Do most men prefer curvy women or skinny women?
Well, first allow me to separate the classes here because there can be a huge debate on what counts as a curvy woman these days, the definition of that has become so convoluted that people are often hesitate to comment without proper definition.So there is skinny women who, in my opinion are too skinny to be attractive in my mind. I am not even talking super model skinny as fabled as those are and even looking to some known celebrities.This is too skinny:Now I know what some people are going to say, but she is not grossly skinny, she is fit. Look at her stomach, her leg muscles, etc. I am not disputing her fitness level but how proportionate her body is and this is again by my definitions. Great fitness but lacks any sense of real curves and could easily pass off as a boy with the right make-up and clothing. That is too skinny for my tastes to me.Curvy,My definition of curvy is that a woman has all the curves of a woman, ideally around the hips, bust, area and yet is still healthy and in prime physical allure. This is my preferred body type.They have all the curves that accent the fact that they are a woman and it worn in all the right places, yes she has a little extra on top of that, but it is alright when it worn where a woman would normally wear it. That is curvy to me.What isn’t curvy to me is what was formerly called obese but now turned into curvy to not hurt or fat shame woman of scale-breaking weight. I get told by a female she is curvy and seeing that the only curve she has is one round curve? That is beach ball…not curvy.That above is not curvy…that is just fat and proud of it.Now, do not get me confused, if a female is fat and owns it…more power to her, go do you, however, do not kick up a fuss when many men don’t want you due to how fat you are and push your expectations of acceptance on us when women themselves have their own list of expectations of men.I, like many men, love curvy women when it is curvy and not just an adopted phrase from an obese woman.
Songs about being perfect, pretty, skinny ?
i am currently doing a solo in dance about the effect of magazines/media on teenagers. i am mixing my music and have a song for every part apart from when i will have just read a magazine, & i want to give the feel that the people in the magazine are talking to me saying how pretty, skinny, perfect or popular they are, any ideas :)
Chubby wives vs. skinny wives?
Let's be honest here... For the women that answered maybe you shouldn't talk until you get a bigger wang chung and lots of money....eat a fat one!! Pun intended! Can you control weight more than wanger size and money??????? I think so! If you think curves and some extra FUPA is hot, good for you. You are in the minority. I like skinny girls myself. No need to see the last 2 false ribs, but skinny is nice. Apparently most men also feel this way when you look at a nudey magazine. Which sells more do you think...Playboy or Playfatchicks you can't fit your arms around? Now if you hit 60 and you start to put on a couple and I mean couple of pounds that's fine, but saying child bearing and work stress are your reasons for packing on 20 pounds is bogus!!!! On the contrary, I will say that if a dude is bagging on his wife while drinking a beer and he can't see his own dingaling, then he should shut his mouth because he has no room to talk.
What do guys have against "fat" (overweight) women?
My sister said the same thing until she developed diabetes type II at age 20. Woohoo. What induced that? Well, two doctors said weight gain but they have to be wrong!! Don't they!? She still denies it. She is trying to stay healthy without necessarily changing her diet or actually doing some physical work. If she achieves anything that makes her healthier I will write a book titled "How to change while not changing". When I was skinny I had to work my *** off to get dates. That being said I was extremely athletic. After the age of 15, I have had to work to put food in my plate and my family's. Now I have a patent, doing a masters at an Ivy League School and have a killer body... how? Work. Day in, day out. Discipline. Day in, day out. Bill Gates said that before you earned something you had to earn it and earn it again and again until you had the results that you wanted. If you cared about your friend you wouldn't take her side on this. So I am going to put it clear: 1) Do I want a relationship with someone who is more likely to die than me? No. 2) Do I want to be with someone who can smother me while on top? No. 3) Do I want to be with someone who is difficult to have sex with because you need to get through the fat first? No. 4) Do I want to be with someone that is more likely to give her children medical problems? No I could go on but I hope that cuts it for you. The problem with fat girls is that they can't admit they have a problem. And while is true that women would date fat guys easier than the other way around, they wouldn't date skinny guys easier than the other way around. Even if it makes more sense. Why? They look more masculine, bigger, blah blah blah. You can like whatever you like... but don't come into my space and tell me what I can or can't like.
Why do anorexic girls think guys like skinny?
I don't think it's what guys think, it's what magazines are displaying as desirable, because the fashion world is dictated by homosexual men who want their models to resemble fragile young boys because they can't help but project their desires onto the models, so the aesthetic that these girls who read such magazines are aiming for is that of an under-fed rent boy. It should be said that the glamour model figure in men's magazines is almost as unattainable. few girls are lucky enough to have a thin waist, narrow hips AND a huge cup size, so that they look top-heavy.
Im too skinny and ugly?
love yourself! own it! i am on the chubbier side and at times i feel exactly the same way. i just tell myself there is someone special out there for everyone! another thing that helps is getting out there and helping people...whether it be your family, friends or even people you don't know who are in need. it gets you out of your own head for a while and gets you thinking about something/someone else. you end up feeling a lot better about yourself afterwards too! :)