I envy people who work hard. Why i am not able to?
I am male aged 44+ from India.I have been undergoing treatment for depression and schizophrenia for past 23 years.Now almost cured with maintenance dosage. I am not at all hard working right from beginning. I envy people who work hard. Every one say I am lazy. Why I am not able to work hard? Will I be able to cultivate the habit of hard work at this age? How to achieve that?
How would you handle your child if she is not able to cope up with school work?
Sit down and talk with her. Find out what exactly she is having trouble with. Have her do her homework with you so you can help and answer all her questions. Have a parent teacher conference with her teacher and find out what the both of you can do together to help her do better. If none of these cheap methods work, pay for a professional after school tutoring program like Sylvan. Your child needs outreach help and as a parent, you have to do every thing in your power to help her.
Will I be able to handle college?
I am so very worried about college on a bunch of levels and need help. First thing is friends, im worried about the whole starting over which i havent done since i was 5, how are people going to react to me especially me having a facial condition.Besides that I am so nervous about the work load, i am so tired from my homework now from essays to dbqs and everyone says college is so much harder!Lastly my mother doesnt think i can get into a good college and im afraid of the same thing, i hate when people tell me to go to community college..are these acceptable? Student ranking is 130 out of 375 GPA is like 3.something Ive taken these classes 9th grade Spanish 2 English Pre-ap history Chorus Physics Algebra Graphic art and design 1 Gym/Health 10th grade Bio Graphic Arts 2 Gym/Health Spanish 3 Chorus Pre-AP english Pre-AP history Geometry Ive never gotten below a 73 Now im taking. AP English Chem Algebra 2 Genocide/ Ceramics Hon. History Chorus Psychology
How do I effectively handle work pressure and not get stressed out?
I have some frank opinion wrt the subject question.Even i too had taken too much onto my head wrt my work and got stressed out.After going past through all those indifferent experience,i am the king now to handle the work without feeling any pressure.First of all , being positive and confident in work wont stress you out. When we take upon or deal with our works or tasks, we should think like we are doing right by backing our true selves to the core. For this, u need to prepare very good and be proactive as ever you have been. In case if it goes wrond, also dont panic. Sometimes we are always not right.In work place, be bold and always provide a clear view of what you think and what you feel whether its right or wrong. Projecting these views is also important. That will make u feel light weight inside you. At the end of the day, you make sure you do what you felt provided it is well within the ethics of your organisation.Sometimes taking a leave or rest for a day will help you a lot.Majorly, to relieve stress, please have a sound sleep . This may not be possible each and every day. Some times ur body needs badly.There are so many things we can do like yoga, playing tennis etc. which will help you a lot. Innumerous ways are there to negate all the work stresses.MAINLY, WE NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT THERE IS NO WORK PRESSURE TERM AT ALL WHICH I FEEL.IT IS THE PRESSURE WHICH WE CREATE DUE TO IN CORRECT HANDLING OF WORK. EXTERNAL PRESSURE WILL ALWAYS BE THERE AT WORK WHICH WE CANT AVOID. HOWEVER, WE CAN CONVERT IT TO MINIMUM OR TO ENJOYABLE PRESSURE.MY ONLY ADVICE BASED ON MY OWN EXPERIENCE IS - BE POSITIVE- BE HUMBLE (while we do wrong, in front of new learnings), BE AGGRESSIVE (in taking any decision provided you are right technically), BE SENSITIVE ( in taking logical or tight calls) , DONT BE TOO SLOW IN TAKING DECISIONS, BE CONFIDENT ( while u come up against odds and when target to be achieved is not in ur side, but also if u need it badly), TRY TO CREATE PERFECTION wherever required and EVEN TRY TO CLOSE THINGS OFF EVEN WITH SLIGHT IMPERFECTION to close the tasks off.