20 years old virgin, never had a girlfriend, never even kissed :(?
I'm a 20 year old male and I am still a virgin, never had a girlfriend. I never kissed or help hands with a girl. I feel like a pathetic loser who wasted his teenage years away. I have social anxiety disorder which makes it difficult for me to make friends and virtually impossible for me to get a girlfriend. I feel like if I don't have one soon I am never going to have one. tried forcing myself to be more social with people especially girls but I never know what to say, and I get so nervous, so I have a hard time keeping their attention. I get so depressed when i'm out in public and I see couples holding hands and kissing especially if they are younger than me. I have very good hygiene and I wear nice clothes, but no girl has ever shown interest in me. Its coming to the point where I am considering a prostitute, I know some people say its wrong to pay for sex but you always pay for it when you take a girl out on dates, or buy her gifts. I want a girlfriend but all the mainstream advice had failed and I don't know what to do anymore. I think if I can't get one soon i'll just commit suicide. And don't tell me that I should just wait, because there is somebody out there for everyone that is a lie. If that were true it would have happened by now. Plus there are other virgins as old 50 who have never done anything with a woman.
Is it creepy for a 40-year-old man to date a 20-year-old that's 5′1″, 95lbs, looks and dresses like she's 14, watches Disney movies still, and is completely financially dependent on him?
Yeah that’s a little creepy but then I have no room to talk because I am 50, dating a 28 year old and had sex yesterday with a 19 year old boy. The 28 yr old is a male as well.I am interested in young women because I want children but these young guys are always hitting on me. It’s not like I’m driving around offering them candy to get in my car. These guys are the aggressors. I was at Arby’s and this 22 yr old Clerk behind the Counter came on to me and we ended up in the Men's room having Oral sex. Some of the guys were chubby so maybe lack of self-esteem, but others were super hot with 6 pack abs and great bodies. One was a College Basketball player that got all worked up in the shower with the other guys and since he didn’t have a Dad around he’d come to me to talk and sex of course.I’ve seen pictures of small girls with small breasts that are of legal age but they dress so they look like little girls to attract older men. to each his own. As long as it’s legal and consensual then it really doesn’t matter.
I need a creative way to ask my date to TWIRP (girls ask the guys). Any ideas? ?
i have turnabout at my school and i think i will ask my boyfriend by sending a different word to each of his classes. on pretty pieces of paper. ex: period 1: will period 2: you period 3: go period 4: to period 5: turnabout period 6: with period 7:me period 8: ?- <3 [my name] At my school we have people that send passes from the office to give to the kids, so every period someone will bring one to him. but i dont know if its the greatest, im new to this.
Things went a bit too far on the second date, should I write him an email?
I am 22, but new to dating. I've only ever been in one relationship that lasted 4 years and its been done for one. I met this guy who I really like and on our second date we went back to his dorm room to watch a movie. During the movie we started kissing, which lead to making out pretty heavily. He started trying to touch me and was rubbing up against me and we were cuddling. I only would stop him if he tried to take my clothes off or touch anywhere. I've only slept with one person to date, and I want to take things slow. He apologized and said he normally doesn't do this sort of thing. I feel like writing him an e-mail explaining that this was out of character for me too and that he's the only person I have seen since my ex. But I don't want to come off as too needy or emotional. He called me when he got home and I hope to hear from him tomorrow. What should I do? I know I made mistake.