No Friends To Hang Out With

No close friends or hangout friends?

At school, i do always (kind of) have groups of people I "blend in" with. i'm not the invisible, quiet one of the groups but even as i'm laughing along and joining in conversations, i feel somewhat out of it. So i have plenty of acquaintances but none of them are people that actually care when i'm not there. And i'm not even at the point to get invited to their parties. I'm not one that constantly need to be out doing something but two whole years of high school without being invited once to hang out is pretty bad, and I think I'm a pretty average girl so this whole time I thought, "someone i can connect with will eventually come along". I actually got out there, joined clubs and got to know new people but nobody connected with me and i didn't feel connected to them.
What's really awkward is for school events where i have to sit with friends (random in school pep rallies), I have no one to sit with. Well, I can sit with some of my acquaintances but they always give me a weird glance like, "why isn't she sitting with her own friends" but the thing is, they're my only "friends".
It's really hard to make close friends at this point because people have already have their friend groups and are unwilling to let others in. And my parents, who obviously noticed I have never brought a friend over for a few years, are really awkward about it when the topic comes up and I feel like such a loser though I know that's not what my parents are thinking.
It's not so much about me being sad about being alone, because sometimes people do need some me-time, but I really want a close friend who I can rely on and not treat me as a last resort. I really want to look forward to going to school but I dread it so much because going makes me remember what a loser I am. Even the so called "outcasts" have friends, so since I have absolutely zero friends, I must not even be worth being an "outcast".

Is anyone in this situation, or has been? I really need advice and I am so sad everyday because of this...

Crying because I have no friends?

Lately I've been feeling lonely because I have no friends to hangout at lunch , I've always hung out with my boyfriend in lunch but this school year he's decided to hang out with his friends also, it's not that I don't want him to hangout with his friends, it's that I have no friends who will hangout with me in lunch , I don't like asking my friends everyday to hangout in lunch because they hang out with their own boyfriends or best friends & it's a horrible feeling to hangout with them and be ignored. I feel like crying because I feel lonely most of the time

What to do for new years Eve if I have no friends?

I feel the same way you do. I am two years younger than you, 16 and i live in rural southern spain with my parents alone, with no friends and no other family or people we know. I am staying stuck in..in a freezing house which isn't even ours with my parents. I asked a similar question last night about this & a man answered telling me he is spending new years at the accident and emergency again fixing up drunks who have hurt themselves or got into fights whilst his wife and her friends are out at parties, he reminded me that new year isn't just about getting drunk and making a mess of yourself and i should reflect on the year and celebrate it knowing there is a whole new year coming ahead of me.

He said there are many more to come when i am older and i will have friends and one day perhaps a family to celebrate it. Same goes to you. There are many people who are alone and won't be doing anything. It is just another night passing by, nothing different...everyone is made to believe it is such a big thing and everyone wants to be having fun like everyone else, i did too but its just because lots of people are. All those will wake up with a stinking hangover the next day though.

Don't be too hard on yourself. Before you know it, it will be all over and everyone will get on with their normal lives.

In the UK, a girl went missing for 10 days and she was found dead on christmas day, strangled and dumped in the woods. Her parents and long term boyfriend can't see their futures without her.
People like us complaning about things like this...eh.

You will make friends in time, proper ones who you will have proper fun with. You don't need to be in the crowd making a mess of yourself... they get so drunk they can't even remember it.

Small occasions are the most memorable. You will have plenty time for the other stuff in the many years you have to come, you should treasure these years the most before you move along.

I am in too much of a rush too lol.

Sorry i couldn't help more