Topless on vacation with sister?
In few weeks,I am going to the Bahamas with my boyfriend and my sister and her husband . She is paying for my boyfriends and my flight. She told me she planned on going topless on the beach. She asked me if I was going to too,so she wasn't the only one. My sister is 22,and a bit of a hippie girl. She has medium boobs,that are still quite perky,and she is very confident because she knows that she is extremely pretty. My boobs are just a bit saggy,but still look pretty good without a bra on.What would you do?
My sister wants to take her boyfriend to the family vacation! help!?
I'm 17. Ok... so, almost every year my family has the tradition of going to Disney World on the Christmas vacation. I'm literally the one who plans these vacations to DIsney. Now my sister, which is 20, has a boyfriend that she really loves and sees a future with him. I really see the Disney vacation as something really special for me but its something i just like to share with my family. Disney its literally the ONLY place in which I'm REALLY happy and stress free, and i can be silly, have fun and be myself. My sister has asked me if she can bring her boyfriend along, i haven't answered her yet and i don't know what to say. Im a really insecure person, with my family i can be myself; silly, funny, little immature, and kinda spoiled, but if he comes i will feel trapped, as if i need to straighten myself up and not be myself, for fear of judgement. I really want to have fun and enjoy those days of happiness with my family, but I'm not sure i can have that with her boyfriend there. We are all even gonna be in the same room and i like my privacy. I don't know what to tell my sister, should i let her boyfriend come along or should i not? Help please!
I am on a vacation in Australia where my dad and sister live. My dad doesn’t want me to be with my sister because we play too much, so what should I do?
So I looked at your profile real quick for perspective. This answer would be different if you are 26. So you are still a kid. You’re at that age where you will be expected to start taking on more responsibilities and growing up, but at the end of the day, you are still a kid. Riding bikes, hanging out with friends, swimming at the pool and in general just trying to have some fun and enjoy life before responsibility.I also take it from the way the opening sentence is written that you are visiting. That you don’t live with your dad and sister. I don’t know if your sister is a full blooded sister, a half-sister, or a step sister with no blood relation. I also don’t know if you dad is concerned about “inappropriate” behavior of a sexual nature, is this sister starting to show signs of affection for you outside of the family bounds, are you starting to show these signs to her in this manner, etc…All things considered equal, I would just explain to your dad that you are only there for a short period of time, your still a kid and you should be playing. I don’t know how old your sister is either, but I have to assume that you guys are probably relatively close in age.What is his exact concern? Are you playing with dolls and he thinks that as a 13 year old boy you shouldn’t be doing that? Are you sitting inside and playing video games and he thinks that you should be outside? We don’t really have a lot of information.Like I said before, you are on vacation. You are a kid. You are there to enjoy yourself. There’s nothing wrong with just having some fun. You are only going to be there for a relatively short period of time. Unless there is something else driving this concern from your dad, you need to explain that to him. Maybe find a balance if he’s wanting you to help with projects or chores where you spend a couple of hours working and helping out around the house/property, then spending time having fun with sis.
How do I talk to my poor sister about a vacation?
I am assuming that by “poor”, you mean economically challenged? ;) If so, then here is how I would handle it and would want to be treated.I am a direct person. If something needs to be addressed, then I will do so in a caring, tactful manner. I hate indecisiveness or talking around an issue. So, if I were in the position of being financially able to finance a vacation for two, I would come right out and invite her to come with me. Such a thing would have to be planned of course and I would make sure that she would have just as much input to the itinerary and activities we would participate in. After many years of estrangement, my sister and I have a reasonably good relationship with great, regular communication. She lives 3,000 miles from me.As a recipient of family invitations in the past, I also have the perspective of how I felt at such an invitation. I knew of an upcoming family gathering that I very much desired to attend (a cousin’s wedding) but had absolutely no ability to attend due to finances. My aunt paid for my flight and I stayed with a couple of family members on different nights. I was very grateful for the opportunity and did not worry about the cost. My own extra expenses, I was frugal with, without deprivation. I let myself enjoy my time with family without worrying about possible obligations because it was understood I could not reciprocate.As long as you and your sister are open and understand each other, communicate clearly and just have fun with one another’s company, there should not be a problem. Do let your sister have some input in planning, if you can’t afford an activity, say so, and look for something else you both would enjoy. Never, ever, ever, toss in her face that you are paying and therefore you get to decide the course. If you even suspect that you may say such a thing to her, then don’t jeopardize your relationship over money. Don’t go on vacation with her. Truly examine your motives for asking her. If they are honestly about wanting her company, then go for it. Have fun.
My parents and sister went on vacation for spring break and left me behind. Is it wrong for me to feel hurt by this?
My parents and older sister decided to go to Florida this week. This week is also my spring break. They decided not to take me as well and I'm really confused why not. I don't want to seem selfish, but I was really hurt by this. When I asked why, they didn't give me an explanation and I was practically ignored. I haven't done anything wrong and my grades are good. I'm not sure if it's because of financial issues, either. Now, I can't leave my house because I can't drive. This is also making me sad because I'm just wasting my spring break when I could be hanging out with friends or something. Anyways, I feel left out and slightly neglected. Everyone I told this to said I was being selfish. Even if I am being selfish, I'm not trying to. The question is...Is it wrong for me to be upset by this?
Do married brothers in India invite their sisters on vacations?
Not anymore in most families.My mom said that earlier girls used to be raised at her maternal grandparents and maternal uncle and aunts family. But now most brothers’ wives won’t even appreciate if sister visit more than once in a year. That’s how culture is changing. Everyone wants privacy and everyone is busy with their own life. Honestly, I am no exception. If I am a married woman, I won’t mind if my in-laws visit us frequently, but if they are trying to create trouble or control my life, I won’t appreciate. On the other hand, there are some women who don’t even like when their in-laws call them once in a while and they take it as interruption in their life. There are all kinds of people in the world.Anyway, in short, the culture of spending whole month as a vacation at brother’s or maternal uncle’s home is declining day by day.
During summer vacation, Sagar read 5 books more than his sister. If they read 13 books together, how many books did Sagar read?
Even simpler answer - No algebra required!5 is the differential, 13 the total.13–5 =8 -> 8 books to be shared between the two.8/2 = 4. Four books each.4 + 5 = 9. The differential plus the ‘shared” amount.
Before my sister went on vacation, she brought over leftover food for us to finish, so they don't go to waste. My wife thinks giving us leftovers for looking after her place is poor etiquette. Is my wife correct?
I don't think she gave you the food for looking after her place in her absent.She simply hates wasting.
Which is correct: "my sister and I" or "me and my sister"?
"I" and "me" are both pronouns that we use to refer to ourselves. Use "I" when it is the subject of the verb, and use "me" when it is the object of the verb or follow a preposition (with me, after us, etc). Remember that "I" is always written as a capital letter according to this site.People most often make mistakes using "I" and "me" when they are talking about more than one person. For example:My husband andI are going on vacation to Hawaii. (correct)My husband and me are going on vacation to Hawaii. (incorrect)Linda, Janet and I are friends. (correct)Linda, Janet and me are friends. (incorrect)You and I are having a dinner tonight. (correct)You and me are having a dinner tonight. (incorrect)My parents took my brother, sister, and me to the zoo every year when we were growing up. (correct)My parents took my brother, sister, and I to the zoo every year when we were growing up. (incorrect)Note that we mention the other person(s) first. In the above sentences we can't say "I and my husband", "I, Linda and Janet", etc.The easiest way to decide whether "I" or "me" is correct is to make the sentence using only "I" and see if it makes sense:I am going on vacation to Hawaii. (correct)Me am going on vacation to Hawaii. (incorrect)
My mom is going on vacation without me?
I know it doesn't seem fair, but you have to look at it this way; Your aunt, your mothers sister, is trying to do something nice for your MOTHER. This trip is for your MOTHER and other grown ups. Your aunt probably wants a family vacation - if your aunt, your mother, your uncle and grandparents are all going it makes sense. (These are your aunts siblings and parents.) your aunt may be rich, but she doesn't owe it to you to bring you and pay for you. Adults need a little get away time too. As for your reasons; 1.) Fair enough, but this vacation isn't for YOU, it is for HER. You will probably go on a vacation with her later on - just not this one. 2.) No she does not need to teach you. You said twice in your post you will be done school during this vacation - that argument in invalid. 3.) What is your point? Just because she's not paying suddenly means you get to go? Her sister has organized a vacation for your mother - it is rather rude for your mother to say, "Oh hey, this is lovely and all, but since your rich, you should pay for my daughter too!" You are being a tad bratty, not meaning to be rude. Many 13 year olds (and many older teenagers.) have never gone on vacation. Many teenagers don't even have a passport/have never been on a plane or even out of their own city. The way I see it, you don't have a right to be mad. Your mothers SISTER is trying to do something nice for HER. So just leave it alone. Your mother isn't bringing YOUR siblings, and with your aunt, uncle, and grandparents going it wouldn't even be a "Just me, mom, and dad" type vacation, seeing as you never said if your dad was going or not.