My parents are always fighting, what should I do?
My parents had been fighting since I was a kid. I am 23 now and they still argue every single time. As a teenager, I know there was nothing that I can do. So I made the decision to go to boarding school during high school and now I am studying at oversea university just to get away from them. Don't get me wrong, I love them very much but constantly being in the middle of a fight, I just can't take it anymore. My brother is 13 and I am really glad that he is going to boarding school. It is his own decision and I actually feel sorry for him because I had to left him when I was in high school. We are very close to each other but I had never talk to him about our parents. I'm just waiting for the good time and I believe at these age, he can handle serious discussion. The only peaceful moments that I had at home are mostly the time that I spent with him without my parents. We love to go out just to eat ice cream ,went shopping or just watching cartoons at home. I really miss him. Back to my point, being away from my parents and house is really working for me and I enjoy not having someone arguing with each other 24/7.
My parents' fighting?
My parents have been fighting since before I can remember. Ever since my brother and I were toddlers, (I'm now 16). It has been this way my whole life. They used to fight almost everyday when I was younger, and I was very afraid. My dad has an EXTREMELY loud voice, the kind of voice you can hear from anywhere in the house, even if he's just talking. And he has pretty bad anger issues. So when he yells, it's bad. He's thrown things before, and once, he broke her nose and kicked our cat across the room. Sometimes they have started fights around us, and sometimes they haven't. But I could always hear them, and since I was afraid, I'd always go near them because I was afraid that he would hurt her if I didn't. It may not have been very rational, but I did it because I figured if there was a witness, he wouldn't. A lot of the time, he would tell me why they were fighting and try to involve me. He's moved out four times, but he always ends up coming back, like he has now. What can I do about this, like really? What can I legally do to stop this? They ruined my childhood, and emotionally damaged me. I can't talk to them about it. It won't change anything, and he isn't the type to reason. I just wanna know what else I can do. Please?
HELP, MY PARENTS ARE FIGHTING REALLY BADLY...?
Ok so, tomorrow is my sister's birthday, and me and my parents found out she went to Florida without telling us... So now, my parents are fighting REALLY badly, their throwing stuff, screaming so loud that my room is shaking, slamming stuff, it's turning SLIGHTLY physical... My dad started screaming at my mom, "WHY DON'T YOU ******* GO TO FLORIDA WITH HER ******* *** AND ******** DIE IN A ******** CAR WRECK!?!?!?" and my room was shaking... He just called my mom retarded and my mom is screaming at him... I get upset.. easily... and i'm crying as I type this, I'm having an anxiety attack and they don't even care. I have to go to bed in a couple of minutes and yet I won't be able to sleep cause of this, How do I make them STOP... My mom said she might have a heart attack then my dad shouted "GOOD"... I don't want them to split up cause I love my dad.. They did this before and my dad left and came back.. But now it's going a bit out of control.. Please don't tell me to call the cops because 1. I do not have a phone, and 2. It could end up sending them both to prison... Please help, how do I get them to stop?... Any answer is appreciated... :(
My friend's parents are fighting at home!?
I had the same problem with one of my friends , her parents were always fighting so she used to call me to talk about it. I told her maybe should take some time off of home. So I told her she should come to my house whenever she needed to ( I made sure to get permission first ) , and don't let her get too depressed because it can lead to more problems for her. Anyways , try to help her remember that this is just a bump in the road and if her parents do get a divorce , well some things just happen for the better.
HELP, Parents fighting, read description?
so my brother came home late, and my they ALL started fighting. Push came to shove and my dad threatned to throw my brother out of the house and take his car, and my mom said if he leaves, she leaves with him , and ME!! I feel like I'm in a broken house and its falling apart. I'm scared for my brother's future, and my future. My dad is the breadwinner, and I can't be an Airline Pilot if he leaves!! HELPPPPPPP
My parents fight alot ...I'm so sick HELP?
My mom and my dad always fight.. it seems like they can't stand each other ..the thing is my dad doesn't make alot of money and my mom just hates that ..she always tells him she wants to buy expensive shoes and **** and fix some stuff in the house but my dad doesn't have enough money he's doing his best and she doesn't appreciate it...I love my mom she's a good person but she's also a woman she loves shopping and buying things but she doesn't understand that my dad can't afford these stuff .. I don't know what to do ..I don't want them to get divorced I just can't imagine myself going through that please help me I want them to get along again my dad talks to me when he feels bad.. today he talked to me about it and he was crying !! I saw him crying in front of me ..I've NEVER seen my dad crying like ever ! that scares me because it means this is serious he's getting tired of it please help me I need to do something my life is horrendous ..my parents mean so much to me I'm so close to them and they've always been there for me and I think it's time for me to be there for them
How do I deal when my parents fight?
Whoever you are , I really feel sorry for you. You and I are pretty much in similar situation only difference is I am 23. I will try my best to help you regarding this matter .No matter what your parents are not going to listen to you , now only their problems their solution matter to them. I have seen my parents fighting all through my life. I will tell you what I did and I can say it worked a bit for me. One day I broke down completely and when both my parents were at home i explained them my situation. I told them I no longer take this pain as it is affecting my life. I told them I am not able to concentrate in any kind of activities as their fight is the only thing which bothers me all time. I showed them what kids of my age are doing like participating in different activities , going for trips, performing better at academics and how their parents encourage their kids leaving aside all their problems. I also told them I really cant live this kind of situation at home and be normal like other kids. I asked them to either stop their fights or they are just ruining their kid life.This has some effect on their fight. They stopped fighting . My parents began to understand the value of family . My parents now rarely have any argument . They understood that its affecting me and their personal life too. They understood that at last only family matters and nothing comes before that. This answer may not help you to solve the problem , but this is what you can do to make things better . Explain your parents about you. when they have a family its not everytime about them , its about you too. You too have a life ,you too are par of the family.
How do I deal with parents who fight all the time? My parents argue over trivial things. Mom has a temper, blames people, and controls everyone. She compares us with others, saying how good they are. Dad is too stubborn to apologize, and has an ego.
There is nothing you can do about your parents' fighting. Believe me. I spent years wondering what I could do.The only thing that you can do is get some space from it. It is not likely that their relationship is going to change unless they decide to change it. It's not up to you or your siblings to change them and trying will just make it all the harder for you to disengage from this very toxic dynamic in your family.It's time to grow more independent of your family and seek more sane and peaceful relationships for your own life. These dynamics have a way of creeping up into your own relationships simply because you have been in the midst of them for years. You need to know that and begin to become as conscious as you can about thinking about and having good communication in your life.Decide how you would like to proceed in creating a different energy in your life from the one that your parents have created. Get some help for this. Over time, you will create your own set of relationships that are based on healthier, more loving values. If that becomes your goal, you will begin to beat the stress and move forward in a new direction. Just don't spend your life getting stuck in their dynamic- unless you want to create such drama in your own life.