Nothing excites/interests me at all anymore?
hi i'm 22 i would just like to know how to get that feeling back. when i look around nothing sparks my interest i see other people loving cars/games/exercise and such but to me its all pointless. any advice? i been drinking/smoking weed at night so i don't feel so crappy
Nothing interests me anymore?
Everything I used be obessed with or at least like doesn't even make me smile or have a good time anymore. For a while now the only thing I love is being in a dark room by myself and being in my own dream world. I barely eat food anymore...I only eat it when my mum is begining to get worried. Also, I recently started to hate talking or coming close to humans even my parents sometimes. I become anxious and distressed when someone comes near me or even dares to hug me...I even loath going outside especially places where there is crowds. My heart most of the time hurts so painfully, more then one occation I couldn't breath properly. Sadly my problems does not stop there....I keep having constantly sucidal thoughts...its getting worse everyday. I cannot go to my docter because my family's 'perfect' image would crack and i'l get even more hush, verbal abuse from my brothers and if I'm lucky no physical abuse from my sister. That is nothing compared to my father's lecture though...my anxiousness doubles...Yes I'm scared of him. So what do I do & what do I have? If it helps I'm 15...yh it sucks being born. -thanks xx
Nothing Matters To Me Anymore?
Not wanting to die is half the battle. The other half will be to find a way out of the depression itself. You said people simply don't like you...but that's not a reason. Is it personality? Looks? Is it that they just don't share your interests or never took the time to get to know you? Look, I know what it's like not to have friends and to feel disliked, or like I don't fit in anywhere. But there's so many people out there. Maybe it's time to get out of the house and try looking for them and they'll be receptive to you of you let them in your life as well. You said you have family who you don't want to hurt, right? It sounds like you really care for them and they obviously care for you a ton. Start from there. Make them your focus point and motivation. Make them what brightens your day and makes you enjoy yourself again. Eat with them, laugh with them, spend quality time, go out. Become good friends with your family so you can feel loved and fulfilled. It really does help. I know its hard. To get up in the morning feeling dread and nothingness. That's why personal goals help. Things to look forward to that will make you feel good about yourself. Start small and work your way to bigger and bigger plans. Also, remember there's God listening. The Bible says he's the "Hearer of prayer". Pretend you're talking to the person you most trust and just pour out your thoughts and worries and everything on him. He won't misjudge you because he already knows how you feel. He just wants you to show him that you trust him with your life. If you do that, he'll help you with the rest. Lay all your weight on him and trust me on this. If it wasn't for all the days and nights I confided in him, for developing a relationship, I might've been dead by now.
Nothing seems to interest me anymore.. What do I do?
I'm an 18 year old guy, senior in high school, very well-liked. I was voted Best personality, most likely to make you smile, most dramatic, most likely to be on a reality show, and most talkative. I'm funny, outgoing, smart, and I have great friends. My girlfriend and I broke up a little less than a month ago, and yeah I'll admit I was depressed for a couple of weeks. I am now over her. Before her, I played video games and sports and stuff for entertainment. When her and I started talking, I quit the games. They just didn't seem that fun to me anymore. So her and I went on and dated for a while before ending it. I had great times with her really. But she just couldn't deal with a boyfriend. Sucks, but like I said I'm over it now. Now, I try to go back to the games and it's boring. I try to become more involved in school, it's boring. I try to work more, it's boring. I'm starting baseball, it's boring. I talk to my friends and hang out a ton now, it's never really all that fun though. Played minecraft, now it's boring. Played Call of duty and got cap level, now it's boring. Working out more, it became boring. I've started singing some, and that's kind of entertaining. But nothing truly sparks my interest anymore. Nothing ever seems appealing. It's like I ALWAYS have something better I could be doing, but there's absolutely nothing better. Everything is just mediocre now. What I think might be the problem is that I had an amazing time with my ex, and now that we're broken up nothing is up to par with the time I had with her. Could that be what's causing it? Or.. Something else that I may not be seeing or realizing? Anyone please help.. Life is just getting completely boring and I have absolutely no clue how to fix it. Also: No idea where to categorize this.
Why does nothing seem interesting to me anymore?
sounds like depression to me. see a doctor soon, you are young and it sounds like your in a rut. i hope you find something in life to pick you back up. dont get lost in yourself. Good Luck!!!
Nothing interests me anymore. I don't want to do anything with my life. I'm only 18. Why is this happening?
Nothing’s wrong with you, really, everyone goes through existential crises, some more than others.You’re a young adult, getting ready to graduate from high school, and soon you will be on your own. This is when you have to decide what you want to do with your life from here, and that’s a huge decision.At that point, many young people are still trying to figure that out, and that’s fine, it’s not too late. But, you don’t want to wallow in a spiral of self-alienation, nothing good comes from that.I know you’re thinking that when you die, that’s it, that’s the end. You’re scared of the unknown, and that’s okay, most people are. No one knows what happens after we die, we can guess, but that’s all we can do.So, you ask yourself; what’s the point of life? That’s entirely up to you. You have this one chance to experience the miracle of life, and you should take full advantage of that. Don’t let all the negative thoughts consume you.You find your purpose, a passion worth pursuing, and stick with it. Don’t let life bring you down.Don’t give up, and good luck.
Why is it that nothing interests me?
Because doing interesting things involves effort.Something definitely interests you - for example, getting an answer to this question of yours. But, given complete lack of details in it, it seems that you want it to be magically answered without putting any effort in even asking it properly.So that may be the reason - you tried pursuing your interests without spending effort on them, and nothing came out of it. So you are disappointed.
Nothing excites/interests me anymore. Why is that?
It’s not your fault, relax.There are two situations in our society right now that are causing this:They taught us that we need to have an interest, that we need to be passionate about something, that we need to be “normal”.All this is wrong, all these are morals rules, not human rules.Don’t feel bad if you don’t care about anything, there is nothing bad with that, in fact, that mind state is special because that means that you need almost nothing; with interest comes needs. Enjoy this phase of your life, just go out to the park and do nothing, watch the people, feed the ducks, give some help to a homeless. Easy, easy, easy.2. We were taught by others that if you easily get excited about something you are an easy person a dumb one.That’s why when we see something funny we barely laugh when we see something amazing, we just say that was good instead of clapping our hands.Grab a flower and appreciate it closely and let yourself get amazed, grab a pen and appreciate it closely, think in who invented it, google it, use it, touch it, feel it, smell it, and say thank you to the genius, get amazed, get really amazed for any simple thing and you will learn to get excited for life, for everything.This life made us get rid of this skill, the skill of being expressive even with ourselves.Stop caring about what others would say and cry with the movie, yell watching sports, and say I love you to your relatives.Get that beautiful skill back, I know you can, you know you can.Big hug my friend.
Nothing seems important to me anymore. I have lost interest in everything. How can I get over this feeling?
Maybe you simply need a new direction with your life.Try something new.