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Nervous About Going Back To School

I'm nervous about going back to school...?

Woo! +1 for class of 2012

'nyway, turn your nervousness into excitement.

Think about it. You're going to have your old, familiar friends, and possibly a bunch of new friends as well. I've changed schools about 4 times in the last 5 years, so I understand what it's like to even go into a whole new place where nobody knows you. At least at your school, you still know people.

-New classes. You get to hang out with totally different people than last year, and maybe even get to know them.

-Freshmen. We're Juniors now. They look up to US. Sometimes we can even control them, if you play your cards right. Even if the generalization of freshmen reminds you of 'loud, annoying middleschoolers,' there are actually some freshmen that are pretty enjoyable to be around. Whole new class of people that want to blend in

-No grades from last year haunt you. A fresh new start, you get to know your classes, and maybe do better than you did last year. Make new habits, learn from existing habits. Remember, Junior year is arguably the hardest educational year in all of schooling [apart from college]. Once we're seniors, we can just goof off [sorta], because the teachers care even less than we do. But Junior year, you're going to have to focus, so lock and load your guns, you're in for a bumpy ride

TL;DR: Just turn that nervousness into excitement. Turn all the new things that your scared of into new things that you're excited for. Why would your friends not talk to you anymore? Just be yourself, and your friends will regroup with you just like they did last year

I'm nervous to go back to school. What should I do?

I definitely remember that feeling! Whether it was as a kid, teen, or young adult, there were always moments of nervousness when I got ready to get back in the swing of things-both academically and with friends I hadn’t seen in a while.So, I think it’s perfectly normal, and to some extent you just have to ride it out until you’re over that first day back. And I think usually you find that most of your worries weren’t warranted.With that said, if you have some serious concerns about returning to school, it doesn’t hurt to talk to someone about them. For instance, if you’re younger, you might tell your parents, a trusted teacher, or a school counselor. It’s possible they could help you make your return go a little more smoothly.Lastly, hopefully you have some friends at your school? If so, talk to them and let them know your fears. You might be surprised to learn they’re feeling the exact same way!

Nervous about going back to public school?

I've been home-schooled for the past 2 years and am going to finish my 12th grade year at a public school. I have terrible anxiety and don't know how to talk to people (literally, nothing comes out). I want to enjoy this year but I'm nervous, self-conscious, and anxious. I don't want to get bullied like I did before at public school for being "awkward and saying inappropriate things". I haven't interacted with anybody my age since then.

Why do I get nervous when going back to school? And how can I stop it?

If you have a bad experience at school or any sort of negative ideas of school then you can have fears and worries develop in you. Unless you are simply shy and an introvert kind of person.The first thing to do is find out what bothers you if is it an object, person or situation. Then once you identify it, try to be brave when you face that object, person or situation. If you experience something repeatedly you might get use to it. Just remain positive with yourself no matter how things may go.Fear, doubts and worry can be overcomed with self-confidence and positive thinking, it is a good defense. Always ask help from people when you need help, express your problems to people you trust don't ever keep things to yourself especially if it is a serious problem.

I'm really nervous about going back to school (I haven't been to school in 3-4 weeks)...?

First of all take a deep breath, everything will be fine! I know how you feel because i was out of school for a year and recently went back, it was strange at first but everyone was surprisingly friendly and not too nosey. If they ask where you've been just tell them "personal reasons" or "family stuff" and then shrug it off and they won't ask any more questions. As for the nerves, just try to ignore them because the more you think about them the worse they are going to get and the harder it's going to be to go back. When you wake up tomorrow or when you get dropped off outside school you're going to want to run away because your bodies "fight or flight" instinct kicks in and chooses the flight option, but force yourself to go in, just let your legs carry you and don't think about it.

Having no close friends and being teased is tough, but if you try to attend school as much as possible you increase your chances of making new friends. It took me months to settle into my new school and make some friends and i know how tough it is, some people seem to settle into a new school in a matter of days or weeks but for others it takes much longer... it does happen eventually though. Ultimately school is there for you to get an education and a good future, so even through the hard times try and keep focused on graduating and getting into college and whatever else you want to do with your life. If it helps you get into school tomorrow just think about how proud your mom will be and how you're doing this for her, then you'll have a good insensitive to walk in there. Good luck! It'll be fine i promise, and i hope your mom gets better soon.

:-)

I'm nervous to go back to school after I was absent?

Hello. Im in 10th grade. I missed 4 days if school because of a illness. I was excused by a doctor to miss the 4 days of school. I have recently missed a lot of days this year. Most were excused absences. But I've reached my limit of days I am allowed to miss for the year. I'm just nervous to go back because my teachers make snappy comments towards me. They bring up things like "you sure do miss a lot of days..." It's those types of comments that makes me think they'll be mad when I return. I always make up my work on time, but they still have an attitude towards me. Now that I write this I feel I am making a big deal out of nothing, but I'm still extremely nervous about my teachers hating me or giving me a hard time when I go back. Any advice? Anyone else experience things like this?

Nervous to go back to school after being sick?

im 16 years old and i just missed 2 days of school due to a stomach virus. When i was throwing up for 12 hours straight I wasn't worried, but now that I'm better I am. I have a bad anxiety disorder and i get myself worked up for no reason. I always get nervous about going back to school even if i missed 1 day. I really didn't miss anything major, but I get so nervous and I feel so out of the loop and I feel like my teachers will be mad and for some odd reason i feel like even my friends start to hate it and i feel like the whole world is against me its SICKENING, i know. I've had this problem for FOREVER. I'm so sick of being scared to miss school when I'm ACTUALLY sick and can't go. I've been fine most of the time I've had to go back to school after an absence, but every time i just get scared its the same old story. How do I get over this? I need some reassurance that i'll be ok :(

if you have something rude to say please don't even answer. I'm dealing with a severe anxiety disorder and it takes over. its something so hard to live with and if you don't understand don't comment please x

How do I get used to going back to school?

School is starting, you will get busy, make some new friends and catch up with some old ones. You never know what will happen at school next. Your sister will be home at Christmas, maybe before, I have no idea. This is your chance to spend more one on one with your parents. Learn a new hobby, take up writing, take up painting, take up baseball…time heals and makes things easier…your sister is in your heart. Life is not all games, I am happy you enjoyed your summer, summers while in school are great. Once you start working, its work the rest of your life except for some vacation times.Don’t cry because its over, smile because you had the experience nad had a great time with your sister…don’t let the sadness shadow over the great memories.

I am very sad, depressed, nervous about going back to school in 2 days. It mainly happens at night when I get sad. What can I do to make my self happy?

Let me guess, you live in Bangor Maine ( see my Bio)? Sure wouldn’t surprise me.My advice is to figure out which subject you’re best in or really like and focus on building your future career from it. Example, Is your favorite part of school “Lunch”? Fine. Then try to befriend the Cafeteria staff and express and interest in cooking. Find at least one teacher ( preferably one who teaches a class you’re good in ) and discuss your career options with them after class is dismissed.Meanwhile, as for the beasts roaming the halls? Walk fast and don’t make eye contact.

Nervous to go back to school after absence?

im 17 years old, a senior in high school (horrible and embarassing i know) and i just missed 2 days of school bc i was really sick. When i was feeling really ill I wasn't worried because i knew i wasnt well enough to go to school, but now that I'm better I am so nervous. I have a bad anxiety disorder and i get myself worked up for no reason. I always get nervous about going back to school even if i missed 1 day. I really didn't miss anything major, but I get so nervous and I feel so out of the loop and I feel like my teachers will be mad and for some odd reason i feel like even my friends start to hate it and i feel like the whole world is against me its SICKENING, i know. I've had this problem for FOREVER. THIS HAPPENS EVERY SINGLE TIME I DONT GO TO SCHOOL. i cannot even explain how mnay times this has happened. theres not one time i havent been nervous. I'm so sick of being scared to miss school when I'm ACTUALLY sick and can't go. I've been fine most of the time I've had to go back to school after an absence, but every time i just get scared its the same old story. How do I get over this? I need some reassurance that i'll be ok :(
plus, im missing school wednesday because i have an important thing i am going to that i have to miss school for. :(

if you have something rude to say please don't even answer. I'm dealing with a severe anxiety disorder and it takes over. its something so hard to live with and if you don't understand don't comment please x

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