When was a time you told the truth but nobody believed you?
When the lab assistant caught me of using mobile in lab and the HOD told me to let my dad call her to talk about me ,my Department HOD told my dad that i showed her attitude but i did'nt do it because she seemed too strict that my pleadings with her was never gonna help and she got irritated because i said ok as polite as i can and walked out, additionally she also said that i have done this attitude thing before to 2 or 3 of my staffs which in this case i never interacted with my staffs because they were all the same doing politics in the department and so i always had myself off before them . My dad believed her because guru don't lie and yelled at me like anything refusing to accept what actually happened and i got into depression and all the chaos started on.I still have no idea why that lady framed me into something like this.I understood one thing,Judging must be done in the right way even if you are at higher position you can't just blabber something to fill in the convo and create chaos in other's life.
Why nobody believe me when I'm telling the truth?
I told my mom something serious, when I was a child, like 8 or 9 years old, my cousin spend a time at home, she was like 19 years old. One day, she wanted to play a game with me, I asked her what should I do, she explain me that she will do anything I said, well, I thought it was a stupid game, them she asked me if she might took off her cloths. I was shocked, and she started to take off her cloths, them she laid me on her. I was terrified, because I didn't knew what was going on, remember I was a child, Now I feel awkward when talking with girls and I feel uncomfortable when I have some intimacy with a girl. I'm not gay, just I feel that way. I'd been frustrated many times, because I'd like to have a girlfriend, and women think I don't like them because I feel a little bit uncomfortable in sex relationship with a woman.
Please explain to me why nobody will believe the truth?
because they have taken over every major goverment party in the world hostage and they are unable to go against the wishes of the killer scarecrows we're fucked.. get your blunt objects ready people.
In my dreams, nobody ever believes me?
I've had weird dreams through all my life, but the ones that stay the most fresh are the ones when no one sees me or believe me. I have a few examples. 1. In one of my dreams, I could fly and I was telling and showing people I could do so, but they always said I was lying, even though evidence was there, in front of their eyes. 2. I had a dream where I knew someone was a murderer, but no one, not even my family believed me when I told them. They kept believing the murderer's lies and they died after, as he shot them before my eyes. The worst part was not even that, but it kept rewinding before the event and I always desperately tried to find a way to avoid it, but in the end, it was always the same. I felt useless. 3. In many dreams I keep being abandoned, and it's mostly as a child (not always). While in real life, I would feel panic and intense fear, in my dreams I'm able to cope with it and resolve problems by myself. 4. In some dreams, when nobody believed in me anymore, I would still save their lives, but get no recognition at all. I was always the misunderstood hero, somehow. For personal details, I suffered bullying in my childhood and even though my family was there for me, it was like they weren't. They all had too much problems to worry about that, and I would never dare telling them the truth, being ashamed. I don't know, but perhaps it has to do with it?
Why does no one like to hear the truth?
I would say not EVERYONE just most. For most, the truth is frightening, makes them have to look at themselves. Takes a powerfully strong and secure person to hear the truth about themselves. That is why few people go to get therapeutic help. That is why a lot therapist don't say anything. They are hoping the person will speak their truth. Start speaking the truth and people squirm and get uncomfortable right away. They will swear up and down and on a stack of bibles they want the truth about yourself or themselves. The minute they get uncomfortable here come the downvotes!!!Humankind has not evolved enough to hear what is going on as it is.Usually very smart high IQ people notoriously tell the truth without reservation. I suggest if you want to fit in, you'll develop a strong filter to what you say unless it will hurt you or another. Sometimes I have to tell the truth without reservation. The rest of the time I filter myself. I don't commiserate with misery. Women and men want everyone to be just like them especially when they are miserable. I don't do that. I used to but not anymore. The only time I may do that is at work. I know if the boss says something I have to really be extremely careful.People don't like the truth because it makes them feel fear, insecurity, immaturity, insensitively and less than. People especially have a hard time with others that have good fortune. Their first thought is where is mine??? Not that is great for you!
How do I get over the fact that nobody wants me?
Feeling alone. Invisible. Insignificant. Non Existent. Annoying. Worthless.That's how I'm feeling too. It's tough when one is feeling depressed and lonely... and you have rare moments you attempt to break out, reach out to people... and for whatever reason it goes wrong. And you're left feeling like there's something seriously wrong with you,Inherently wrong/negative/useless/worthless. (That isn't related to depression).And that feeling,that nobody wants you that negative afterthought, is depression.When we're depressed every failure hits us harder. The depressed outlook takes an otherwise neutral (or slightly negative but completely forgettable or manageable) experience and turns it in to every justifiable reason there's something freakishly wrong with you. An attempt by the mind to validate how low you truly feel about yourself. We feel like shit, feel we're hopeless, unlikable and worthless, so our depressed minds seek to validate this any chance it gets.Depression is one big lie of how we see ourselves. However (at least in my experience) it feels like the ultimate truth. That my depression allows me to see my 'true self' like never before. The harsh reality of who I am... and just how bad and worthless I am. That prior to depression my self-image was just an illusion, a mistake that I allowed myself to indulge in.But,that's my depressed state of mind talking. Depression is like taking a painting of a city with a watery reflection at the bottom. then cropping out the city leaving only the watery, muddled and unclear reflection. The depression is the real illusion... the real lie... it only focuses on the negatives and exaggerates them. So to counteract this and restore balance, I recite a mental checklist to enhance self-awareness that "it's my depression, not me".So my checklist usually consists ofI'm depressed so I'm paying more attention to every fault, flaw, and mistake I make when in reality people either don't notice or don't care.people have their own issues, problems and pain. their reactions to me may have nothing to do with me.the depressed outlook is probably blowing my negative experience out of proportion.my mind is trying to validate how negative I feel about myself.I'm depressed but needing company. so I'm seeking increased connection, importance and acceptance. which other people will not share, understand or be able to fulfil.Hopefully you can create a similar list to restore the balance for yourself.
Nobody wants to have sex with me, I must be so ugly?
you sound young so i will give you some advice that should work well in high school. I don't condone wanting to sleep with girls just to sleep with them. you need to be willing to have a relationship with them and take it to the levels that flow naturally. live by these rules and it will make you happier through your high school career. 1. the prettiest girls are always the loneliest. the pretty girls always are objectified by there male counterparts. women do not like to be looked at as pieces of meat and the prettiest girls get the brunt of the looks. what girls like is to be treated like an equal and they don't want you to want them for their bodies, they want you to like their personality. 2. girls like to talk so let them. ask girls questions, anything really works but don't make it sexual in nature. every time you see her greet her by her first name and ask her how she is. women love to talk and love it when a guy listens. you can make it farther with a girl in 1hr by talking with her then months of flowers. 3. wear collared shirts to school every day, not tee shirts. don't ask just do it, it's confusing. 4. be confident, even if you get shot down you will recover. take you time the girls will come.