I recently ran into my ex-boyfriend and I felt terrible. Have I been in denial for too long?
Well, in case that you want him back, it was kinda bad if you were not in your top form. But even if you don't want him back do it for your ego to look amazing. In either case you have to control your emotions, and the best thing to do is to lift yourself up by: get a new haircut, but a hot new dress, apply a hot new makeup and so on. You can read more jealousy generation tips on my site. I recommend to prepare for future encounters. Don't let anything to chance. You own that much to yourself.
Anyone else feel super insecure without mascara? Help..?
I am fair skinned, with blue eyes and blonde hair so naturally my eyelashes are a light brown. They are super long, it's just they're so light. Ive dyed them before, but they still aren't as thick as I'd like them. I never leave without a tinted moisturizer...a thin thin line of brown mascara and ATLEAST 2-3 coats of black mascara... My boyfriend always whines and says I dont need it, but he does say I look different without the mascara. I seriously think Ive left the house twice without mascara.. Any tips for boosting my confidence? Or maybe a more permanent solution so I dont have the hassle of putting mascara on everyyy dayy Help is so appreciated, it's been my biggest insecurity since I was in 8th grade, and I am now a senior in highschool.
Should i leave my controlling boyfriend?
i have been with my boyfriend for 11 months now. at first we were great, things couldnt have been better, but the past 6 months have been horrible. his very controlling, his deleted all the boys off of my facebook, wont let me talk to any boys at all, although i dont want to anyway as he doesnt understand, i dont want anyone else apart from him, its got to the point were i ALWAYS have to be with him, he moans if i 'ask' to go and see my friends, and he'll argue with me untill i give in and say i wont go, he even stops me from going to see my own mother because he dont like her, the last time i went to see her when i got back to his house, were im currently living, he had all my bags packed and left them by the door and said i chose her over him, i got really upset and in the end i said i was leaving, but i couldnt bring myself to actually walk out as i know i wouldnt be able to get him back. ive tried talking to him about this loads of times, he just wont listen and tells me to shut up, he never says sorry to me when he hurts my feelings and when we argue, although its not my fault i always end up saying sorry just so he will talk to me, eventhough it doesnt work. he says he really loves me and wants to be with me, but its getting to the point were i no longer believe him, what hurts the most is when i look back though his old messsages he never used to be like this with his ex, and when she left him, he begged her to stay, but with me, he doesnt care, his the only person ive ever felt like this about, and as his stopped me from seeing all my friends, and family i have no one to turn to, im so scared to leave him because ill have no one at all :( i dont know what to do because i love him soo much its killing me :( im very depressed and upset, please tell me what to do and how to cope. his also very criticizing and always tells me im fat and ugly, when i aint even fat :( and i only look uglier as his stopped me from wearing any makeup or doing my hair nicely.
Why does my boyfriend feel the need to comment on my appearance?
Now, I've always been really laid back in terms of how I look, how I dress. My makeup is minimal, clothes are always comfortable(but i don't completely ignore the aesthetic principle of dressing myself either), and while I have had a few dislikes in my physical/genetic makeup, I'm generally satisfied with what my mama gave me ;) Lately I've noticed that my boyfriend makes comments on my appearance..pretty often. -"Your teeth are so...unique." We paused while making out for him to say this -_- -"You should try working your butt out more" -"Your eyelids fold really weird, like not like normal eyelids." I'm asian, so of course I have monolids. -"Your lips are kind of big" ^these are just a few examples, not including the sexual ones ...They're not explicitly rude or mean, but it's enough to bother me..Just..why?! And just for good measure, I have never matter-of-factly pointed out his physical features in a way that wasn't positive. I'm not saying he's physically perfect (he's not), I'm just considerate enough to not feel the need to say anything..
Friend said I need makeover, was she being rude?
I'm in high school, and my friend and I both have boyfriends (they are friends too). Lately I have made an extra special effort in clearing my skin, I've been doing detoxing and lots of facial masks so my skin is a bit better condition than it was before. My boyfriend likes me (he doesn't complain about my looks yet) and on social media I don't even wear makeup just the filter and it looks good to me. Anyhow she suggested out of nowhere that I need to start putting more foundation on my skin(which clogs my pores) and all this makeup, then said she needs to give me a makeover? I was blindsighted because I think I look fine and I don't really have pimples or anything and I've been doing detox face creams and masks, so I really didn't needs it. Mind you, no one has complained that I need to, even my complexion has become brighter. Was my friend being rude or just trying to helpful? I feel sometimes she's insecure with herself because she said her boyfriend doesn't compliment her with or without makeup.
I'm insecure about my boob size?
Sorry it's so long, i have a large A or small B cup boobs. I had always been insecure because all of my friends are C-D cups, but lately i haven't been caring because i thought. hey, they're just boobs. but today we all went to the beach and they all had clevage nice boobs! and i thought maybe it was because i had a slender frame or some crap like that, but my friend who is petite and tiny and short has DD cup boobs. so now i'm insecure again and i don't want this cycle to repeat. I'm 15, i'm tall and not skinny but less then average sized if you get me. I guess what i'm most scared of is them, or boys (mainly) judging me, especially around all these girls with decent boobs. i feel boys would just look past me and onto everyone else because of this. i know boobs aren't everything and if a boy liked me it wouldn't be because of boobs, but i mean in general, if at first glance they looked at me and saw i had quite small boobs well they'd just overlook me completely. Sorry it's so long, help?
My girlfriend can't be around other guys without makeup, but with me she can. We've been together for 2 months. What does that mean?
The good thing: She trusts you. She is not afraid of showing her real self around you. She doesn’t need to impress you.The bad thing: She probably has a problem with her self-esteem to not be able to ditch makeup around others. She doesn’t want to be vulnerable. She uses the makeup as a mask to make herself appear better and nicer.I did say “probably”.You did not really say why you are pinpointing “other guys” rather than “other people”. Could this be just your jealousy kicking in? If she wears makeup outside, surely even women see her wearing makeup, which is but natural for women to do, anyway (just not for me, I don’t wear makeup). A lot of women just enjoy makeup and being pretty. Maybe she wears them when she goes to work even—that’s logical and common.My advice is, if you don’t see/catch her flirting with other guys (and not just assume she is, okay?), don’t think too much of it.