Did you know there were so many debates on parenting before Y!A?
Which one shocked you the most? I have to say vaccinations and circumcisions shocked me the most, I thought the only way you couldn't get them had to be religious or medical reasons.
If i get an abortion at planned parenthood , will it show up on my moms monthly bill?
You're considering killing a baby, and all you can think about is whether or not your mom will see the bill?? I can't imagine being so self centered. ADD---Your other questions says the first time you ever had sex was a week ago...so how could you already be pregnant?
Should I have the right to be given the new address of my ex as we have a baby together and I believe I should know exactly where my child is when he is in his care?
It's pretty common that this is a requirement in a joint custody agreement. However, he doesn't have to tell you if he's spending time somewhere else. In fact it's common that only if a vacation is longer than 4 days are you obligated to provide an itinerary with addresses and contact information.These are all court issues that if you two can't compromise on the only way to get an answer is by going to court.The court is dispassionate and cold. They aren't going to react to your anxiety without documented proof of child neglect or abuse.Right now your fears are making you suffer. No one else feels your feelings. That's something that you can effect change on.I have found dbt skills therapy to be the most effective way to deal with my feelings of safety and anxiety about my children with their father. Ignore the diagnosis labeling and focus on the skills mastery. It takes effort and work AND it helps. It's extremely difficult and feels completely unfair.Best of luck
Should I tell my children that their father is narcissist?
Coming out the other side from a crazy, abusive, narcissistic relationship and surviving, yourself is cause for high fives, fist pumps and much celebration.The answer to your question is NO! They will resent you for it, the narcissist will feed off the drama and claim that you are abusing the child through parental alienation. Which will cause you a heap of agro. You want peace, tranquility, not future dramas.However, for children caught up in this terrible web, it's really confusing and requires a strong, caring, empathic care giver to make them feel loved during this.There are two scenarios at play here.if you are super lucky to have the narcissist abandon you and the child/children then there's no sweat in the issue here. The children will notice the absent father/mother on their own and in time will conclude that the narcissist is a crap caregiver; even if they have minimal contact.Now if…if the child or children have always had their father around, whether they were crap or amazing; they will feel a great sense of love towards him/her regardless of your relationship troubles. So just let this be.So in this instance it's wise to just be the best possible parent you can be. No point scoring, no commenting on parenting unless safeguarding issues arise then report them to the relevant bodies.Creating a loving, stable, free from abuse home and environment for your kid(s) is the number 1 priority. Not your dislike for this person. That goes out of the window here. You have to safeguard your children at every opportunity and accommodating a narcissist that's abusive and selfish for the sake of being politically correct, is not the right way to deal with this.If you find that engaging with the narcissist is really grating on your nerves, and affecting your children's wellbeing that you can't possibly co-parent with this person (100% of the time you can't); then get a lawyer and draft the legalities up so you can lead a peaceful life with your kids.If possible remove yourself physically and emotionally from the scenario. Get friends, family to orchestrate pick ups and drops offs. This will save you so much energy to rebuild your life.Hopefully the narcissistic parent will get bored and drop off the scene. Jump with joy, however they will leaving you with no child support (temporary sacrifice) for long term success, happiness and no abuse. You will be free, to get on with you and child/children's life in peace.Good luck
My girlfriends mother wants the pill?
my girlfriends mother wants her to go on birth control even tho we're both virgins. we both are against this i just want some opinions on if you think this is right that she is making he go on it? i think its BS that she is making her do something that she is against just cause she has trust issues idk what do you think
Im 14 can the doctor legally tell my parents im not a virgin [TEN POINTS!!!]?
your getting caught! you better fess up right NOW