Should my parents be mad that i had sex?
Obviously, you come from a very "protective" family. You are 19, and a legal adult, but breaking those apron strings can be very difficult. You somehow have to find a way to feel like an adult and get them to understand that you are an adult so that they will start treating you like one. Demanding the respect you deserve is hard but important. As far as them having a right to be mad -- I don't think that is the right question. They don't have the "right", but it is certainly reasonable that they are. They are your parents and want the best for you, and they feel devastated that their "little girl" did something that they think is so bad for her. They also had thought they raised you to wait until marriage, even if they never had the discussion with you, because they never let you date or run wild. You just need to make them understand that being a good girl is not synonymous with being a virgin.
What do do if parents mad i got two B's?
Chances are, at least in my case, they just want to give you the absolute best shot at life. My dad didn't have a great start at life, his father divorced his mother, (Which, was almost unheard of in those days) and his mother did her best. Now that I have convinced my parents that I am trying my hardest, they don't freak out if I get a B. They know that I am striving for the best. *If* you feel that you have been doing your best, then try and talk (Not yell) to your mom or dad, and explain that to them. Best of luck. I wish I could offer more advice. :s
Why are parents mad when I get a B?
A B is an above-average grade in the U.S. Apparently your parents have extremely high expectations of you. If they know you are capable of getting an A, they may be disappointed because they know you haven’t made an effort to earn it.
Why are my parents mad at me for being upset?
I know a wonderful woman in her early 20s who is living in her parents’ home until she has established herself career-wise and can really afford to move out. Her parents ask her to do something, and she is often either about to go to work, busy with something else or tired. She tells them she will do what was asked, but forgets. Time goes by and the same issue has more urgency. The parents ask the woman again to do something. She says she will, but for a variety of reasons, it doesn’t happen. Finally, the parents reach the point where they feel civil discourse is no longer working and raise their voice and use words that suggest they are disappointed with the woman. The woman bursts into tears. The parents get annoyed that she is crying. If your situation is anything like this woman’s situation, your parents are annoyed because the stress and emotional outburst wouldn’t have occurred at all if you had simply done what your parents asked when they asked it. Living in their home means that you are obligated to participate as a productive member of the family and help out when asked. You can avoid the entire drama by quicker to help out when asked. If I’m totally off-base here, please read some of the other really great answers.
Why do my parents get mad when I curse?
I used to live with my dad and mom. My dad always tell me that it's not right to curse after I first said it. I currently live with my aunt and she gets sick of her son cursing at people every once in a while (although she curse sometimes too). Parents doesn't like their kids to curse no matter how old they are, they can get into trouble if they keep doing it. Think about it... what if you have your own child who begins cursing? He/She will continue to do it even outside, it's like they are programed to do it (I experienced it myself). Since you know better than that you must stop doing it or something bad will happen. Don't say you wish you never had a father because he is trying to help you, he might have issues since he curse alot or probably likes doing that. Your mother may let it slide for some reason but someday she might get mad at you. So stop cursing and you will be alright. By the way, Justin Beiber is a singer, look him up. All girls use to love him because "he is so cute".
Why would a parent get mad about a hickey?
Because they look cheap and trashy. I would ground him as well. Parents probably trying to instil some self respect not just in him but ensuring he respects you as well. It looks cheap and does nothing for YOUR reputation. Try to be more subtle next time.
What gets parents mad about marijuana?
I'm not totally sure I understand where your parents are coming from either. If my child decides to smoke pot, I most likely won't care so long as he is doing everything(and I mean everything) he is supposed to be doing. i.e. going to school every single day, making good grades, holding a job(if he needs one), doing chores and staying out of trouble. If he decides to slack off in any of those aspects, it's over. He won't see pot again unless he proves to me he can handle how it effects him. :Edit: Pot isn't a gateway drug. Most people who smoke pot, only smoke pot. They go to their day jobs and come home and relax, then do it all over again the next day. You'd be surprised how many people you know smoke. People don't go to jail for pot anymore unless they have an excessive amount and they're selling. Most of the people who are answering your question don't have their facts straight.
Why do parents get mad over grades?
Not all parents “get mad” over grades. Sometimes students get good grades and those makes parents happy.A better question is, “Why do some parents care how their children perform in school?”Some parents have an emotional investment in seeing their children do well. It has long been thought that children who do well in school (ie: get good grades) also do well in life. Some parents consider the societal investment in public education (around $10,000 per year per student) as something that is worth a ROI (return on investment). Some parents actually care.So, why do some parents get mad over bad grades? Probably because they see a lack of appreciation for all that has been invested in their child/student - and the resulting lack of effort put forth by said student. Sometimes that lack of effort is seen as a reflection on their parenting; but most often comes down to: your parents know what you are capable of and you just didn’t try hard enough.
Do your parents get mad if you get a ‘C’ in your report card?
If my child is struggling in a class and has done all they possibly can to raise the grade -- interventions, in-school tutoring, additional study time at home, study buddies, etc -- then I don't have a problem with a C. If my child has decided to get lazy -- incomplete seat work, failure to turn in homework, sloppy school work, not study for tests -- then I have no sympathy and will take away distractions until the grades are brought up and kept up in the following grading period. That being said, I do keep an eye on my children's grades through on-line grade book. I also receive notifications from the school the minute their overall grade hits C or an individual assignment is below B. I talk with my kids, give them a set time to discuss with their teacher what can be done, and then step in when progress is not made.
Why do my parents get mad if I play video games?
“Most parents have this idea that it rots your brain, they are just old-fashioned. My parents were always happy to see me play video games as it was the only thing that kept me out of trouble. If I hadn't been gaming I would have been getting into fights or doing drugs or staying out late doing something else I shouldn't have been. When I was released from jail (I beat up some guy for stealing a really rare skin) I was put on house arrest for 6 months and gaming was my one true escape. It also keeps me from running out and causing myself and others harm, and stops me from getting any bad RL friends or girlfriends, because they are just trouble and who needs them. So, yeah, I dropped out of school after I failed some lame exams, but that wasn't because of gaming. Anyhow, I was trying to get this ultra rare collection at the time, and it looked cool, but they stopped that game, which sort of sucks. And though the doctor said that my eyesight was done in, but it's okay there are glasses for that. There was the heart attack they blamed that on lack of exercise and not enough sleep. Of course. Losers. But I tell you, really, gaming saved my life many times.”