What do do if parents mad i got two B's?
Chances are, at least in my case, they just want to give you the absolute best shot at life. My dad didn't have a great start at life, his father divorced his mother, (Which, was almost unheard of in those days) and his mother did her best. Now that I have convinced my parents that I am trying my hardest, they don't freak out if I get a B. They know that I am striving for the best. *If* you feel that you have been doing your best, then try and talk (Not yell) to your mom or dad, and explain that to them. Best of luck. I wish I could offer more advice. :s
Should my parents be mad that i had sex?
Obviously, you come from a very "protective" family. You are 19, and a legal adult, but breaking those apron strings can be very difficult. You somehow have to find a way to feel like an adult and get them to understand that you are an adult so that they will start treating you like one. Demanding the respect you deserve is hard but important. As far as them having a right to be mad -- I don't think that is the right question. They don't have the "right", but it is certainly reasonable that they are. They are your parents and want the best for you, and they feel devastated that their "little girl" did something that they think is so bad for her. They also had thought they raised you to wait until marriage, even if they never had the discussion with you, because they never let you date or run wild. You just need to make them understand that being a good girl is not synonymous with being a virgin.
Why do parents get mad over grades?
Not all parents “get mad” over grades. Sometimes students get good grades and those makes parents happy.A better question is, “Why do some parents care how their children perform in school?”Some parents have an emotional investment in seeing their children do well. It has long been thought that children who do well in school (ie: get good grades) also do well in life. Some parents consider the societal investment in public education (around $10,000 per year per student) as something that is worth a ROI (return on investment). Some parents actually care.So, why do some parents get mad over bad grades? Probably because they see a lack of appreciation for all that has been invested in their child/student - and the resulting lack of effort put forth by said student. Sometimes that lack of effort is seen as a reflection on their parenting; but most often comes down to: your parents know what you are capable of and you just didn’t try hard enough.
Why do parents get so mad about hickeys...?
Honestly? You want a real answer? Here goes: Anyone who comes home from a party at age 19 with a hickey is someone who has been behaving like a child. You are a legal adult, start acting like one. Your parent thinks you go to a party to do party things not sexual things and that is exactly what a hickey implies. Some one did NOT just "kiss" your neck! You were going at a make out pace hard and heavy and they clamped their mouth on your neck and sucked liked an industrial strength shop vac. We KNOW how hickey's happen! You said yourself that your parents never discussed the fact that you have had sex. I think they should have but apparently it's not a subject they want to interfer in. So if they avoided talking about it, what makes you think they are comfortable with you coming home sporting proof positive that you are out there doing what you do? The logical conclusion any parent is going to arrive at is if you allowed the guy to suction your neck then what the hell of his were YOU sucking on? Use your common sense! These are obviously not images they want and you walk in like a 14 year old displaying pre-sexual or sexual behaviors. So have some respect for the home turf and if the guy wants to try and drain your neck of fluids shove a boob in his mouth but don't hickey the neck. It's just soooo juvenile and not classy. Apologize to mom and tie a scarf around your neck anyway.
Why would a parent get mad about a hickey?
Because they look cheap and trashy. I would ground him as well. Parents probably trying to instil some self respect not just in him but ensuring he respects you as well. It looks cheap and does nothing for YOUR reputation. Try to be more subtle next time.
My parents are mad at me cause I can't find a job ?
I'm 16 and all my friends have jobs but me! But its because there parents have connections with who there child works with and my parents get mad at me every night cause they say I don't try enough and I have literally applied everywhere within a 30 mile radius of my house and I don't wanna go any farther cause otherwise I'm just gonna be spending all my money on gas! WHAT SHOULD I DO?
I told my parents i don't believe in god?
My dad told me to go to church with my uncle and my cousin But i told them i did not want to because i don't believe in god. My dad got angry with me and started telling me "you cant see air but people say it exists ,and you cant have a balanced world without god ,and he even used Pascals Wager on me. He even mentioned Something about how if i don't believe in god i will become a murderer and start killing because i lost my way and he even brought up the past shootings we had. I knew how to answer those things but i did not want to get him more angry than he was. he eventually told me to go to church or else and started threatening me so i went anyway and its just the same **** they spew all the time. "good is love and you are nothing without him". he later told me he is not mad anymore but he wants to talk about it later. Is there anything i can say to convince him that the whole god thing is an illusion? when he asked me to give me a reason why i don't believe in god i said "why would an all knowing god create man and get mad at them for eating the apple and then cast us out and when we still don't reach his expectations he floods us and kills 99% of the people in the world and then when that was not enough he will start the rapture. why does an all knowing god **** up this much at being a father that he has to hit the reset button on us 3 times. he should know all of the stuff we would do before he even created us in the first place. my dad could not answer the question and he started saying i got it from the internet or the devil.
My parents beat me because I don't believe in god?
I am 14 years old. I don't believe in god but I have very religious parents. Ever since I was young they have read me the bible before I go to bed and forced me to go to church. I only started following my own belifes when I was around 12 and I started to be able to think for myself. The beating started a few years ago, I remember it clearly when I sat my parents down and calmly told them that I didn't believe in god and would it be okay if I maybe didn't og to church everynight with them. My dad yelled at me and couldnt control his anger. He smacked me and I had never seen him that angry before. Ever since then he has beaten me up almost everyday. It always starts with him telling me information about christanity or why I should go to church. Sometimes I listen and I always make sure to say I respect his veiws BUT and then tell him my side. Thats when he gets angry. He calls me stuff like Im a discrace, Im evil and I deserve to rot in hell for eternity. Then he would hit me and I have loads of bruises to show it. So now I don't argue when he talks about god. I just stay quiet. But he trys forcing me to pray and I just don't want to because I don't believe it, he won't accept that and forces me, once he lit a candle and threataned to burn my face with the flame if I didn't say a prayer. My mom is also a christain and she lets my dad do all this to me. She has hit me with the bible, its this really old bible she has and its really big and heavy and sometimes she whacks me with it and it causes massive red marks. She spits in my food and she says she doesnt love me anymore and until I relise the truth about god then she will never love me. I don't have many friends and often get bullied at school because my parents make me wear the same clothes every day. All I want is the right to not be religious. I want parents that love me, I get jelous of other kids who have normal kind loving parents who don't believe in god. Why are christians so cruel? Why? What can I say to my parents to stop them from hitting me and forcing me to believe?? PLease help Im thinking of suicide because its gotten so bad.
Do your parents get mad if you get a ‘C’ in your report card?
If my child is struggling in a class and has done all they possibly can to raise the grade -- interventions, in-school tutoring, additional study time at home, study buddies, etc -- then I don't have a problem with a C. If my child has decided to get lazy -- incomplete seat work, failure to turn in homework, sloppy school work, not study for tests -- then I have no sympathy and will take away distractions until the grades are brought up and kept up in the following grading period. That being said, I do keep an eye on my children's grades through on-line grade book. I also receive notifications from the school the minute their overall grade hits C or an individual assignment is below B. I talk with my kids, give them a set time to discuss with their teacher what can be done, and then step in when progress is not made.