What does a woman think when a man cries in front of her?
My husband and I met online. The first time we met each other in person, I was still in the mood of casual dating. “Ok, another guy. I don’t really care. Certainly so does he.” When we had to part, I assumed it wouldn’t be a big deal. Of course I would miss him but not too much.That night he went to the rooftop and asked me to stay in the room. I thought it was strange since he hadn’t left me alone any second during the whole trip. I secretly followed him and, you know it, I saw my sweet boy sitting in a corner with tears streaming down his face. He was silently sobbing.CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT? Because even until now I am still stunned. A guy cried because of me? He cried because he couldn’t see me the next day? I hadn’t ever imagined that a person who wasn’t my parents could do that for me.Right at that moment, my heart melt. I knew that it was no longer casual dating. I had a long history of underestimating myself and thinking that I didn’t deserve to be loved as much as I wanted. He was the first and until now has been the only one to show me I deserve.And that was also the moment I swore to myself that I wouldnt let anything or anyone to hurt this guy. I wouldn’t do anything to make him cry again. I would protect him with everything I had. He is a strong guy so he doesn’t need much of my protection. But if I had to walk through hell for him, I literally would.Disclaimer: I’m aware that’s just what I feel for now (we’ve been in a relationship for 4 years) and things change. But I’m grateful that I can at least feel it once in my lifetime. I used to think there was no chance for me to have such a precious feeling, which would be very sad.