What should i do? need serious advice?
I have been with a man for 4 years. He has beaten me many times and he also has cheated, im not sure about sex but has been caught with his ex girlfriend SEVERAL times and one other girl that i know of. He is very controlling and has to always be right. He has put me thru hell and back yet ive always stayed. we have a 3 yr old son and in december he left for the marines, i hated him then and he knew it he begged me not cheat or find anyone else, but i couldnt wait for him to leave, i knew it would be my chance to leave him. one night about 2wks after he left, i found out somethings about him, got really mad and out of revenge kissed and started to have sex with another guy, i stopped as soon as i realized what i was doing and i have never and would never do it again. i dont kno if i should tell him or not, we just got married and he left again for training , i keep telling myself i was such a bad girlfriend and he was sooo nice. what the hell ??...i just wanna fresh start with him, and we are gonna be moving away in may, im just scared somehow the "rumors" of this guy and i will get back to him, even though no one knows the truth, i stopped it the guy got mad that i did and spred so many rumors, i mean what should i do. i feel so guilty. i really love my husband, ive put up with so much from him and ive only made that one mistake. should i tell him? or should i forget about it, and deny it if ever i have too?
Would anyone care to provide serious advice about a long distance relationship, or at least reassurance?
So. Where to start. I'm a 17-year old student from Europe who still has four years of studying before him. I've decided to abandon pursuing further education, since it will allow me to finally be with my partner much sooner, and it's a price I'm willing to pay. She's 30. I'm well aware such a gap would make many say that it being weird is an understatement, but I truly do love her and do want to spend my life with her. Our relationship has been going for about three months now. In short, her age is not a problem. Now the actual problem: She is married. We met online on a roleplaying app, and she told me a bit about her life, describing her "actual" relationship as abusive, even though that isn't entirely true. At least in some aspects. She told me he is barely home, doesn't care about her and does what he wants. Yet it is her birthday today, and he is taking her to Atlantic City to gamble. I would surely be insecure, let alone this. The only reason she did not divorce him is because her parents' house is at stake, which she is working on solving by saving money. And while I do trust her, I simply cannot stop the "what ifs" and other destructive thoughts from putting me down like nothing before. I've spent the last four hours listening to music, restlessly thinking about what they might do, especially after a long night. Another factor being the possibility of her getting drunk, which would obviously make it much worse. They surely have only one bed in their hotel room, and I can't help but wonder what they might do in it. Maybe she'll decide to re-ignite the spark. She did marry him for a reason, after all. I wouldn't know a thing anyhow. I've no idea how to feel about the entire thing.
Can anyone help me with a serious relationship advice?
You have to be in some sort of contact with the girl that she hate, b/c how would you know if she like you or not. Then , what make matters worse is y'all dont even live in the same city or state SO YOU HAD TO BE TALKING TO HER. STOP ALL CONTACT with the girl your girlfriend hate. Stop the calls, text, SC, insta DM, messager.. STOP IT ALL! Be honest with your sweetheart. Either she'll stay or leave. But either way she'll always respect you for being honest.
I'm so bored of everyone around me... need some advice?
About boredom, a lot of people say a good hobby is the answer. I'm inclined to think that the best treatment for boredom - assuming it's just boredom and not a symptom of depression - is taking on responsibility. It involves an element of risk. It's a respectable, pro-social way to gamble, so long as you're competent in what you're doing and you take the work seriously. If you find a volunteer job that suits you, it can be a real win-win, with a sense of achievement. As I said, boredom can be a sign of depression. You don't seem to be doing anything in your spare time, just indulging in passive entertainment. That's another sign. You can take a depression screening test online, such as CESD R. The KADS 6-Item is for screening teenagers. If you think you might be depressed, I've written a lot of depression answers, with advice from experts about standard treatments and the self-help methods that can enhance results with standard treatments. Volunteer sources - volunteer match, craigslist, yahoo local, google, local papers, and volunteer tips lists.
I seriously feel like I'm not good enough for anyone?
Please take this answer seriously... I'm an 18 year old girl and I need some good advice. I've never had a serious relationship, and I'm a virgin. I've only kissed one guy. And it was when I was like, 15. I graduated high school last year, and I'm still doing the same lame fast food job. I hate going on FaceBook because everyone seems so happy with their lives, and I feel like I'm living the same old boring life.. minus the school part. No guy has ever really been interested in me. Atleast not enough to stay around. My friends use me for drugs and lately I've been feeling really worthless, stupid, and just awful about myself. I'm not very pretty, and I'm kinda chunky. I'm way self concious, and feel like I'm not good enough for anyone. I'm always just the friend-type. Please no mean comments. I just feel like sh!t :(
Carrot stuck in butthole..I need serious help can anyone help me? (serious question)?
so i gots a carrot stuck up my butthole when i made the decision to try and pleasure myself. ive tried getting it out but i end up pushing it in further. i put oil at the end of my butthole hoping that would help it out but its still up there. im embarassed to go to the doctor and tell them i gots a carrot stuck a mile up my butthole. does anyone know how i can get it out?
I need serious advice on whether or not having sex and on friendship/relationship. I will PM you if you are willing to help. Can anyone help me?
Ask him. I’ll assume he is male. What is all the panic about? This sounds as urgent as recommending nuclear war. I’m not going to help you in messages, because you are seeking someone who is not an advisor but someone who is going to give you permission to go ahead and have this normal experience.Ask him. Sit him down and say I need to speak openly and freely and I want you to help me discover what is the best thing to do. You might do this in a restaurant or park. I wouldn’t recommend either of your abodes.
Does anyone take online dating tips seriously?
As someone who has been an online dating coach and professional profile writer for almost fifteen years with Profilehelper.com , I’d have to say yes. It really all comes down to where the advice is coming from and what the advice is trying to help you achieve.There are a couple types of advice that you should always look at with a grain of salt:Advice telling you how to “pick up” anyone, or how to “get laid right now.”Any advice offering you an instant solution to your problems.The problem with the pick-up artist style of advice is that it doesn’t teach you how to connect, just how to hunt for vulnerable people and use them. The problem with dating advice that promises you an instant solution to all of your problems is that there is no such thing as a magic pill. Online dating isn’t instant. It can take time to find the right person. Good dating advice should focus on teaching you how to present yourself in the best way to attract them, how to find them on the dating site or app that you are using, and how to reach out to them so that you stand out from all of your competition.