My husband is nervous about getting a vasectomy?
Any men on here or women who's men have had them done have any advice for my husband? He wants to know if the pain is real bad or if he is making a big deal about it, we already have 3 kids and one more is due next month, I am done having kids and we looked into me getting "fixed" but it seems that the complications from surgery are far worse for me than for him. I have one friend who's husband had his done and he said a bag of frozen pea's where his friend the first day and he was fine after that. My husband still wants to hear from others that have had it done...any help is appreciated!
Why do I feel nervous/excited all over again while watching the climax of a movie I've already seen?
We human beings need food at least every few days and water every day. We need shelter and heat in cold weather, and love, and conversation. We need these things over and over again and we never get bored with them. If a strategy to fulfill our needs works, we will use it over and over again. If we find a fruit that tastes sweet we keep going back to that tree for more. I love apples and I've eaten one almost every day for years. I never tire of the taste, and the crunch. Seeing a great film is a visceral experience. There is a higher, intellectual level of engagement with culture, and boredom is real, but the visceral response is more deeply rooted than the higher, intellectual response. When we realize we've seen Star Wars or Walt Disney's Fantasia or The Sopranos five or ten times with no lessening of enjoyment, it's because we're eating the apple.
Nervous about being seen naked for the first time?
So there are thousands of "I'm self conscious" questions on Y!A, but hell, I'll ask my own. I've never had a guy see me naked before, but I'm with a guy that I might get to that point with soon. I'm nervous/excited, I don't really know what to think. Honestly, I don't think I have a bad body, and the guy I'm with has told me time and time again that he loves it. But as a girl, there's something about him seeing EVERYTHING that scares me. I'm ready for this, I'm just self-conscious.. especially since "down there" has never been messed with by anyone before. I'm not sure what I'm asking for..reassurance? advice? stories like mine? thanks. :)
Help i get nervous a lot!?
I have ocd and im kinda a germaphobe in a sense and im nervous about getting sick. I hate getting sick and whenever i get a cold or allergies i freak out and stuff. I get nervous cause im afraid its gonna cause me to throw up. I get nervous when im around sick people or if somebody gets sick on tv or in a movie i get super nervous. Help?
Is it normal to feel anxious meeting people after you haven't seen them in a while? Even if its close friends or family?
I think it's completely normal, especially for someone who struggles with anxiety. I experience this all the time with people I haven't seen in a long time (yes, even family and friends). I know how it feels. It's annoying and confusing, because you don't know why you feel anxious. I hate the feeling.In my opinion, we feel anxious before meeting with someone we haven't seen in a while because we've become less used to them. Think about it: when you see someone every day, for example, or a few times a week, you feel more comfortable with them. You generally know how they'll behave, how the interaction will go etc. You know how it feels to be around that person physically and you're more relaxed.On the other hand, when we don't see someone in months, or even years, the sense of familiarity reduces. Even though you know the person, you feel like you don't truly know them at present because you've been apart so long. You feel like you've missed out on important information, stories and news about their lives. Subconsciously, I think all of this can create feelings of anxiety about meeting them.Time changes everyone, so perhaps we're a little scared they might have changed. We might also worry about the fact that time has changed us both and we will no longer be able to connect as easily as we used to. Of course, this may not be an issue for some friends and family members. You might simply 'pick up where you left off' and immediately re-connect, no matter how long it has been. If that's the case, you know it's a friendship (or other relationship) you can hold onto for life.The best thing I can suggest is to take some deep breaths before you meet them. Try to quickly look back on all your history together and the good times you've shared. Perhaps this will ease some of the anxiety and will remind you that what is meant to be will be.
Do you have nerves in your brain? ?
Technically nerves are "enclosed, cable-like bundle of peripheral axons (the long, slender projections of neurons)". Your brain contains about 100 billion neurons (the type of cell) that are apparently often in arrangements called "nerve fiber tracts". What you should think about is how your body normally feels pain. You have sensory receptors unevenly distributed throughout your body. When stimulated, send an electrical impulse through your sensory nerves to the central nervous system. The brain does not contain any pain receptors, and that is why it's possible to operate on someone's brain while they're awake (you've probably seen it on TV). However, your brain and central nervous system can sense pain when the cells and systems themselves are damaged or diseased - which is known as neuropathy. Here are some other answers to the same question: http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/58625
WHY were the moon mission NASA astronauts SO nervous and sad looking at their first press conference?
Well I actually haven't watched a clip of this, do you have a source I could go to to see it? It'd be interesting to watch. But I do like for everyone to see two sides of an argument. But if you are a refuter of the moon landing, the least I can do is point you towards an episode of mythbusters that debunks most of the major moon landing conspiracy arguments (lighting, flag, footprint,etc.), and proves that all of these conditions could indeed be satisfied on the moon. http://dsc.discovery.com/tv-shows/mythbusters/videos/moon-hoax.htm I do believe that we went there. But I wasn't present, so it's not like I'm that strong of a voucher. I just don't think it's too unrealistic.
Does anyone else get extremely anxious when watching murder shows on TV?
It is natural to feel this way. Your rational mind knows its not happening but somehow your nervous system, probably the 'fight or flight' sympathetic system gets turned on. I find these shows are bad for your heart and keep younup late which is also bad for your heart. These shows are not good for your health even though they can be entertaining.
Can anxiety make a smart person seem dumb?
From my experience, yes. I have witnessed it with others and have experienced the feeling of anxiety induced brain drain countless times. IT SUCKS. All of my most embarrassing moments have happened that way. My anxiety is at it’s worst in public. I can imagine following me around must be pretty hilarious.For those of us with anxiety, we are trying to operate as usual despite our brains being stuck on flight or fight mode or being too distracted by the 10 different thoughts we’re having. Keep in mind, anxiety causes physical responses too, and they are anything but pleasant i.e. sweating, lightheadedness, nausea, dry mouth, headache, etc. All of these things spell a recipe for falling flat on your face.I’m sure you’ve seen it in the movies or on t.v. where a character gets nervous and says the completely wrong or inappropriate thing. The mistakes people make due to anxiety are usually too stupid to broadcast. For example, you might forget an artist’s name who’s work you listen to everyday and have seen in concert 6 times. The best thing people can do is to try and find a quiet place to breathe and center themselves so they can get their bearings back in order.
What do you think is being said in a movie or TV show when the subtitles read indistinct nervous chatter?
If it is background actors, in a crowded scene — then often, on the set, nothing was said. Really. Background extras often are instructed to pantomime talking, but remain silent, and the audio engineers add an audio channel of audio later, to precisely control the volume, and the balance between scripted dialogue and the “ambient sounds.”Sometimes the background actors are told to just carry on quiet, real conversations, but to keep the volume very low.Decades ago, background extras were often instructed to repeat meaningless phrases over and over, so they at least had their mouths working. A common one was “rhubarb, watermelon, rhubarb, watermelon, watermelon, rhubarb, watermelon rhubarb.” But, the results often looked artificial and staged, because those in the background seemed to be talking too much…. and too often. Often, a couple in a restaurant were both speaking non stop at the same time. Sort of like my ex- and I used to do, smile.Most often, it is pantomime during actual shooting, and later the sound engineers add a very quiet recording of many people talking about anything at all.NOTE:IF you are talking about the principal actors who are the focus of the scene, it can be anything at all. Often improvised, and often said “in character,” in case the microphone picks it up and it ends up loud enough to be understood.EDIT: The O. P. felt that I misunderstood the question (?) So, at the risk of redundancy, allow me to try again.If the dialogue is spoken by “extras” (also known as “background actors,”) — then they are often saying nothing at all, but merely using pantomime. Sometimes, they are instructed to converse, with others near them, but so quietly that the mic does not pick up what was actually said. Their dialogue was UNSCRIPTED. It was never intended to be “heard” as words by the audience.If it is the “principal actors” — who are the main focus — then they are improvising. It is unscripted. It is made up on the spot, by actors who are making up imaginary dialogue, based upon their own character, and the situation at that exact moment. Their dialogue was UNSCRIPTED. It was never intended to be “heard” as words by the audience.