
My boyfriend is Lebanese and also a Muslim. We want to get married, but his parents and my parents are completely against it. We both agree that we should obey our parents, but we also know that we love eachother and that we can make it on our own. We have done everything to convince them that we should be together, but we havent had much success. We both have really good jobs, and enough money to purchase a house. I love him with all my heart, and I know he loves me. I'm so hurt because my parents don't want me to marry the guy I love. It's like we have to choose between eachother and our families What should we do??? Thank You
My boyfriend has drinking problems, what should i do?
He may claim to love you but he obviously loves his drink more than you. He is an addict and for an addict to get better they have to want it, you can't simply make them stop. Your only course of action is to stop taking him back and move on with your life. Maybe when he realizes what a wonderful woman he has lost he will finally realize he needs help.
My boyfriend doesnt tell me what's wrong?
I know when he's upset. He shows it VERY well. Doesn't try to hide it. But when I ask him what's wrong or why he is upset, he won't tell me. I ask him if he's going to tell me at lunch, or later, and he always replies that he won't or "probably not" and then smiles. I say I care to much to believe that he's fine, but he just smiles, and hugs me. It's just, he's been like this a few times with different things, he's happy most of the day, and then all of a sudden, it's just he's sad. We've been going out for just a few weeks. How do I get him to tell me what's wrong? I'm not the obsessive girlfriend that's always wondering what girls he's talking to etc, I could care less about that, he can talk to who he wants, but when it comes to him being sad, I would love if he just let me in, and talk about his feelings with me. is there anything I can do? Or am I just being a bad girlfriend and just leave him alone?
I need Help BAD i have been sleeping with the same person for a while now but he dosent know how to have sex?
its okward to tell him hes doing it wrong but im not really enjoying it we will sleep together but i dont acually hit my limit i had to tell him wat eating a girl out was wat do i do
Why do mean tell you nothing's wrong when they clearly have a problem?
Perhaps he is not ready to burden you with his concern. Maybe you should say to him: "Honey, I know that something is bothering you. If and when you are ready to talk about it, I'm here for you." Then, leave him alone about things and see what happens. Perhaps he is just trying to work something out on his own, and doesn't want to discuss it until he comes to some conclusions. Perhaps he will resolve it internally, and you'll never know what was bothering him. Hounding him about it only frustrates both of you.