Old Personality Went Away.

Sudden personality change with my 2 year old...please help!?

My daughter is 2 years old old and just recently (meaning within the past week) has had a sudden change in personality. She is usually very independent, sweet as can be, and just very complacent with any situation. Now she has completely turned into a little terror. I can't be out of her sight or else she goes ballistic. She started throwing tantrums when she doesn't get her way that can go on and on. She has been very defiant and bossy. What could be going on with her?? i should also mention that last tuesday she was running a fever approx. 101.5-103.0 until wednesday night with no other symptoms and then suddenly it was gone less than 24 hours later. since then she hasn't had a fever nor symptoms of any kind. Can someone help? Should i take her to the doctor?

Killing your personality...?

My old personality.
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I was a outgoing kid till age 8 when my mum gt really sick. It changed me n made me mature in overnight. I satrted thinking too much about everything. I couldnt get along with my friends of my age because I was too "Mature/mentally old" for them. I became lonely and fat. I began loosing friends and grades. I didnt talk to a girl till age 19.
I fell in luv with a girl, I was 195lbs then... and I lost 50lbs in 3months just for her. Only to find out I was a joke for her n her friends and she was really mean. It broke my heart.
Then I found a great friend who was "Cool". With her help I kept re-inventing myself , always comparing myself with her n her "cool friends".
Then in final year I lost my mum, I failed in final year only to find out after 4 months that it was a mistake and I had passed.
Meanwhile I went away from my city to Captal... just to get away from all misery and to reinvent myself again!
I told my best frnd that I luved her and she had a bf, she panicked and we didnt talk afterwards. :(
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Now
I am 22,
I never enjoyed life because I had to take care of mum, & lil sis,
I have long list of allergies
I am far away from city,
no job in hand,
no family to care for,
lost best friends
no real friends,
no gf,
nothing... I think its all because I am shy, introvert, helping , caring person.
These virtues are things of the past. No one is saint today.

I dont thing I will find real love in this material world.
So I wont treat girls as human being but as play things as all the "cool " people do. And all girls like being treated like **** from jerks these days.
Hence I have decided to act totally opposite of my nature. That is I intend to kill my personality.
I will be outgoing, extrovert , mean, wont care about people, do same things they did to me,... just like those "cool " people are.

So what do you think?

Has any parent noticed a personality change for the worse in their baby after sleep training? ie cry it out...

The No Cry Sleep Solution is the bomb. It takes more time and effort than crying it out, but our children are worth it, and you will never have to see tears. There are so many studies coming out on the dangers of Cry it out. These babies are disconnected from reality and a lot of times incapable of a true loving relationship. It makes sense to me, how can a baby learn to trust and love when their basic needs are ignored? Remember, needs just aren't for food or a clean diaper, they are also for mama's companionship and cuddles. This is just as important for your little girl as food. As for Angela D? If I knew who she was, I would seriously report her to CPS. That is one messed up mother. What kind of mother would let their child cry like that from day one. A baby cries because they have a need and to ignore them is neglectful and very abusive. Her baby may have slept better than mine, but my baby knows that mama will always be here for her. After all, of course babies stop crying eventually. When they cry and cry and no one comes, they finally realize that no one cares and they are quiet. Just because they are quiet doesn't mean their needs went away, they just lost hope of having their needs met. Please do not take advice from a monster like Angela. The No Cry Sleep Solution will work for you, and your daughter won't have to go through traumatic experiences that will show up later in life.

Does borderline personality disorder go away in your 30's?

Have you tried seeing a second therapist? I would honestly see a couple different therapists to see if you really have BPD. I had a friend who had BPD and in the nicest way possible of saying this, she was sort of insane. She did all the stuff you did, but she also thought SO badly about herself and she would see things in complete black and white. She would really like you and think you were the coolest person ever and do anything you said, and then after a while she would decide she hated you for almost no reason. She did this to everyone.
She also had very low self-esteem. She basically hated herself and would often say she wanted to die. She would randomly go into depressive moods and not be able to control herself at all and start crying in front of everyone. She was very dramatic whenever she talked because I think she really saw the world in a really dramatic way.
She made the craziest decisions of anyone I've ever met. She was way, way too into drugs and alcohol, had lots of casual, unprotected sex, gave herself lots of really unsafe piercings using a safety pin, and also did really random things like eating food that she found on the sidewalk while we were walking around town, etc.
If you met this girl, you would instantly know that something was wrong with her. I honestly don't mean that in a rude way, because she was a lot of fun to be around and I know she had a lot to struggle with.
Like someone else said, I really don't know if you do have BPD though. I think you might just have depression and possibly anxiety or something. I have depression and anxiety, and I have cut myself and have relationship problems and difficulty trusting people. The anorexia is really a separate issue, although my friend with BPD was anorexic as well.
Anyway! Definitely see another therapist. They often over-diagnose people with BPD.
Good luck! :)

How would you describe your dog's (dogs') personality (s)?

with most people very friendly and loving. at home she is very playful(only with me for some reason) my old dog just passed away so i have started play fighting with her...she likes frisbee....loves walks...can be laid back when i want her to be. very shy to men(she was abused i think a man must have done it)
she is protective of me and is doesn't really like strangers. what is your dog like?

Will neutering my dog change his personality?

First of all it will not change his personality. You may be able to get him to focus more because he isn't always on the hunt for girls and marking territory to discourage other males. The marking will lessen but it may never go away. He is 4 years old now and this is a learned behavior. NO guarantees there. However, I can promise it will eliminate the possibility of testicular cancer, decrease dramatically the possibility of prostate problems, cut his allergies back (not take them away), and if he were to get a tumor then it would be less likely that the testosterone would contribute to it growing quicker.

Neutering for older dogs will leave them feeling a little sore, but they should not be in pain. It is your veterinarian's duty to make sure he stays comfortable during and after the procedure. Typically, your pet will go home with pain medication for several days after the procedure. Most boys after 48 hours act like nothing had ever happened, but it does take up to 2 weeks before testosterone will leave the system.

Good Luck. Keep asking questions.

I have 2 personalities, one i like and the other i dislike and i need help?

I'm the same way, and I don't think it's a matter of necessarily having a mental disorder, just the way humans are (some more than others), just that we are dynamic beings with different sides. It's kind of a survival instinct; being adaptable. It's annoying though, when the wrong side comes out at the wrong time.

I guess I have three.

The first I don't like a lot, but it comes in handy at times when I'm not supposed to be sociable I guess. It's my shy side. I get flustered a lot, and stick my foot in my mouth when I'm in this side, so I tend to not speak. When I do, the wrong words come out. But it's the side that comes out when I WANT to be alone (which is totally fine, we all need alone time) so it works out because I don't want to socialize anyway.

The second is very formal. It's my side around professors and my bosses, and I like it alright, because I'm generally very intelligent and concise with this side. I don't talk too much, just the things I need to say. I'm polite and smile a lot with this side.

The third is the side of me that I love. It only comes out when I'm very, very comfortable with the people I'm with. It's the funny, confident side that says the right things and doesn't care about what others think. She comes out less often, but when she does, I revel in the feeling of confidence for a while.



Being alone for a while can suppress your confident side, and being depressed can do this as well. It's not easy to revive it, and it's impossible unless you are around other people. You might have to force yourself to find a median between your shy side and your confident side and try starting up small conversations with people around you. Smile, and look in their eyes. People find it hard to approach you and talk to you if you don't look confident. Hold your head up. This relies on ancient instinct as well; people who hold their heads down, frown, and don't make eye contact are either dangerous or ill, and not good company to keep in the subconscious, basic human mind.


I hope you find your balance, and I hope you can make some friends. You are an amazing person, and you deserve to have friends and a happy life. :]

If you ever want to talk, my email is CelloIsLove@yahoo.com :D