I talked behind my friend's back and she found out, what do i do?
So i was chatting with my crush and we started talking about my friend. We went out the day before all 3 of us and he felt like she was bored and it was his fault. I said it's ok and that she is easily bored and other not so good stuff about her to make him feel better.Also i told him that we almost lost the movie tickets. Also that she felt like a 3rd wheel. Then my friend went on my account and read through the chat,she says she wanted to see something else, not the chat between me and him, but she saw it by accident. She saw her name there and read through it. Now she is pissed at me. She says we have been friends for so long and now u betray me for a guy u have known for a month ? He doesn't care for u. She said she doesn't want to talk to me anymore or see me. She said go out with him and why do u tell him stuff u know i don't want u to tell him. She is like - Why is he so important to u? I cant trust u anymore, i will never go out with u again. So now she doesn't answer her phone or my messages. i feel like crap, i'm really guilty, she is so right, we have been fighting a lot lately with her, it is not the first time i talk about her tbh, i had no idea she will go on my account. she has the right to be angry i know. i know i'm a bad friend. i bought her gifts but she doesn't want to see me so she probably won't accept them.how can i make her forgive me. ( i know its hard to forgive such a thing) but i cant just forget her and move on she is very important to me and we have been friends for ages. What do i do ? please help!
How do I get my guy best friend back?
Wow. Totally been there my friend. The exact same scenario. My ex had a girlfriend, she was beautiful and thin and stunning, and he really liked her, but deep down we both knew we still liked each other, but he didnt talk to me coz of her. Then i got a guy, and the same thing happened. But we waited it out, and now i think we are closer than ever, and he's my best friend. Just try talk to him, dont worry about upsetting your boufriend, because at the end of the day, you were friends first, and you have know n him for longer. Convince John that you just want him as a friend, and be friends with chase. I hope everything is sorted out hunny. Xx
My friends talk behind my back?
My friends do not seem to like me anymore... I recently got a text from my friend saying that her dad wanted to spend time with her on sunday, when we made plans to hang with me, her and some friends. I had not received the text until after I was at her house... so when I got to the house (not knowing she 'couldn't hang') all my friends were there and they seemed surprised to see me. Kind of like they didn't want me there. They seem to talk behind my back or something. Now I am bugged by them not just telling me the truth that they didn't want me there, and that they obviously aren't real friends when I really thought they were.... What should I do?? (I know. Get new friends or talk it out but 1. I can't get new friends, no one in the school except them are people I like. 2. I want them as friends)
What do I do? My Best friend is talking behind my back?
I've been there! Hurts like a b****, doesn't it? I know it may seem like sometimes, best friends are the greatest things. But truthfully, they tend to really let you down sometimes. You think they are the greatest of people, but they really aren't your best friends. You've got to accept that. I used to have this amazing best friend, and i thought we were SO special. But once i found out she talked about me NON stop behind my back, i decided to end things with her. You can't keep letting her talk about you. She's only doing it because she knows you won't stop her. First of all, make sure you've got a good source and that the person who told you this in the first place, isn't lying herself. Then you need to sit your best friend down and talk to her about it. Ask her why she feels this way. If she was TRULY your bff, you wouldn't have a fight in the first place, and you'd be able to share your feelings easily. Don't be afraid to find new friends. You don't need to cling onto someone forever.
How can I create an imaginary friend who will talk back and that I could see? I also want to have schizophrenia.
Be careful what you wish for.When someone has friendly voices who help them, they usually don’t get or need a schizophrenia diagnosis.The ones (like me) who get a schizophrenia diagnosis are the ones who are plagued by horrible bullying voices.Imagine what you want, an imaginary friend that has a mind of their own. Now imagine they don’t actually like you or want to be your friend. In fact they despise the fact that they are locked into hearing all of your thoughts 24/7 and make fun of every little thing you think or do.Wiped your ass on the toilet? “You disgusting slob!” Got naked to take a shower? “You look so gross!! And you smell too!”Do you ever have sex or masturbate? Get ready for those “imaginary friends” to be there every step of the way.I’m not saying don’t try to create (or meet) the voices you want, just warning you of what you’re actually in for.I used to wish I could hear other peoples’ thoughts. If I could have any superpower it would have been to read minds. Then I started hearing voices and it feels very much like telepathy at times. Telepathy in the worst way possible. You feel like your brain is connected to people who hate you 24/7… I would always say “I’m sorry I was dumb to want this. Please make it stop.” But it never did.
My ex-best friend is talking trash about me behind my back...?
Ok, my EX-friend is talking trash about me and my BFF behind our backs. Saying things like "they're such wh**es" "she flashed everyone on a bed" "they're such!@#$%^&*" and so and so. We're trying to get her back but we want it to really have an effect on her. Suggestions?
How do you develop an imaginary friend so that person can talk back?
That's just a form of mental illness. Irrespective of whatever qualifications one has and what he says about that been ok. Its not ok. Its not normal to just imagine something or someone and believe its real. I mean, look at it. Imagine talking to thin air and believing it will or it responds to you. How? Through what? With what? By what? How can a non living thing interact with you? I think believing in that is also wrong and bad for one's mental well-being. Find friends, people who actually have feelings. We cant even relate completely with a robot which is just next to a human and well developed animals. If that's impossible with the robot and even animals, how can an imagination make it possible? Go get you real people.
I have a friend, and we got into a fight and we stopped talking. I miss her very much, but I don't know if she wants to talk with me again. What should I do?
Same thing happened to me. I made a joke and she just stopped talking to me. May be she felt bad. So i thought i should apologise to her. So i called her, but she being too stubborn didnt pick up my calls. Told me that she is going to sleep and i should text her.I replied that I only need 2 minutes, she still replied to text her, she told me that "Cooler chal raha hain, awaz nahi aayegi" (which according to everyone is just bullshit...what type of cooler would make such a noise that you cant even talk on phone) Still i texted her... And she was online the whole time but didn't even read the texts and then finally I told her "Text karne to bolti hain, reply to deti nahi hain.."She was still online, didnt read the texs and then the next day just gave a reply that she slept...nthg else.. I mean we were so good friends, who would behave in such a way with a friend..Now when we see each other in office, we just ignore each other...act like we dont exist for each other... I really miss the talks I had with her, we were a great team, helping and motivating each other in time of need.All my friends now tell me to let her go as she doesnt need me, she is happy without me...but i dont know the truth..I cant lose a friend like her...Now i dont know what should i do..i have this big interview and her motivating words will definetly make my day...but I dont think she will ever talk to me. :(What u should know is she really worth all the trouble..? Does she always care about you when you need it? Or she only comes to you in need? People will always tell you that ego will ruin a friendship, but what u should know is never ruin your self respect for someone who isn't worth it...if she is worth it...then go and talk to her...she will talk to u..apologise to her..
How do I deal with fake friends? They sweet talk me, but laugh behind my back.
Gossip is sad, but social and evolutionary psychologists might recognize that this is a bonding phenomenon that brings the people who are talking closer. It is likely rooted in our DNA—our biological mandate—dating back to cave people. Being part of a tribe was life or death. If you could not be accepted by a tribe, you had no protection and could not survive. And, the tribe had to stay small. It could not have too many mouths to feed. Friendship might be based on what you had to offer—-strength, wisdom, good ideas. There was not enough for everyone. You were in or you were out. The tribe circled and closed.Today, we gossip at the coffee machine, at the pool, in the hallway.When I was younger, I was so scared of being talked about behind my back. As I got older, I realized something important: Every terrible thing I imagined people might say about me they have said and or they are saying now. It’s not dependent on what I do. If I do well they gossip. If I do poorly they gossip. They gossip to gossip. Some of them are bonding by talking and some of them are bonding around meanness. Nothing I can do. Knowing it is true has released me from fearing it is true.Even in my group therapy which is composed of caring, intelligent, and grounded adults— when someone is absent. the group talks about them behind their back.So, I’m not sure they are any more fake to you then they are to each other. They are trying to manage their own insecurities by projecting their weaknesses on to you . People who don’t really mean any harm at all either join in the talking or stay silent, afraid to speak up because they may become a target.This long winded page is to tell you that you may be right or you may be wrong. Everybody talks about everybody. But, laughing at you? Consider that may be your big fear—fear of being laughed at or shamed. It may not be what is happening. What you do is work on your own secure self. Create your tribe. The more secure self you have, the less you will worry about the way people are.