What are some signs that your boyfriend really loves you?
Basics signs to understand if your boyfriend loves you He will certainly make time for you without any lame excuses.He will reply to your text and call quickly or if in case he is late he will call and make you understand the reason .He will understand the insecurity of a girl and never try to act or do anything stupid to make you vulnerable.He will introduce you to his close inner group of friends and family so you can be more comfortable around .He will have eyes for you (may be few flirting incident in general) but you will always be his girl.You will be his Priority among along his work and people as he will never ignore you under the veil of space and time .He would understand the difference between Lovd and Lust. He would wait .He would ask you for the marriage first.He would treat your parents and family as his own and your friends as his own group .He would lead you in hardtimes, guide you when you will be low and stand by with you when you will be least expecting this him .Even after a long and tiring day if he is calling to ask you how was your day/ did you have your lunch etc . . Believe me he love you .He will balance things, work /time /relations with you.Instead of breaking up on small or big fights, he will sit with you, communicate and solve the issue and make things work again.You will see him with genuine smile and warmth whenever you will meet him.He would be a bit possessive ( natural in all men) as he is afraid to loose you .Your weight/skintone/ etc will not be a matter of concern to him .The best way to know if he love you is try testing him when things go south, if he is there till the end to make things rights and workable (girl don't loose him , he is a keeper).If a man is into you, he will come and get you . It is this simple.Though relation is based of true abs mutual efforts of both the individuals . Trust and respect him, if the person is genuine , he is not going to wander.Peace (Ra)
I can't stand my boyfriends sister?
Okay so today my boyfriend graduated from college. He's 19 and I'm 18. His sister is 16. She is the most obnoxious cocky person I've ever met and it's driving me insane. I sincerely do not like her and it sucks because my boyfriend loves her. She talks in a baby voice to try to sound cute and she's overly flamboyant with her sexuality. She's always walking around sticking her butt out and today at his graduation when we were taking pictures she was like "everybody get out of the way! i'm an attractive girl who needs to take a picture with my attractive brother!!" and i was like omg. It's so annoying because I wish she was somebody I could get along with but she's very cocky and rude. Whenever she talks to me all she talks about is my hair and makeup and she says I'm pretty. She's nice to me but not in the sincere way if you know what I mean. She doesn't try to get to know me as a person, even though I try to get to know her. She's very superficial and shallow and I can't stand being around her. Sad part is she's not even good looking she's just normal looking. Is this bad?? Like I wish she wasn't so cocky or else I'd be fine. Is it a bad thing that I don't have a good relationship with her? Btw, she doesn't know I don't like her. I haven't even told my boyfriend yet because I'm scared he'll get mad. What should I do?
My boyfriends sister is sexually attracted to him n it makes me wonder if they've had incest?
So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and I've pretty much lived with him in his parents house this whole time, he has a younger sister about 4yrs younger than him, when i fist met him his sis was with him n shes drunk n she says to him god your so hot why don't we have incest together our babies would be so hot, i laughed so hard I've never herd anyone say that to there bro, and he just ignored her n everyone was like ew wtf n she laughed it off, we ended up dating after that she hated me she would give me dirty looks and I've herd her talk bad about me multiple times. she came home so drunk she started yelling at her brother for having friends over n she then called me a whore n he yells at her n she ends up punching him n he pushes her down and I leave and she ends up talking to me saying she loves her brother so much and that she's really jelouse of having me live there I told her I'd move out with him n she cries and goes no you can't take him away you don't understand I love him so much, n we get over that n then time goes by she stares at her bro n goes gosh your so sexy and try's to touch his arm n he goes stop your so weird another time she was talking about how's she's weird with her Bro how she's given him a lap dance before at a party I was like wtf I'm too afraid to say anything to her cuz she could like freak out n it's way to awkward to bring up, n another time her n I were talking about her having sex with someone n she goes ya this guys dick was so nice, n then she says her bro has a beautiful dick n I go ew you've seen it? She's like ya duh he's my brother, n I've herd from friends that at parties before I knew him shed try to kiss him n he'd pull away n go ew n that shed try to hold his hand, he's nvr been flirty with her or checked her out nothing to make me think he wants her but why does she get so creepy with him it makes me think they've hooked up before idk what to think or do
My boyfriend’s sister is rude to me when I have been nothing but kind to her; what should I do?
Ah ha! Something I know quite a bit about!My current and previous relationship each had a sister. I saw them as threatening, self-righteous, little fuckin princesses who were undeservingly placed on pedestals. I was with my ex for 7 years, and have been with my fiance for over 5 years. I couldn't fuckin stand these twats!After the breakup with my ex, I did some serious analysis of my behavior and thought process. I noticed that I was jealous of these women. But why?My sister and I don't talk. We don't see each other. It's like to us both, the other doesn't exist.I realized that these women were actually quite wonderful! But it was me who had the problem. I was jealous of their relationship. I'd never had that with my own, and couldn't understand the closeness they had because I'd never experienced it with my own. Now that I understand it's me, not them, I'm better equipped to handle my attitude when it rears its ugly head. I've explained this to my fiance, and said that while these feelings will probably never go away, that it's me who has the problem, not his sister, and to just ignore me when I act up. I even explained this to his parents after his sister and I had a falling out. It's me, not her!While this is my personal situation, I do understand that this is not the case for everyone, and some people are just miserable. The dynamics of sibling love isn't something I understand, but I can say that while not all are like this, many just don't like their siblings being “taken away”.Always be the better person. Smile, and kill them with kindness. ❤
What to do if your family ignores your birthday?
My Mom passed away 6 years ago and we were very close. On my birthday even when I was far away, she always called a florist and bakery and made a fuss. But now I am left with 2 brothers in their 40's and a Dad who are typical men. I have no sisters. Most years I get a lame phone call and nothing else. No dinner, cards, etc. This year I turned 35 (yesterday actually) and the only card I got was from my boss. I have told my 1 brother that lives 20 minutes away that his behavior hurts and I get the same excuse each year, "I have a full time job and wife and kid and are just too busy." I am single and he actually said to me that only married people are entitled to attention on their birthdays. He is married and got a big fuss for his 41st birthday in May with dinner at a restaurant, cake, cards, etc. He said that it is a perk of being married (his wife planned it) and because I am single I am not entitled to all that stuff for my birthday. My birthday is late august and my friends blow me off because they are too busy getting their kids ready for school or whatever the current excuse is. So I often end up spending it alone. But Im 35 and I have searched high and low and everyone I meet over 30 (male or female) is married with kids. I need to find single friends around my age. Any advice? Because I am tired of being friends with married people with kids because they are always blowing me off because they are "busy" and I am just sick of it. I think they could make the time for a friend's 35th birthday if they wanted but they don't. And to top it all off, my one brother's excuse this year was that he couldn't do dinner because he was too busy packing for a weekend lake trip which is wife disinvited me to. I still don't know why I was disinvited. I am good, kind person who goes out of their way to help people and get gifts and cards for them. If anything I am too nice and that is why I get dumped on by everybody because they know they can get away with it. They said it was because they didn't realize at the time they invited me that the block of rooms they had reserved with the others in the group were "full". And lastly, the middle brother has forgotten most of the past 15 years and only sends a card when he is married and his wife gets the card. (He is twice divorced and recently went to jail for contempt for not removing his former wife from property deeds that he is delinquent on.)
My Sister is BIPOLAR-MANIC: Her Boyfriend tells Her Not To Take Medication or Else SHE'LL GET FAT?
i am sick of his STUPIDNESS my sister is having a manic episode right now, and is on medication, her boyfriend got a paper of the side-effects of the meds and one said: "gain weight"...well that dumbass said to my sister, "See, look you'll gain weight, that will only make you more depressed"... and he has NOT seen my sister at her worse manic-state (we live with her 24/7, He see's her 2 times a week) so he thinks that she doesn't need help, he tells my mom "why r u taking her to the hospital, she will only get worse.." THATS NOT THE POINT, if she gains weight thats ****** fine The point is she gets better , that moron
Should I leave my boyfriend just because my sister and some of her friends don't want us together? We're both very happy together for 5 months now.
Yes. Ditch him and break up by textJoke aside, your relationship with your boyfriend is in your hands, not in the hands of other people. I know couples who are 10 years apart yet still got married with each other. I don’t see how age is a problem in your relationship and I think your sister is unreasonable in wanting to break your relationship off.However, I understand your sister’s concern in which he might be playing with you. But, if what you are saying is true, that he loves you and would do anything to make you happy, then you should just ignore them. Your happiness and well-being is more important than other people’s opinions.Warning:Our perception of other people might differ from what others perceive him/her to be. If your partner has displayed signs of abusive behaviour, such as hitting you, making you feel like garbage and maintaining full control of your life, then its best that you stay the fuck away from that man.While you may see him as a kind and compassionate man, he might actually be a mean and abusive guy trying to seem sympathetic and reeling you back in for more abuse.If thats the case then its best you listen to your sisterHopefully, he is actually what you say he is.
Is it okay for my friends little sister to be naked around me? What should do?
You should be asking yourself this question. Is it okay to YOU that she's naked. If you have no problem with it and don't really mind that she's naked then say so. There's no reason for her to be yelled at and shamed into clothing; such brainwashing is incredibly damaging to a child's developing mind (believe me, that's what happened to me and it totally messed me up with all sorts of phobias about nudity). It's far more mentally and emotionally destructive to a child to be screamed and shamed into clothing; nudity and being unashamed of one's body is far more beneficial to her development and numerous psychological studies have proven that fact. If you are uncomfortable about her nudity then say so, but don't let her brother or mom use that as reason to scream at her when they can simply ask her to go get dressed. I personally think you shouldn't worry about it and not care if she's naked. Being nude is comfortable and she seems to enjoy it, so it's not worth getting upset over. Just ignore the fact she's nude and give that no more attention than if she was wearing clothes.
My friends and family think my bf is ugly?
I know it sounds cliche, but "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." If you love your man, you have a child together and you want to marry him, and you see him as handsome, sexy and cute in YOUR eyes, then that's all that matters. Don't go by what friends and family are saying, you know what he looks like and you know how he treats you. Tell them how you feel when they speak badly about his looks. Besides, you can date, be engaged and married to the most gorgeous man in the world, but that isn't justification that he will love you and treat you like a Princess. Appearance and good looks is what attracts an individual to a person, however, it's what is in the person's heart that makes him who he is-and that is what makes him beautiful.