What don't they tell you about dating an attractive man?
I’ve briefly been with someone who was fairly attractive. A tall stature, lean body, almond eyes and pastel complexion. He also had a professional degree and worked in an MNC. So, this is my take.Just like beautiful girls get hit on frequently, attractive men too get more than their fair share of attention. Compliments, unnecessary favors, more ears to listen to and gestures/ words/ signs showing the opposite person is making a move. The more attractive he looks, the higher the chances are he will have difficulty deciding on an honest person he can date.The good thing about them is, in most of the cases, the better they look the less they care about outer beauty. They actually understand that there is a lot more to a woman than perfect curves and flawless skin. In fact, the thing/ quality that draws them first is mostly smartness, intelligence, humor, tact, humility, confidence. And not the outer beauty.They are just as insecure from the inside as any other less attractive person. This insecurity could be about their background, choice of career or expectation from oneself. Turns out finer skin tone and delicate features don’t come with more courage or sensibility.If anyone thinks that they have an envious dating life and might have had some decent partners in past then you couldn’t be more wrong. Yes, they do have a better chance/ luck with women they are interested into but there comes a stage where respect, mutual understanding and empathy matter more. So many of them are unable to find an understanding partner to be with.One negative point to all the other positive points is some attractive men are so vain, immersed into keeping themselves perfect by standards of beauty that it just feels stupid and pointless being with them. After all we need a working brain fixed inside that handsome face and a good companion beneath that picture-perfect body.Overall, it’s more about how a person is from the inside. So, if you look closely and try honestly, you’ll find that everyone is a different shade of beautiful.
If you currently lived with the 13-year-old version of yourself, what would you argue about the most?
13 year old me: “Hey I just learned about recursion in programming! A function can call itself!”17 year old me: “Well good for you. Now go learn about higher-order functions, partially applied functions, currying, and all those object-oriented concepts.”13 year old me: “Screw off man, I’m still just learning BASIC.”17 year old me: “First off, learn programming, not a language. Second, I have you beaten by about 10 languages.”13 year old me: “Anime?! What are you! How dare you!”17 year old me: “Watch Fate/Zero and you'll change your mind. Join me as a weeaboo!”13 year old me: “…you've gone too deep.”17 year old me: “send halp pls”13 year old me: “I learned how to solve integrals!”17 year old me: “You learned the power rule. Congrats.”13 year old me: “Power rule? What's that?”17 year old me: “Apparently your definition of ‘solving an integral.’”13 year old me: “You've fallen so far from God, what happened? I'll pray for you.”17 year old me: “And it won't do a damn thing.”13 year old me: “I'm finally a black belt in karate!”17 year old me: “And you don't think it's a bit early? You're only 13. You spent four years learning something that won't benefit you in a fight (known from experience) and is basically nothing but bragging rights, and bad ones at that. I've been doing Judo actively for two years, and I'm only a yellow belt rank, but I can beat you up in seconds. Don't act so big and bad.”13 year old me: *cries*17 year old me: “Man up already.”13 year old me: “I hope you're going into college for a space degree.”17 year old me: “You mean Astrophysics? No. Mathematics.”13 year old me: “What good will that do you?”17 year old me: “Paired with a Computer Science degree, it will put money in your future pockets.”13 year old me: *sob sob* “I'm so depressed right now…”17 year old me: “Because someone called you ugly at school? Dude grow some skin already.”13 year old me: “But it was mean…”17 year old me: “And I can be a hell of a lot meaner.”13 year old me: “Star Wars III is the best movie of all time.”17 year old me: “Who even has favorite movies? All about the anime, bro.”13 year old me: “Oh yea, you're a giant weeb now.”17 year old me: “Correct-o!”13 year old me: “I love being a member on Club Penguin. I swear I'll die when they close the servers.”17 year old me: “March 2017 my friend.”13 year old me: “NOOOOOOOOOOOO”