How do i tell my parents im pregnant?
I know its a stupid question to ask. But how do i let my parents know? they dislike my bf and will freak when they find out im pregnant. im 19 about to turn 20 in about a month, but im no longer living with with my parents. I havent for about 5-6months. Im staying with my bfs family, until we move out to our own place in june. Im really scared to tell my parents, i know all they are going to worry about is what the rest of the family will say. i guess what im looking for is support =[ but let me add i want to have my baby & i dont want & will not have an abortion for my parents. is that wrong? I know im an adult but my family means a lot to me and i dont want to lose them because of this.
Can a parent kick you out for being pregnant?
They can't kick you out but they can turn you over to child welfare or child protective services and state that you are "out of control." Then there would be court hearings. They couldn't force you to have an abortion or to have the child adopted, but they could say that they could no longer take care of you. Then you might go to a home for unwed mothers. After that, it would be up to the courts to decide. If there was a foster home that would take you both in, that would be a possibility. Ultimately, if you could prove that you could work and raise a child, the courts might allow for emancipation at age 16. Basically, a 14-year-old in this situation would be signing on for a life of low education and poverty. It's rare for teens that young to finish high school, so they can work minimum wage jobs or live on welfare. Every child born after that would also suffer -- there's a chapter on this in the book Freakonomics. There's also a high chance that the teen would have a second child as a teenager, which makes poverty more likely.
Im pregnant n i don't how to tell my parents..whut should i do?
Well you knew this before you got pregnant, what your parents said would happen and you still had unprotected sex so now you must deal with it. You say your boyfriend said you can move in with him, does he have his own place? Or does he have to ask his parents can you live with them? You are too young but too late now, you have forced yourself to grow up before you had too. Why didn't you go to the health department and get on FREE birth control? Why didn't he use a 75 cent condom? If he could not afford 75 cents then how is he going to take care of a baby and the same for you? You are relying on your parents for food, clothes and shelter so how are you going to provide for someone else? You need to know your options and that would be keeping your pregnancy and dealing with it, abortion or adoption. Good luck
Can a doctor tell your parents you are pregnant?
Because I've had it happen to me.. on your next doctors visit ask your doctor (not your parents) to speak to him/her privately. Say its something uncomfortable, questions about girly things usually seem reasonable, and do not take no for an answer .. once you ask for it the doctor HAS to do it :o) . Once you're alone he has to keep whatever he tells you private. If you have time of your own and can grab a bus to a free clinic I'd suggest that. Just make sure you have an hour or two for the waiting room/test results. And trust me, if you know for sure tell your parents sooner than later, it really makes everything a lot worse even if they take it well. Planning out your next year of school gets sidetracked to all the other preperation.
Can a doctor tell my parents if i'm pregnant?
In the US, we have privacy laws in regards to reproduction. A doctor cannot legally tell your parents that you are pregnant unless you give them permisssion to. I'm sure something like that exists in canada. My blood test took 2 hours between being drawn and when they called me but that was because the blood was tested at the location it was drawn at, so that depends on where you have it done. If your blood is drawn and sent out somewhere, it could take a day or two up to a week or more. Why not just take an HPT? It will be instant results and you don't have to worry about someone telling your parents before you are ready to. Good luck.
I’m pregnant and my husband is forcing me to let his parents in the delivery room, but I don’t want that. What should I do?
Tell your doctor.It sounds like your husband is controlling and emotionally abusive, and while your obstetrician won’t be able to protect you at home, she can protect you in the delivery room. Giving birth is about you and your baby, and no one else’s wishes matter compared to yours – your doctor will understand this.If you don’t have a chance to talk to your doctor before you go into labor, or if you do so when your own doctor is unavailable, you just have to say the words to any nurse or doctor who attends to you. Say: “My husband is forcing me to have his parents in the room, and I want them gone”. You should have some private moments with your nurse early on in the process, so take advantage of these opportunities to tell someone that you are being coerced to give birth in front of your in-laws.We will gladly evict anyone whose presence isn’t desired by you. You are the only one whose wishes matter here, and I find it terribly upsetting that your husband is hijacking your delivery. If you can do so without endangering your wellbeing, I really would encourage you to put your foot down now. Tell your husband directly that you are the one who will be pushing a human being out your genitals, that you will be the one experiencing pain, that you will be put in the least dignified positions imaginable, and that your bodily fluids are the ones whose smells will permeate the room.Your husband sounds like an extraordinarily selfish creature, but even a narcissist will care about their offspring because it is an extension of themselves, so explain to this dude that your comfort will affect the safety of your child. Giving birth is difficult, and you need to be allowed every comfort and support that you desire – and I really hope that you can explain this to your husband. If he doesn’t respect your wishes, you could consider telling his parents directly. I realize that they might be as indifferent to your wishes as your husband is, but perhaps pride will be enough to keep them from going where they are not wanted.If all else fails, your doctor or nurse can evict your in-laws or even your husband, but keep repeating to yourself that your wishes are the only ones that matter when it comes to your delivery.