Do you think you will die happy?
Happily i think only if i live in sorrow to die happy. Having met my function with all the rise given within and having served my purpose without a doubt that i had carried a lit torch were it passed that i extended every opportunity that didnt knock on my door to someone else. That I truly heard every persons voice what they really are saying when they speak, that i helped to curb the laughter self love and forgiveness of failure to let the self heal what it couldnt see to help prosper the feeling to every soul avail and that in this future we can forget our past one day will not be measured in hours one year not lived one month that was yours that i gave all if myself to freely and willingly lost myself in sight of or finding another person and that everyone hand that reached i grasped as i hardly would let go that every storm were fierce that i saw a dawn and that this universe and all her secrets and all the passing unphased morph into my happiest thoughts be the ones you gave to me and happiest moments be the count you keep and happily i die for ive been a fool for less. Worth dying for my life a cheap chemical gas cloud in a weak unrealistic low tolerance happiness be if just mine tho suffering to realize its not death that wherein life ends, life that wasnt realized is a death. "Death death the sweet magnum opus of life a song within a song unsung. Life is a reason to feel so that the universe can comunicate with you and i hope you feel it and what is transpired here on this earth be so powerful as to a tiny human so frail and weak can be the link that carries in the entire universe, hinge on some hoop i never made it, but that you may, be the reward of life a timely cautious death.. Do you think I will die happy? As i am more concerned with your take on it, especially since ive never made sense even when i change of a dollar to cents i no scents. Ban the things you dont understand to make them stronger to stand again for your defeat had squander this day you saved with time you made it assuredly will not come. Once they line up its once. Accept me world for who you are, not what I am. If dying happy is a goal then kill me as blissful today only see bliss for tomorrow. But im an alcoholic. i find the more i poop the happier i am so i will most likely die happy
What is one thing that is necessary to be happy?
A young carpenter who had been looking for work met a kind old man who needed some work to be done on his old fence around his large property.The young man had less than a productive first day. His old truck broke down two miles from the man’s house, so he walked in 45 minutes late.His hammer broke during the day. And to make his troubles worse. he severely twisted his ankle towards mid-day and could barely walk.The kind old man offered him a ride home. When they reached the house, the young father invited him in to meet his family.As the older man approached the rickety door of the humble home, he saw the father pause at the entrance and touch a large coat hook with both hands before opening the door. The young father completely changed.After having been beaten down all day with problems, a big broad smile came across his face as he hugged his three small children and kissed his wife.As they were walking out the door they passed the large coat hook and the old man asked him about what he had seen him do earlier.The young man replied, “That’s my problem hook.I know I am going to have problems, but one thing I never want to do is bring them home to my wife and children. I simply hang my problems on the hook before I enter my house. When I leave in the morning I pick them up again.”The young father continued, “The odd thing about it is when I pick them up in the morning, they seem to be lighter.”Read this story a few days ago and it hit me that happiness is a state of mind, you need the right state of mind to be and stay happy irregardless of what you’re going through. Knowledge of this will remind you not take your unhappiness out on others especially loved ones because once those moments of hardship that are making you unhappy pass, they’re the ones who would’ve been there for you through it all.Keep the right mindset and trust me, you’ll never be unhappy.
I have everything I thought I wanted, and I'm still not happy. Why?
When I was 13, I thought that participating in an International Science Olympiad would bring me peace and happiness.So I worked, and sweated until I managed to get a chance to participate in the International Astronomy Olympiad 2013.But I, somehow, wasn’t happy. So I figured that participation was not enough; I also had to win a medal. ONLY THEN I WOULD BE HAPPY!So I worked much harder this time and managed to win my first medal.I wasn’t happy.I came back from the Olympiad, had my few days of self-satisfaction and figured that happiness is not cheap; I needed to win more medals to be happy.Two years past, I have 6 International Science Olympiad medals; the president gave me an iPad; I appeared in numerous TV shows.Still, with all the fame and recognition, I did not find happiness.When I averaged around 10 points per game in National Basketball Tournaments, I didn’t like my performance.So, I started working harder, with much more drive and intensity. I practiced shooting drills almost everyday and improved my three-point and free-throw shooting significantly.In the next tournament, I averaged more points and performed notably better.I was self-satisfied with myself for a moment. Self-satisfied.Not happy.The final blow came in the January, the day I learned I got admitted to the University of Cambridge.I remember telling my then-girlfriend that “after all of these things, I still don’t feel fulfillment.”It did not take me much time, after that, to realize that material success can never be enough: You want something, you get it. Then you want more and you get it too. Then you want more. More. More and More.It’s never enough. You always want more...This morning, I was giving a live concert in the bathroom. I rapped Eminem and danced some disco songs. Looking at the mirror, I saw myself smiling and… happy.This morning, and the past January I am practically the same guy from the outside. No new material success to make me happy.But much changed from the inside. I embraced myself! I became content with myself and finally gained self-acceptance. Only then, I was happy.Happiness can never be obtained from the outside.Happiness is gained by embracing the person you are.It’s never too late or too early to be happy.Happiness is not “reached.”Happiness is a choice.Help me follow my journey at Cambridge by donating and sharing my crowdfunding campaign.
I can't find a reason to be happy. What should I do?
I know the feeling. And what I’ve come to learn is sentiments and emotions aren’t good in rationale.One of my mottos is “What I know and what I feel are completely different”.So I would say that first and foremost, YOU SHOULDN’T HAVE TO LOOK FOR REASONS TO BE HAPPY.Then the next step is “so how do I know I’m happy then?”Now you are going to step into the taboo, non-spoken of, world of YOU. People will call it meditation, praying, contemplation or just plain old distracted mind. But the point is the same: get in touch with what you FEEL, not what you THINK you feel. And this is a life long exercise.It’s harder than it sounds. Because happiness is a fleeting state and not the only sentiment you have. You won’t feel happy all the time, in spite of what the (generalized) world says in movies, tv or ads.It’s such a fleeting but awesome state that some people get hooked on whatever will release serotonin and dopamine into their bodies.So people can get hooked on drugs (alcohol, tobacco, cannabis, coke, sugar, caffeine,…..), relationships (the notion that you need the other to fulfill you), ideologies (the belief that what you believe the world is and work like is the only and truthful way to correctitude and happiness), behaviors (overeating, compulsive shopping, shoplifting, radical sports, praying…) and so forth.The stated behaviors up here are examples of what we as a self-aware specie do in order to overcome the struggles and difficulties of everyday life, with more options of life and feelings than the holy grail of “Be Happy”.Happiness cannot be bought, no matter how much shoes or whatever you buy. Not to say that you can’t or shouldn’t indulge in your preferred method of feel-gooding. But that you should not mistake the sentiment for the method.Once you accept that what you feel is not necessarily what you think you feel, you start to learn that it is ALSO okay to be ANGRY, SAD, RESENTFUL, ANNOYED, SURPRISED, DEPRESSED, TIRED, EAGER and any other number of sentimental state without having to have reasons for it. But the AWERENESS of why or what induced those sentiments/feelings is necessary in recognizing your environment and immediate surroundings and encounters.Because thinking is an active and conscious process, but it’s also a very tiny part of what we, as meat-machine bodies, can do. There’s a lot being processed inside your brain that you are simply not aware of.
I have a normal and good life so why am I depressed?
first of all Have faith and hope that things will get better because they will if you believe. If you haven't already talk and tell your family and friends about it for just talking about it and getting it out can help very much. A lot of research and studies have shown that depression is a symptom of something deeper going on in the body, like infections, autoimmune diseases, poor diet or malabsorption of nutrients, and many other things. The gut actually has a lot to do with mental health because many neurotransmitters are made in the gut, so if somebody is not absorbing nutrients correctly or there is something like infection in the way, these neurotransmitters cannot be processed or function correctly. Try looking up people and websites like Dr. Mark Hyman, Dr. Josh Axe, Trudy Scott, green med info, Donna Gates, Dr. Tom O Bryan. They have a lot of good information that may be able to help. Have love and stay positive as well.
What happens if u don't masturbate for a week, days, month's, years? Because I feel destisnized?
Lots of "wrong" answers. I actually stop for several months, and then a couple or more times for successfully cumming to orgasm for numbers of consecutive days. My penis got smaller, until I entertained it back to a healthy interest. Well for like a few days. Mister Happy will regain its original size in time. You will find your libido, it never goes away, really, but if you ignore it, you kind of forget how to masturbate. That is to say, the recall that remembers how to stimulate yourself to orgasm, the precise rhythm and sometimes you're so excited you just blow up in your sleep...(wet dream,) or you'll feel the "potential" and you have to remember how to build. Ejaculating is a whole body sensation, (as you know) and if your whole body isn't working for it, you could just drop a load without the effects of potentiation.
I hate everything..... now what?
I guess this can happen to everyone after breaking up a long term relationship. You said you are not happy to move out, because you think you will feel even more lonely, but you might be wrong about this. “New places, new people, new life”. Who knows, maybe you’ll find the love of your life even next week, or tomorrow. Have you tried to smile to all the people around you lately? I can tell you that they will smile back at you and we all know how much receiving a smile can be important to each of us. About your job, I don’t know if you don’t like it because it’s awful or because of your state of mind, you have to figure this out and see what can be done to solve the situation. After all, a big part of your day you “live” at your job and it is important that you feel good while there. Try to remember what activity you can do that’s fun or even find yourself a new activity for your free time. 2 more things I wanted to tell you: doing sport will lift your moral and praying will help more than everything.
Are you happy with your life?
IMO - I am happy with my life if I look at a 3rd world country that I am lucky enuff to have had no part of, happy with my life if I Iook at homeless shelters, soup kitchens, mental wards, prison, permanent rehab hospitals, etc that I am lucky enuff to have had no part of. happy for the family who loves me, the wonderful man who loves me, the fact that I can breathe, walk, love back, learn from my mistakes.... I am happy with my life if I look at those who only wish they had my sorrow, my pain, etc. because it came with a roof over my head, food, clothes... If one has anything other than what we see in media about the 3rd world countries, the war ravaged areas, the homeless shelters, the domestic violence, abandoned children, unemployment, no education, etc. - how can we complain about any aspect of life? For that reason, I am fine with my life up til now and on a good route going forward. Happy New Years USA, Bless us all. :)
Is it normal for a depressed person to feel happy sometimes?
i have been clinically diagnosed with depression, and i do feel that i am very down and negative a lot of the time, but even when there is nothing wrong, my "level" mood (not happy, not sad) is lower than most other people. and even when i'm in a good mood, there is something missing, i'm not satisfied/completely happy but, when i am completely distracted from my thoughts, like engaged in a conversation with friends, i smile and laugh. this is normal even though i'm depressed, right? my boyfriend and i are going through a rough time, and he doesn't believe that i'm actually depressed, he thinks that i'm not happy because our relationship is so bad right now. my psychiatrist said that depression isn't only being sad, it's just that it doesn't take as much to make you sad and your sadness is more acute than it would be for a person who isn't depressed. am i really depressed? or am i just upset because of my relationship problems?
Why would a person use Yahoo mail over Gmail?
LOL!!!My apologies, but outside of familiarity, or keeping a long-standing address, there is no possible reason I can imagine to choose Yahoo over Gmail. Gmail is totally superior, in every measurable or comparable way.I know several people, clients and friends and relatives, who cannot (or more accurately, will not) learn or adapt to the Gmail paradigm. They adapted to Outlook or some other email client years ago, or they have used AOL or Yahoo for years - and they are simply not willing to change.And to be fair, it's important to realize that Gmail is fundamentally different. The brilliant folks who created it questioned every assumption, tossed out some things "everyone else" was doing, and did them in entirely new and better ways. If you learned the "Outlook way", or similar, Gmail does things that at first seem strange and incomprehensible.Most will deny it if confronted, but people strongly dislike change. In fact, I'm constantly amazed at how incredibly hard people will struggle to avoid change. And in Gmail's case, honestly, that's fine. Really! Gmail is a better way. Incomparably, immeasurably better. But it's not something that will significantly improve your life.It's like choosing to drive a beat up old car, when you could be driving a sexy new Ferrari. There's nothing wrong with driving a beater, especially if you love it. It still runs! You're familiar with it, been driving it forever. It will get you there.