What to expect at a nightclub for the first time?
Why did you ask this on the American Y!A your just going to make them jealous that your legally allowed to drink at 18 lol All club's are different with different atmosphere's and music playing on different night's so I could not tell you what it will be like exactly. Going out to nightclub's is different for girl's compared to guy's, we have to make the effort to talk to you, buy you drinks and hopefully take you home lol If your just going to one nightclub and staying there it might be boring, why don't you try having pre drinks and dances at other bars and clubs before you get to the club your planning to go to. It set's you up and relax's you for the night ahead. If your going to a club in the city it might be more fun with a better atmosphere especially if you follow my advice about the pre drink's. If your in a town then I'm sure it will still fun with a just as good atmosphere because your new to the club so I think you"ll have a good and exciting night regardless. Just concentrate on having a good time with your friends and don't drink too much because it's not a fun way to end the night (trust me lol). Hope you have nice time :)
I want to go to a nightclub for the first time alone. What happens in there?
Despite what people might tell you, it’s never really weird to go to a club alone. Fellow Quora contributor Josh Zastrow has a great post in another thread on why going out alone is O.K. - check it out for more insights.NYC, LA, Las Vegas, and Miami are the four cities that sit on the top tier of nightlife cities in the U.S., if not the entire world. For top-tier cities like these, out-of-towners often visit specifically to partake in late nights out, clubs are crowded not only on the weekends and big holidays like Halloweeen but during the week, and it’s fairly easy to roll into a club by yourself and meet strangers on the dance floor or at the bar - the bouncers won’t look at you sideways if you show up by yourself, and other clubgoers won’t think it odd if you approach them without being part of a group. (And if they do you can always say you are “meeting friends inside” or you “know the bartender.”)Nightclubs are a form of entertainment, and people go for a variety of reasons. Here’s what people do inside today’s nightclubs:DanceHang out with friendsMeet new people / hook upEnjoy the music / live performancesEnjoy the visuals (go-go dancers, light shows, pyrotechnics)Drink or ingest foreign substances in order to “go wild” or act out of characterPeople-watchMost people at nightclubs are there for a combination of the above reasons. If you talk to enough people at the club, you're bound to run into someone who shares the same reasons as you.There are several positive benefits to enjoying nightlife: socializing, letting loose, blowing off steam, listening to music that you enjoy, and potentially finding potential mates (or at least temporary mates).Nowadays thanks to technology, it’s even easier to go to a club alone to dance the night away and meet new people now that you don’t need to know a promoter to get in. You can use the Discotech app - http://www.discotech.me/app - to search events by the specific dates you’ll be in town and buy tickets, sign up for guest lists, or even reserve a table if you’re feeling super-fancy. (Side note: the best way to meet a woman in a nightclub is to offer to buy her a drink, and although it may not be economical if you’re by yourself, the most effective/impressive way of buying her a drink is to invite her to your table to partake in bottle service. But be sure to take off the Halloween mask first before you make your approach. :p)Hope this helps!
Going to a night club on the first date?
Personally, I think I understand where she's coming from. I myself, have never done online dating, but if I were to meet someone for the first time in person, a little bit of "liquid courage" would be more than welcome :p If you really, want to go on a more standard type of date, let her know. Maybe she won't want, but at least you'll have tried. On the other hand, you should also know (vaguely) what type of girl she is if you guys guys have chatted a bit and whatnot. Knowing this, maybe she's a party girl? if not, why go to a club? I have to agree with you on the fact that I probably wouldn't go to a club for a first date, but it's all about talking to each other and coming to a consensus! Best of luck, -Vinc
Please help, first time at nightclub, how to have a safe and pleasant experience?
Aww don't worry so much! I promise it;s not as scary as you think it will be haha. If a guy sks you to dance, buy you a drink, whatever and you aren't interested in him, just say "no thanks". Don't be rude or insulting or anything, and I seriously doubt anybody is going to start an argument. If someone does try and cause problems, that's what bouncers are for. Basic safety stuff: NEVER let your drink out of your sight. Keep it in your hand at all times. Never let someone buy you a drink and bring it to you, if a guy is going to get you a drink, go up to the bar with him and take it directly from the bartender. Don't feel pressured to spend tons of time with a guy just because he bought you a drink. Thank him, socialise, be polite, etc, and if you decide you aren't all that into him, thank him again for the drink and tell him to have a great night but that you should probably go meet up with your friends now. Unless you get stamped when you first enter the club, you are not able to go in and out as you please. Once you're in, you're in, if you leave you usually need to stay out. Remember that so you don't end up stuck outside while all your friends are still partying inside. Most guys are pretty nice and polite and can take a hint, and unless you're going to a sex club or something you probably won't be swarmed by guys trying to dance with you or buy you a drink. There will probably be a few, but nothing crazy unless you're being really provocative. When you;re dancing, you may have a guy try and grind or dance with you, if you aren't interested just move away and he'll usually take the hint. And if you're with a big group of girls, guys will generally leave you alone because they don't like to risk being rejected with an audience, haha. Just go have fun! Don't get all stressed about this, it's really nothing to worry about.
What are your tips for the first time going to a bar/club?
18 may legally make you an adult, but 21 is the final step to total freedom. Its something to be celebrated! And where better to let it all loose, than a bar or nightclub?My advice: Have fun with it!A bar/nightclub is nothing more than a party. A social gathering. Surely you’ve experienced several of these, leading up to your change in legal status?Yeah, the music may be better, louder, and clearer, and the lights more intense, but the general premise is the same. Its ok to be excited, as most people will be happy to congratulate you on leveling up. It’s easy to assume that most people have gotten safely drunk, publicly acknowledging this landmark event. So think of it as a right of passage.Any good doorman or bartender will pick up on your recent birthdate and give you a smile.Now get in the game!
What should I know before I get my first experience in a nightclub/pub/lounge?
since it'll be your first experience actually clubbing...keep the following points in mind:1) inform your parents or some other responsible elder who you trust that you are out...so that someone knows about your whereabouts2)go with a decent group of friends...since it is your first experience, make it a good one...don't enter with friends that usually create a scene after getting drunk...or get into fights !3) do not go on a empty stomach.....have something to eat ,cause an empty stomach tends to intensify the effect of the high you get if you end up drinking.4) feed a speedial number....just in case things get out of hand and you are way to drunk .5) think about transport before hand....make sure you have arranged for your transport back to where ever you plan to crash after the party !6)most importantly....REMEMBER TO HAVE FUN....but the correct kind !!
VIP rooms in NightClubs.?
VIP rooms at most clubs are just seperate areas normally with more room and more plush seating. Sometimes quieter as well. Its a place for bottle and champagne guests are normally guaranteed seating. * More for those guests wanting to be catered to instead of standing at the bar for eternity trying to wiggle in just to order a drink. * Most places allow ladies to roam freely throughout the VIP rooms where the covercharge or the table charge tends to keep out a lot of the knuckleheads that like to bump ppl or stand in the aisles.
How does an introvert enjoy first time going to night club?
Have a few drinks. You'll loosen up, and the more you drink, the closer you will get to the dance floor, until finally, you're there, dancing, and having fun! I had a few friends just like you, and that's all it took for them.