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Not sure what to do with my mom anymore....?

This is quite a rant. Think its time you moved further away to eliminate the problem with your mother. Living somewhat close to her allows her easy access to you and she is having a problem allowing you to be an adult..../

Am I innocent anymore I'm not sure?

Hi I'm a teenager and I've been playing around with my BF and we've been toucking & stuff. I've been trying to not go ALL the way with him (cause my family is religious) but it's really hard to resist honestly. The other night though we were undressed down there and he was rubbing himself on me and inserted "it" for like 5 seconds. I pulled my hips back cause it shocked me and "it" came out. Am I a virgin anymore? Also do you think I should go all the way since I went this far? Kinda like "no turning back"? thank u...

Not sure what to do anymore? So, I'm depressed, and have been for over 2 years now. I've tried many different antidepressants, nothing's?

worked. I'm just completely unsure what to do anymore.
(I've attached a screen shot of a word document explaining my situation since this is too long to fit in this box)

I'm not sure what to major in anymore! How do I choose?

Most people make that decision during their Freshman year of college.I entered college thinking I would major in Physics.By the start of sophomore year I was majoring in Aeronautical and Astronautical Engineering.One does Not have sufficient exposure to the breadth of majors and careers while in high school.  All you can determine is:In general I would like to do X and maybe Y and a little bit of Z.So, make certain that the college you attend has a good reputation in X, Y, and Z.I was Lucky that I was at MIT which is superior in both Physics and Aero-Astro Engineering.   Therefore, the only thing to make certain is that the college you attend should have Engineering as one of the majors.If it has Engineering, then it will have Everything......{Even at MIT, I could have majored in journalism or political science which were my fall back areas.....}But what great journalism school also has Engineering?

I’m not sure anymore. What should I do with my relationship?

“Having no reason to stay is a good reason to leave”

Im not sure i want to go to college anymore?

I'm getting depressed about going to college, i cant focus, some of the stuff i'm being taught i don't find interest in when once i did, my grades aren't as good as they used to be and i lack the effort to go anymore, but even though im still going i dont retain much that is taught. i come home, and do whatever i want instead of study or review. i dont know what i want to do. i know that if i don't go I'll have a crappy future, but if i keep going i fear that failing grades lay ahead. im on my 4th semester Getting and A.A.S in Network and System Administration. i just don't have anymore will to go. but my grandparents have helped me out financially until i find a job or graduate and i dont want to let them down. im scared and depressed.

some suggestions on what i should do?

Not sure what to do, girlfriend not happy anymore.?

Alright everyone, I need some help here because I'm not sure what to do. Me and my girlfriend have been dating about 2 months now. We both get along really well, when we do have arguments they don't last long and we get things worked out pretty quickly. Just last night though a problem came up and I'm not sure what to do. My gf told me that she hasn't been as happy lately. She said when she sees me now, she's not as happy or excited as she used to be. I talked to her about it and asked her what it is, and she said she doesn't know why she feels this way. Then she told me she wants to work this out and figure out what the problem is, and I do too. I want to be with her and get this fixed, but since I don't know what it is and she doesn't know its kind of hard to know what to do really. She told me she would rather stay with me and not be as happy rather than breakup and be without me, so I know shes not cheating on me, she's not the type of girl that would do that. But, if she's not as happy with me anymore, its not fair to her if I stay with her and she's not very happy with it. So, can someone help me here? I don't know what to do, I really want to be with her and work things out and she does too, but I really don't know what the problem is or how to fix it? We text for several hours each day and I usually call her every night or every other night. She did bring this up last night when I didn't call her, so I'm not sure if that might have something to do with it? Thanks for the help!

I’m not sure if I want friends anymore. They make me sad and lonely most of the time. Should I look for new ones?

The term “Friends” and “friendship” has always puzzled me.Our friend circle is a reflection of ourselves only. It's a saying that we are average of five closest people in our life.Instead of trying to fit in, you'll feel more comfortable/ satisfied with people who are more like us. Who share our basic values.And I feel friendship is not like a digital signal comprising of just two values i.e. 0 and 1 . Or u can say extremes.. You can have friendships of varying degrees. Some can be close.. some v close n others just to tag along.Friendship can't be equated to loneliness. Loneliness is completely different arena, and you need to work on your self for eliminating it. You should not need a friend to fill a void. You should be complete in yourself.Friends are there to make us grow, help in bad times, be there when you need them, and think of your well being ,at least.Friendship like any other relationship is two sided. Both parties should put effort. If your efforts are not being reciprocated or your boundaries are not being respected, you have wrongly identified those people as your friends.And yes, this world is constantly in momentum…people change with time.. so why deny yourself the opportunity to meet with New people!!!

I feel like I don't know what's real anymore?

You're describing depersonalization and derealization, usually brought about by high anxiety. Depersonalization is a symptom of anxiety disorders, migraine, epilepsy, ocd, caffeine, alcohol, stress and anxiety.

Depersonalization feels like you've changed and the world has become vague, dreamlike, less real and/or lacking in significance. It is a disturbing sensation since it feels like you're living in a "dream." You may also experience a divorced feeling from your own body sensations, feelings, emotions and behaviors - like they don't belong to you, or are unreal or hazy. It affects short term memory too, you may find it hard to remember anything you saw or experienced while in "third person."

Chronic depersonalization is a dissociative disorder known as depersonalization disorder. It can come about usually as a reaction to severe trauma, developmental trauma, or prolonged stress/anxiety.

Depersonalization refers to unreality in the sense of self, while derealization refers to unreality in your surroundings (like with the jacket in your lap). Derealization can also feel like the environment is lacking in spontaneity, emotional coloring and depth, there is a feeling of detachment, sensory fog, pane of glass or veil, like you're watching life on a tv screen, or like life is a movie or tv show. It too is a dissociative symptom.

Depersonalization and derealization run together. It can also be caused by Lyme disease, Alzheimer's, multiple sclerosis (MS) or any other neurological disease affecting the brain.

Depersonalization episodes usually resolve on their own. If symptoms last longer than 6 months it may become depersonalization disorder.

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