How to hide self harm cuts in P.E?
Dont worry Im not going to give you lectures and shizz like that cuz I have exactly the same problem and Im fed up of getting lectures as well -.- Basically, I tried to wear a long sleeved top under my PE top but I got told I wasnt allowed to wear it so I had to go that lesson with nothing to cover the scars on my arms and one of my friends noticed which I didnt really want but she cuts too so its not so bad, she didnt judge me or anything, still I wouldnt reccomend not covering them though unless you can deal with questions (like if you have excuses for the cuts), I spent the whole lesson trying to cross my arms, was really difficult trying to hide :L Luckily at my school we dont have to wear shorts, so I dont have the problem of trying to hide cuts on my legs, which is where most of my cuts are. Basically, i'd wear a bandage or something to try and cover the cuts or wear loads of bracelets on your arm I do that and it sometimes covers it, also maybe using makeup to cover it, ive done that but I wouldnt reccomend it on its own because I found the cuts still show quite a bit so if you do do that, maybe wear bracelets too? Thats all I can suggest really, good luck :) Also, can people stop saying stop cutting, thats not gonna help -.-
How can i hide self harm scars at prom?
ok so just stop harming yourself and you wont have any scars. you got to be the first person i know that self harms and looks for a dress to look pretty in for prom.
Is there any way I can hide self-harm scars on my arm without wearing long sleeves?
Thanks for the A2A.I can think of a couple of easy ways - neither of which will work for new scars.First off - location. Are the cuts high or low on your arm? Lower down, a bangle or wristband might do the job in terms of covering the scars. Otherwise, you might be able to conceal them with makeup - depending on how good you are with theatre makeup.If the scars are new, they should be bandaged anyway - and there are countless ways of explaining a bandage. Saying you slipped and took the skin off is usually a decent one.The other easy way I can think of is psychological. Wear something really bright further down your arm. As in, really bright. If you only cut on one arm, go one better and wear it on your other arm. I guarantee that'll be what draws people's attention - not the scars. It should make people fail to notice them, but more perceptive people will still notice, so hiding them in plain sight is something you should only try if you're at the stage of being just about comfortable about them.Which leads me to my last point - hopefully there will come a time when you don't mind people seeing them. Most people never flaunt them (they aren't there to seek attention, after all) but they do become more comfortable in their own skin. I, for example, usually wear short-sleeved t-shirts, leaving my arms completely exposed. It's comfy, and I don't care what people think - those scars serve as a symbol for me, it doesn't really matter to me what they mean to others. Hopefully you'll get to a similar stage of comfort eventually.You've asked me for answers before, so I won't repeat my usual spiel at the end of self-harm answers. I will reiterate though - it will get better, and you're welcome to talk at any point if you want to.Hope this helps.
How do I hide self harm cuts on my arm?
Myself, I keep the fresh ones bandaged and wear long sleeves. When they are healed I sometimes wear short sleeves in public, but have been looking into finding some makeup to put on my arms. It feels really weird for me when I am looking for makeup and then explain what its for to someone so they could help me find one. As you can probably guess, I have zero experience wearing makeup, hence the need to ask for help. Its weird to me though that I can ask for help for that though, but if I am having a rough time then that is the hardest possible thing in the world to do.
How do I hide my self harm scars from the doctor?
First of all, it’s very important that you DO tell your doctor. You KNOW that cutting is wrong and harmful and can even be fatal, either through hitting a blood vessel or infection. Show the doctor your scars and talk about them, and let him refer you to a mental health professional that can help you STOP it! Actually, he will most assuredly ask you to raise your sleeves. The light-headedness means he will have to take your blood pressure, and your cutting could be the cause of your light-headedness. You can ask him not to tell your parents, but he might have to, either because of your age, and since you are a “potential harm to yourself and/or others.” That’s very true, and you need help NOW. It’s also the magic words that can get you locked up against your will - and all that takes is someone - anyone - seeing the scars. It’s best to let a doctor handle it. EDIT: don’t put makeup or ink on a scar or wound. The skin may not be 100% healed, which would mean that that stuff can get into your bloodstream >
How do you hide self-harm scars on my wrists in P.E.? I'm not allowed to wear long sleeves.
Your best bet would to be to let the scars heal over a period of time or do some form of treatment on the scars with items you may have available to you.Another option would to be to cover the scars with a large bandage/band aid that's a skin tone color and is similar to the color of your skin. If it's a small bandage you put on, people will certainly get suspicious. If you have a large bandage, people will think that you got a huge burn or cut or something major which is good.Makeup is another helpful option or to just not lift your arm up that much while in PE. If your scars are close together, a small BandAid will do or some thick bracelets. Drawing or doodling with ink on your scars that can wash off after PE, is another option but its noticeable.Treating self-harm scars:How to Get Rid of Self Harm Scars'I'm ashamed of my self-harm scars. Is there anything I can do about them?'Stay safe out there!
How do I hide self harm from my boyfriend?
As much as anyone would hide their cuts from friends, family or even loved ones, I don't think that hiding the cuts from your boyfriend would be a good idea. There are a lot of scenarios that are likely to happen if he ever found out himself. Just expect that there would be a lot of drama.As someone who (still) self harms, I know the feeling of being embarrassed or ashamed of them, and that anxiety pools at the bottom of your stomach once the time to tell them comes. He's your boyfriend remember? You two probably would not have ended up together if you didn’t know each other like the back of your hand. If he really is your boyfriend, he would take time to understand you, be compassionate, and would support you. Usually, they would ask you to not do it again, especially if the cuts recent. Be honest with them. Don't say that you never will, because at one point, life would suddenly hit you with a rock and you’d stumble and fall. You'd do it again, because sometimes, people self harm because it's their coping mechanism.But just to answer your question, I suggest that you wear long - sleeved clothing, or pants, depending on where you cut. Be cautious about the way you turn your arm, especially when you pick something up, or during meals. Sometimes, there would be those moments you can't wear long sleeved clothing because of some special occasion or celebration with him, try to sit beside him in a way that the cuts are facing away from him. (unless you cut on both sides of your arm)Tell him that there's this new fashion trend going on In the internet that says wearing a lot of bracelets are cool. Wear watches with wide straps, or, if you cut on your legs, wear leg warmers or long knee socks.But, most of all, if you want to ease the tension and prevent the relationship from crumbling, I suggest you talk to him about it. There’s no need to prepare something for him, like a dramatic speech. To lessen the blow, tell him that you need help and would need his support because your not okay. Then, tell him you cut and show him. Its normal if start crying or screaming, or express any negative emotion, because if they really care about you, this would highly concern them. So, I wish you good luck and I hope you consider my advice!-Flide
How do I hide self harm cuts on my hand?
I’m sorry you’ve been going through this stuff. I know life’s really, really hard sometimes. But trust me. This isn’t the way to go.To cover up those scars, there are a few things you can do. I suggest a combination of these:Get some makeup. This will help drastically. Whether you get it from a friend who you trust, or from your own house, learn to apply it, and apply it well. If you can get your hands on makeup meant to cover up tattoos, you’ll be pretty much set other than perhaps the bumps.Blame it on an allergy. This really will only work if you can bank it on say, touching a stray piece of seaweed, and in addition to the makeup. Those are obviously scars otherwise.If they haven’t seen already, maybe go on a bike ride/hike sometime. Come back and show them the scars, or make it fairly obvious.It’s been suggested already, but gloves.Oversized jackets that have sleeves too long - They’re really cute and serve well!Now here’s a few things you can do to stop cutting, because that’s incredibly important.Ice cubes. Hold one until it melts, switching hands every couple of minutes. This will burn enough.Rubber bands.Drawing on yourself when you get the urge, wherever you were planning to cut.Hide all razors/knives from yourself, or better yet, throw them away.Finding an outlet. This is absolutely the best idea. Whether it’s singing, working out, or drawing, an outlet you enjoy will change everything.Now here’s the deal. I gave you these options because I understand that perhaps your life would only get harder if those were seen, perhaps you don’t come from the best household, perhaps you can’t get help. But there are school psychologists. If you can, get a therapist - Ask your doctor for a recommendation if you need a way to bring it up to your parents lightly. And please, tell your parents if it’s safe to do so. Getting help will change your path, I promise. You don’t even have to mention the scars, just mention you’ve been having a lot of trouble, talk it out, get some help. Do show your therapist, though. They’re under certain restrictions, and you can ask them what they can/can’t tell your parents.Best of luck and lots of love <3
How to hide self harm cuts from doctors?
I'm having extreme pain in my stomach and I'm thinking about going to the hospital but I have really bad self harm cuts all over my left arm. I can't let the doctors or my parents know. There's like 40 cuts all over my arm and they're only like a day old so they're kinda red and not scabbed over so I can't put makeup on them. Since it's something to do with my stomach I'm scared they'll make me change into a hospital gown so i can't just wear long sleeves. Any tips?
How can you hide cuts (self-harm) on your arm when you're wearing a short sleeved shirt?
Put make up on them and then add a little hair spray so the make up doesn't wear off. Try not to expose your inner arms (assuming you cut there), so keep your arms by your waist or keep them folded. Please don't cut. It leaves horrible scars. I used to self harm and my left arm is ravaged with scars for life. Seek professional help or even talk to your parents. You can email me if you want advice.