I need some serious advice?
Hello. I'm currently dealing with something that has been affecting my life lately. I just switched schools and i'm dealing with this thing where, i know things and I don't know things. What I mean by that is, I've learned things from my other school & then there are things I need to learn so I can pass the big exams that are coming up soon. I never talked about this to a teacher, counselor, anyone about this because I really don't have the time too. & you see, the other thing I'm dealing is with I'm loosing my memory & then all the sudden it's like i'm hearing voices, calling out my name. I do get my sleep and I'm always super tired after i get home from school. When I wake up, it's hard to describe how I feel, but I will tell you this, I don't feel refreshed. My chest feels like it's shaking a little and my whole body feels really weird. I'm dealing with a lot right now & I do care about my emotions and my body. I am concerned, but people have been stomping on my heart lately. I'm trying to pull my grades back together because I've been flunking a lot lately. I mean, I'm not a bad kid. I'm mature and I keep my mouth shut quite often. I need help & I have no idea how to get back on track. & I'm really scared because I keep on wondering if I'm gonna make it or not. Please help me.
What should i do? need serious advice?
I have been with a man for 4 years. He has beaten me many times and he also has cheated, im not sure about sex but has been caught with his ex girlfriend SEVERAL times and one other girl that i know of. He is very controlling and has to always be right. He has put me thru hell and back yet ive always stayed. we have a 3 yr old son and in december he left for the marines, i hated him then and he knew it he begged me not cheat or find anyone else, but i couldnt wait for him to leave, i knew it would be my chance to leave him. one night about 2wks after he left, i found out somethings about him, got really mad and out of revenge kissed and started to have sex with another guy, i stopped as soon as i realized what i was doing and i have never and would never do it again. i dont kno if i should tell him or not, we just got married and he left again for training , i keep telling myself i was such a bad girlfriend and he was sooo nice. what the hell ??...i just wanna fresh start with him, and we are gonna be moving away in may, im just scared somehow the "rumors" of this guy and i will get back to him, even though no one knows the truth, i stopped it the guy got mad that i did and spred so many rumors, i mean what should i do. i feel so guilty. i really love my husband, ive put up with so much from him and ive only made that one mistake. should i tell him? or should i forget about it, and deny it if ever i have too?
I need a serious advice. Can I clear AIPMT?
.................. I actually wanted to go in field of software engineering but as my father and uncle wanted me to be a MBBS I finished off with 67% biology. Had not joined any coaching in 12th.I belonged to a school where I didn't even got my basics clear. Its my 4th drop but I have wasted all these years gaining nothing. Am still like I was when I cleared my 12th ,have no knowledge. I know very less cocepts. Lesser than avg student. I want to ask if I can really ever clear AIPMT. Should I try one more year? 2015-16 I joined allen institute, Indore but found myself in an overwhelming atmosphere and wasted this year to without studying like other 3 years.)Please someone help me to get my dream come true I really want to be a doctor now (a good doctor, yes its my dream too now).My dad have low financial status as he showered all his money on me. Now should I drop a year again?? If yes what should be my strategy? How to cope up with all the distractions? How to manage time?or should I take a loan and opt for MBBS in China??I seriously need a genuine advice. (I forgot to mention tht last year 2014-15 I stayed at home doing pvt study and that was the worst decision I had taken cause its since then that every cocept iI knew and ideas vanished from my mind) I actually was good at studies before. Got 91℅ in 10th, honored by CM of MP.
Shy lesbian need some serious advice!?
what can i do if i'm a shy lesbian and i have a crush on someone who i see on a regular basis. but i can't seem to get the courage to say anything to her. I'm a cashier so sometime she'll come in my line and i have no clue what to say to her (besides hi) and i'll try to keep a serious look on my face to cover up how nervous i feel on the inside, i think it's working but i'm scared she might think i'm not a friendly person, which i am. I really need help with this because it's driving me crazy and she's all i think about morning, noon and night. My question is how can i relax when i see her so that im not so nervous and scared to talk to her, what can i say to her and what can i do to not think about her all the time.
I need some serious career advice, should I drop my JEE preparations for preparing for UCEED (I'm in class 12)?
You don’t need to drop your JEE preparations for UCEED. Uceed exam requires design aptitude, creativity, problem solving skills. It's not a formula based exam that you need to study it from some book. Keep preparing for JEE while also practicing the questions for uceed. I think uceed uploads the syllabus for exam. Just solve questions from that topic. Its not like you have to study 6 hours everyday for UCEED. You see creativity can't be learned just by reading books. You have to be observant, curious how things work, observe thing around you, see more detail of what others see around you, have a problem solving attitude. Infact preparing for JEE will increase your problem solving skills.
Need some serious female advice please?
I think she likes me and I definitely like her back. I think she got scared of the girls I know and the fact I didn't really act all "head over heels" with her as every other guy does. Even then, it seemed like she wanted to give me a chance, but then started talking about girls really negatively and caused herself to get all confused and jealous. I want her, but I don't know what to do. I keep telling her "im single" "i have friends, but thats all they are" "i go on dates here there just like you do(or perhaps she lies about dating other guys?)" She keeps thinking im some super player (guilty by association i guess? my friends are all like that) with like mad girls. One time I made a very retarded, but obviously not serious, joke about how I have a girl every 10 blocks all around new york city and she got mad and started ignoring me for like 2 days. REGARDLESS, she has started flirting A LOT more in the last week and I've been getting at her for things and she has been acting really happy with me. She seems very "warmed up" to me, we have gotten pretty bold with the things we say to each other now (often sexual). Even in person she seem different, like she wants to be close to me.... I want to go in for the kill now before i loose my chance to some other guy or whatever. Please help.
I need a serious advice. What can I learnt and be good in it ASAP in the field of IT?
Just be more hands-on about it and that will be the easiest way to learn about IT. Explore the possibilities you can have with it. For a quick guide, find websites that gives a crash course on IT and what you should know about it. YouTube has plenty of tutorials for you to be engaged with, and Google is a perfect search engine for theoretical knowledge.Hope you have an enjoyable time learning, and have a nice day!
I am in need of some serious legal advice if you can help please e mail me at andreaterwilleger@yahoo.com?
Hi my name is andrea terwilleger i am writing to seek legal advice. I have a daughter Ariana whom is four years old, i met my ex boyfriend Travis when my daughter was two years old, My relationship with Travis lasted 1 year and 6 months. We separated in October of 2005. It has been almost 1 year now. When we first separated i allowed him to visit with ariana about once a month so that i could slowly separate them. After 6 months i informed him that the visits would stop because i knew that my daughter was ready to move on now. I had thought that it would be a shock to her if i just separated them in the very beginning. Travis is not the biological father of Ariana. On Thursday 9/28/06 a private detective whom Travis had hired, approached me at my daughters school and informed me that i had a court date for a child custody hearing on 9/29/06 at 8:30am.i appeared and The judge granted this man temporary visitation rights until the trial date 11/25/06 what can i do to stop these visits
Plz help in need of serious advice thx n advance...?
Ok. so here goes... Since I was about 14 yrs of age I have had Extremely bad periods. I just don't mean -o- i have a few cramps let me pop some meds. NO!! nothing of the sort. I can take n-e thing & nothing helps. I have taken the regular over-the-counter meds &prescriptions such as vicoden, motron 800, etc. But still nothing relieves the pain. so heres the thing... I am about to start in my career & I cant call off once a month cuz of my period, sure I know it has me in knots crying & vomiting, but no1 on the job will care. so can some 1, give me some advice? maybe something i need to get checked out N-e thing? xtra info: I have cyst on uterus(which i was told they were nothing major) I haven't gotten check 4 endometriosis cuz Im allergic to iodine dye :-( never been preg, but have been tryin 4 approx 2 yrs and no miscarriages etc. only one sex partner in my life 23 yrs of age sry if u c this posted else where, i need a lot of feedback & thx 4 serious answers n advance
I need some serious advice on my relationship with my ex. He left me over a year ago and I was devastated. After about a year, we got back in touch and were intimate a few times over the summer. He keeps saying he's "so stressed out" and "one thing at a time." What should I do?
Yes, I'm with Mona. I like Gwen's advice a lot. However, when I read your notes, I wonder why you expect so little. I mean, you have clearly received very little from this man for a very long time. He has treated you casually all along, not at all as though you are someone precious, someone who deserves respect and adoration. Isn't respect and care and loving treatment what you want from a partner? Or maybe it isn't? Maybe there is something kind of out of whack in your expectation department? I inquire about this because I know that was true for me for a very long time. I grew up in a family with a mother whose expectation department was out of whack. So she married my father, a first class narcissist, who behaved a whole lot like your boyfriend. She didn't ever complain about it, but over the years her deep-seated anger grew and grew. Everyone thought she was the loveliest person, and in many ways she was, but the anger would drip out in hyper-criticism to us, and in other subtle ways. We knew it was there, way down deep and bubbling away. We could see her lips pinch when she thought no one was looking. She never got what she really longed for, that woman. On the other hand, she never demanded it, either. People treat you the way you teach them to treat you. That was one of the many good lessons I learned in my family of origin. And I send it on to you, for whatever it's worth. Seems to me like you deserve better than you have been getting for a long time, and that's not entirely the fault of this child-man you've been hanging out with. I think maybe your picker needs some work. So when you're at the counselor's office, you might want to add that question to the agenda.....