Help with moving out at 17 ??? HELP!!!?
I moved out at 18 and a month before I graduated. It was way hard, but I wasn't able to take my mom's constant behavior. She's very immature for her age and I wasn't able to take it anymore. 1)Have a stable job-I was lucky and I have a stable income. 2)Remember you will have to pay for everything-cell phone bill, rent (depending upon where you move you may need to pay for gas, water, electric, etc...), insurance, doctor bills, gas, groceries (which is more than you think). 3)I recommend to start buying things from garage sales now...dishware, towels, furniture, blankets, the works. I was fortunate that my family gave me a lot of what I needed...vacuum, tv, table, etc... 4)You may have to go w/out luxuries for awhile (TV, Radio, Movies,) 5)Avoid wasting money ( No movie theater, no fast food-it's often cheaper to make your own food). 6)Don't own pets-it will add to the cost (I have several animals and it adds up fast-vet bills etc..) 7) Having someone to share the cost is a good plan. I live alone, but my boyfriend may move into my extra room. 8)Finish high school. It will get harder to do this once you move out, but high school and college means better job which means it will be easier to live a comfortable life.-Can't afford college-apply for financial aid. 9)Get a debit card and credit card. Use your debit card mostly and only use your credit card if you are able to pay back immediately (to build a good credit score). 10)Start a savings account that you aren't allowed to take money out until a certain day (so find a bank w/a good interest rate-so you will be set when you turn a certain age on money). Moving out can be a very rewarding experience, but it isn't always easy being alone. Good luck.
Help I need to move out now?
I'm 19 I live with my dad and I have a part time job making just over minimum wage. I need to leave because my dad is being a douchebag and won't stop complaining and never sees the hard work I do. I want to buy a house. Can I buy one at 19. I have no credit. I don't care what kind of house it is. A room with water and electricity are my only requirements. I need a better job too but I don't have much experience. How can I move out as quickly as possible?
I need help. How do I cope with moving out of my parent's house?
It's difficult to answer since I don't know your age or your situation. I was put in care when I was 15 and then at 17 nearly was forced to live in a flat indpedantly so I can sort of relate to what you are feeling. Cause it is proper scary moving out and being responsible for yourself. I would say firstly prepare prepare prepare , all those things your probably don't do at home starting doing like cooking , cleaning , washing clothes , food shopping on a budget.Then try and find a place close by so you still have that support because it is a big step both financially and emotionally. Ovboiusly you need to be able to support yourself financially so work out how you are going to do that.Also ask your parents for advice they will know how to pay council tax , the best companies for gas and electric , the best house insurance use there wisdom to set yourself up right.And if you are not in any rush I would say wait a little while so you can afford to make the place look nice , so you can get little things to make it feel homely and comfy sofas and stuff like that because it will be a lot more difficult if you feel uncomfortable in your new homeAnd finally I would say just embrace how this allows your relationship with your parents to develop. I moved back into my mums at the age of 17 nearly 18 and I moved back in as an adult so we have a much closer for friendship style relationship now , hopefully you can embrace that with your parents allowing you to stay close as you grow up.Good luck.
How to tell your parents, that you're moving out. I really need help, please!?
First of all almost every girl wants to move out of the house as soon as they can... But you have to have a plan, it cost money to move out. I am sure you would like to continue a relationship with your parents so I wouldn't advise just leaving a note. You need to talk to them and let them no of your future plans so that they can find other ways to provide the current care you have been giving to your siblings. If all is true what you are saying you sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. Most mothers would be extremely proud to have a daughter like you... But don't be to hasty... Find a full time job with insurance, check into apartments, check into scholarships or grants for school. Your mother may be able to help you with all of this. It is quite expensive to live on your own... Do you own the car? Who pays your insurance? Do you want to live in hud housing, receive food stamps, possibly be promiscuous and end up pregnant? Lots to think about and plan. Talk to your mom an tell her how overwhelmed you are feeling with the kids... i am sure she will be there for you...
How do I tell my sister she needs to move out? Mom passed away 2 years ago, dad not in the picture, she's still trying to get over depression.
Depending on their age, it would be safe to say just let them know you think it’s time for her to be in her own.I’m not going into details but my sister moved out my place when she was 19. She got in a fight with our mom and was living with us for a few months. She wasn’t a burden ( a little high maintenance) I wasn’t her mom so she could be demanding attention like she was but still.You have to consider the emotional trauma that will come out when you do ask her to move out. Depending on how serious her depression is it could make it worse. She might take it the wrong way even if you say it in the most polite and supportive way. You can start by asking her what she would like out of life? What are her dreams for the future and start from there. If you both are the only ones in each other’s life (no family, close friends) then it would be best to help each other reach your independent goals in life. Actively helping her out of her depression and moving on with her life is a lot better than just wanting her to.
Need help writing a letter telling my roomate I'm moving out.?
I am not on the lease with my roomate and it is only a month to month lease. Living with her is more than I can handle and I have decided that it is best for me to move out. I want everything to be done professionally in case there may be any problems. Here is the letter that I have so far, but I need to know if this is correct, if I should add anything or subtract. Please help! This letter serves as a 120 day written notice of my intention to vacate this premises. I will vacate on April 30, 2008. At that time, I will thoroughly clean and return my portion in the condition I received it upon moving in. I will also provide the landlord with notice of my departure within a reasonable amount of time. Before my leaving, we can discuss and come to an agreement on funds invested in deposits along with furniture. My move is based upon personal reasons that I care not to discuss. I am letting you know well in advance so that you have a vast amount of time to make accommodations for yourself.
Advice on moving out at 17...?
okay heres the situation -my dad is a paranoid skitzo -he and my mom have my life hell for the past 16 years -i called the police station and they said i can live independantly at 17 -so im outta here as soon as im 17 and get a car which will be around fall 08 i need advice on getting an apartment that will rent to me, and just advice in general ya know? i plan on saving pretty much every dime i make in the next 10 months and im gonna work a 2nd shift part time job and a 2nd shift full time job in the summer....do u tihnk i could have someone over 18 sign my lease even thought they wont be living there? how would i pull that off? i live in van buren county michigan by the way and im turning 17 on july 7th