Do your parents fight over stupid things?
yes all the time one year my dad threw our christmass turkey out the door
Parents fighting over stupid things?
Today, they fought over curtain(drapes, whatever you want to call them) sizes. They had a huge argument in the store we were shopping at. I think the whole building heard them. Is this stupid?
Parents fighting over the smallest things?
Im typing this as im crying right now. My parents hate each other and i dont know what to do about it. My dad scares me because he gets angry very easily and i think he may be trying to kill me. He is always trying to offer me weird vitamins and stuff. Tonight he was trying to make me take 3 papaya enzyme pills and i said no thank you but he started yelling and saying JUST TAKE THEM NOW! And i got scared and started tearing up so my mom came in and started yelling at him to leave me alone. Then he said YOU ALL ACT LIKE IM TRYING TO KILL YOU! Im so scared. Even though hes never hit me or my mom im afraid he will some day. One time i was sitting and watching football with him and i gave him a playful punch on the back and he pushed me very hard and i ran into a door. And when i was little he used to say it was all my fault he and my mom got into fights, when it was really his fault! One time when i was little he stepped outside the car and left the AC on and i didnt know what it was so i started yelling and crying for him and he ran to the car and opened the door and yelled at me. He always says we don't spend any time with him but whenever I would want to do something with him he would always be on his computor. I'm really afraid and never talk because of my home life. What advice can you give me? And is my dad trying to hurt or kill me?
How do I deal with parents who fight all the time? My parents argue over trivial things. Mom has a temper, blames people, and controls everyone. She compares us with others, saying how good they are. Dad is too stubborn to apologize, and has an ego.
There is nothing you can do about your parents' fighting. Believe me. I spent years wondering what I could do.The only thing that you can do is get some space from it. It is not likely that their relationship is going to change unless they decide to change it. It's not up to you or your siblings to change them and trying will just make it all the harder for you to disengage from this very toxic dynamic in your family.It's time to grow more independent of your family and seek more sane and peaceful relationships for your own life. These dynamics have a way of creeping up into your own relationships simply because you have been in the midst of them for years. You need to know that and begin to become as conscious as you can about thinking about and having good communication in your life.Decide how you would like to proceed in creating a different energy in your life from the one that your parents have created. Get some help for this. Over time, you will create your own set of relationships that are based on healthier, more loving values. If that becomes your goal, you will begin to beat the stress and move forward in a new direction. Just don't spend your life getting stuck in their dynamic- unless you want to create such drama in your own life.
Help! My parents fight over the smallest things!?
Hi there! Lately my parents have been under alot of stress from work and aren't getting enough time to work. They now fight over the smallest little things; About who schdueals the appoitments and how my Dad ate a hot dog and not a sandwhich for lunch. I can't really stand it to hear them fight like that. I'm worried they are going to get a divorce! I try to help as much as I can. I get my little sister off the bus and help her with piano practicing. I clear the table, do laundry, dishes, make dinner, while they work. Please, I really need advice! :(
My parents fight all the time any advice?
See my parent have been married about 13 year the same age as myself.When i was younger my mom told me that they got married because the loved each other but now my mom said she was pressured to marry him because she was pregnant with me, and over and over again my parent fight over the same things. Today he wanted to move all the boxes from our computer room and get another bed and sleep in here. Usually I am able to break my parents fights apart but they seem to get worse and worse and its hard to cope with two people who should be my role models fighting against every thing the other one does. My mom talk to me about all these thing and says she would divorce him if she was able to support herself and me but I really don't want that to happen. I mean I don't really like my dad but I love him like a daughter should, and hes never in my entire life or for as long as I can remember told me that he loved me. Really what should I do. And I'd rather ask a bunch of stranger what I should do because if it was somebody that i knew they would tell me that i would live or that they would get over it. Please i would like some advice on what I should do.
Help! My parents fight over the smallest things!?
Hi there! Lately my parents have been under alot of stress from work and aren't getting enough time to work. They now fight over the smallest little things; About who schdueals the appoitments and how my Dad ate a hot dog and not a sandwhich for lunch. I can't really stand it to hear them fight like that. I'm worried they are going to get a divorce! I try to help as much as I can. I get my little sister off the bus and help her with piano practicing. I clear the table, do laundry, dishes, make dinner, while they work. Please, I really need advice! :(
Parents are always arguing and fighting over little things. I can't take it anymore. What can I do?
To begin with, I’m sorry you’re in this position with your family. And I understand why you want to bring peace to your house and put an end to these issues. Unfortunately, though, I think your parents need to make the decision to get help on their own.So, you can definitely encourage them in this direction. If they’re open to it, you might suggest counseling for your mom and dad.Also, depending on your age, you might consider talking to someone outside the situation as well. For instance, if you’re younger, a teacher, youth leader, or a school counselor all might be good avenues to pursue.But just let them know what’s going on in your life. Hopefully, they can give you a shoulder to lean on when things are tough with your family, as well as some direction on how to respond to your parents…
What should children do when their parents fight over petty things?
Nothing you can do, except drop something heavy on their heads. Parents should know their kids better and be ready to compromise on their stupidity for their children. My parents never did, so I had to get involved in all of their fights to stop it in the end. I'll never forgive them that. If you dont want your sister to feel so resentful later, teach her to stop caring about what your parents fight over. Teach her that it doesnt matter what they fight over, that they will stop eventually, that these are just the casualties of marriage. If two people live with each other for so long, they will fight - and I cannot believe for a second that you dont ever have fights with your sister, and then you make up later. Tell her its like that. Its a waste of time worrying what two foolish adults do or dont do in their spare time. Last of all, take it casually. Its not the end of the world. In your mind of minds, I know that you think your parents are idiots, and you are right to think so. Forgive them for being so insenstive.