My Wife is Sending Mixed Signals?
I thank you all for your input. I agree that there is most likely another man involved and it all adds up with the stress. I just can't believe that she would ask me back in our bed when there is another man involved. She has created fake emails before to see how much I read what comes through our computer so I wouldn't put it past her if this was just another test. As I write this out I realize how much this sounds like grade school kids fighting about something. I am going to talk to her, now I just need to find the right time to do it. I don't want either of us being tired and that playing a role int he coversation. I am going to ask her to share her stress with me specifically to maybe help her release them. We'll see how it goes.
My crush is sending me mixed signals? (10 POINTS BEST ANSWER!)?
So, there's this guy. His name's Erin. He's in almost all of my classes with me and we talk CONSTANTLY. We've known each other for four years, but have never talked until this year. Anyways, a couple days ago we texted each other from 9PM to hmm...3AM (6-ish hours. We were both really, really, REALLY bored and couldn't sleep. Mind you, he texted me first). So the whole time, we talked about random crap like school, and our classmates. I made a joke and asked him if he was gay or not, and he answered, "I'm bisexual." And I honestly did /not/ believe him and I was literally freaking out. Come to find out, he never told ANYONE except me. Not even his parents, or his sister. I told him that I supported him and whatnot (because I'm not f*cking judgemental like that), and he seemed really happy. Later on, I asked him who he liked and he said that he liked this girl named Amy (she goes to our school too, and talks to me). He doesn't even /look/ at Amy /one bit/. He doesn't even /talk/ to her. He doesn't give a second in his day for her. What I'm not understanding is how he likes Amy, yet I'm the person he told his secret to. Whenever Erin talks to me, he blushes REALLY hard and messes with his hands. We were at school a couple days ago, and he asked if I wanted to race him and I laughed and said 'no'...and then he asked me /again/ like five minutes later...but I still said 'no'. So he then decided to tell my bestfriend to ask me if I wanted to race him. It's kind of odd, you know? I mean, he like tells me EVERYTHING. He talks to me EVERYDAY. We CONSTANTLY text each other. And he told me his biggest secret... ...but I'm not exactly the one he likes. Do you think he likes me, or does he just trust me really well? **Again, 10 points best answer!**
My future ex wife keeps sending mixed signals?
It seems that she might be afraid of letting go as you are too. You both have a comfort with one another that was built over 7 years together and that is hard to let go of. You are also sending her mixed messages by telling her you want space and then texting her regularly. It is a two way street. I think you both really need time apart to assess what you both want and figure out what the best answer is. You may not want the divorce, but then what do you want, or maybe you well find out the trust issues are way too great to overcome and divorce is the only answer. Honestly the only way you will figure this out us by setting boundries on texting and calling one another. Your wife obviously has an addictive personality and when it comes to you texting her that you love and miss her, you are feeding her addiction in some ways. Breakups are never easy, especially when you've been together for so long. Take it day by day, limit contact and get back to your own self. Do things you enjoy, find your own passion. Maybe you will find then the answers to your questions.
How should I react if a guy I like is giving me some mixed signals?
A guy could just be kind like the next person and your looking too much into it.I had the same experience. A family friend stopped by with her friend. Let’s call her friend Pinky.I was polite with them and gave them something to drink. I had a considerable time talking with them. Then the family friend said that Pinky was in a middle of her report and was having trouble finishing it because her computer broke down.I had a laptop that I wasn’t using and I lent it to her.Two weeks later I got a letter of “confession” after returning the computer. I was really confused.I’m not saying that there was anything wrong with the “confession” but I though it was a bit off. I didn’t get it why she’d write a 7-page letter.I only met her that time and made a bit of “hi” and “hello” with a smile with the coming days before she returned the laptop.What I’m saying, I wasn’t really into her. But it was my fault that she misread my politeness and gesture to help her out. It wasn’t anything special to me, but to her, it was.She took it hard when I had to break it to her.She was really embarrassed. She wasn’t even bad looking.Give yourself time. Observe more. And try to see things as they are. All will reveal itself eventually.
Why does a Scorpio sun Cancer moon man send me mixed signals? Is this normal?
Brief background: We were somewhat dating last year and I ended it without telling him why. We recently reconnected about 2 months ago and last month he asked me to meet his parents which I was completely caught off guard. However I end up meeting them and not only did I meet his mom and dad…I met pretty much the entire family! His dad told me ‘You fit right in with the family,’ and he kept making side comments about it throughout the night. The next night we had a talk about why I stopped talking to him and we were ready to move on…I think…Fast forward til now he’s been acting very distant. He went a couple of days without reaching out then comes back like nothing happened! I questioned his behavior and he got all defensive & then he made this nasty comment saying ‘Just because you met my parents that doesn’t mean much…if I don’t mess with you anymore they won’t either.’ He said that out of nowhere which was a slap in the face to me. In my mind I wrote him off.The next night he asked me out for dinner! Of course I went and everything seemed to be perfect. He was very affectionate and was happy to be around me. Then he brought up his ex. I asked him if he was over her emotional and to my surprise he told me not 100% So now I’m thinking he’s not emotionally available. Anyways…At the end of our date he told me that we are now dating and will plan on seeing me more often. But… he hasn’t made any effort on seeing me since and now he’s acting all distant again. Is he seeking revenge because of what I did to him last year??? I don’t know what to do but he has my mind thinking too many things and I want to give up but I like him so much :(*I’m a Virgo sun with a Cancer Moon Venus in Virgo**He is a Scorpio sun with a Cancer Moon Venus in Sag*
This guy keeps giving me mixed signals and pissing me off. Any ideas?
Okay so I met this really cool, cute guy a few months ago when his band played at a party I went to. We started talking and discovered we have a TON in common; we both play guitar, we've both lost a parent, we love a lot of the same things, we're like the same person but different genders haa. -Whenever we talk, he calls me babe and cutie -When we're in public, he'll sometimes come from behind me and hold me while talking to other people and whispering in my ear when talking to me (: Even once at a dance, he ditched his friends to come slow dance with me twice <33 -On Facebook, he tagged me in two notes/surveys he took, one being "ABC" (where they type in one of every letter at their search bar and answer questions about who shows up first) and the second being "People I can't go a day without thinking about/talking to" (pretty self-explanatory). -My friend was talking to him about me one day, told me he said I was really cool and seemed like the fun type. She asked him if he liked me, and he said a little bit... I took that as a no. -He is honestly one of the sweetest guys I've ever met in my life and said he wants to get to know me. Contrary to all that... -He hardly ever answers my texts. -My friend also told me that when she asked him who he like, he said a different girl, but every guy in my freshman class is obsessed with her because she's hot (although maybe it was a chain-reaction like one guy thought she was hot and then every other guy felt like they were obligated to like her. she's really kinda ugly if you asked me...) -The way he talks to me over text makes him sound like he's annoyed with me. -When I asked him why he never talked to me anymore even though he thinks about me all the time, he said he doesn't have enough time (which I don't understand because even though he has hockey after school, he still talks to a lot of other people). I just wanna know a couple things. Does he like me? Only as a friend? Could we potentially be together? Any ideas you have about his mixed signals are definitely helpful, thannnks!
Why does my ex girlfriend send me mixed signals? She broke up with me after a short relationship, but she keeps texting me, and she even met my parents and stayed near them all the time during my graduation speech.
She's playing silly and very immature mind games with you I'm afraid. She knows she can do this to you. Mixed signals are a massive red flag. Now I am aware that your relationship is over, but I think you are unhappy about that. Your ex knows it too. Best thing to do is have a chat with her. Ask her if there is any chance of you two working towards building a new relationship together. Forget the old relationship now. That is dead. Put your cards on the table. Ask her what I have just said. Give her a few days to think about it. If she is sure she doesn't want to be in a romantic relationship with you again, then you have to say goodbye to each other. Staying in contact with her as a friend WONT WORK either. Mixed signals abound in that stupid situation. I don't think there is a great deal of hope as regards a new relationship between you and your ex. But you never know, people can be unpredictable. Remember this: Either you two work at reconnecting towards a new relationship, or it's definitely OVER for you two. Don't accept ANY OFFER OF FRIENDSHIP FROM YOUR EX. You most certainly can't handle mixed signals. If the worst comes to the worst, there are plenty of others who are single out there. Get out and about and indulge! Take absolute care.
Should a dad refer to/call his son bro (I think it sends mixed signals.)?
I don’t think most parents just want to be loved with that obligatory kind of familial love. They also want to be liked simply because they’re fun to be with.But it is possible to strike a balance where you can be “the authority figure” and be “fun” to be around. I have family members who provided great examples.And if a parent can strike that kind of balance, I don’t think it’s any kind of problem for them to call their son “bro.”I’ve never been a parent. I’m not going to tell parents how to do their job. It is a full-time job. There are serious and long-reaching consequences for many mistakes. It is perhaps the most demanding role most people will occupy in their lives.All I’ll say (and only because I was asked) that I have witnessed a couple of different cases where a parent (after a divorce in each case) decided they wanted to be “the fun one”, and didn’t maintain the distinction between friend and parent.In each case, the oldest children were mature enough to handle themselves, but the youngest ones ended up with serious on-going disciplinary issues.On a side note: as a teacher, I understand that being responsible for kids is difficult and stressful. I have a lot of sympathy for parents who wish they could take a step back from being “the authority figure.”And I think that’s even more difficult for divorced parents with split custody, where there’s often a degree of tension or outright competition and conflict between the parents over the affection of their kids.
Mixed signals from cancer woman please advise?
She is a family friend and I've known her for years. I was good friends with her brothers but lately I've gotten closer to her. She tells in the past she'd cry because she was so lonely and had no one and last in her family to get married. We went out a few times and she had a good time, picked flowers and gave them to me. I could tell she was enjoying that, and we got closer. In return I sent her roses on Christmas told her I want to keep seeing her but now she tell me she has a boyfriend who has been divorced and has kids so she can't tell her parents yet. Since then I've moved I live bit far from her. Yet I can't help notice that she likes to copy with my ideas like which cell phone to use (now uses same as mine), changing her mail service to be same as mine...etc things noone changes 'just because'. She then tells me if there is anything she can do for me to ask, and ends mail in see you soon. Since she says she has a bf, I'd like to forget about her but I've grown feeling for her, and the mixed signals is killing me, don't know what to do? I'm thinking I write her back last time let her know I am serious.
How do I know if a guy loves me if he gives mixed signals?
This is an easy one!A person (male or female) who truly loves you will not send mixed signals. Think about someone you love very much - perhaps a parent, a friend, a sibling. Do you send them mixed signals, sometimes appearing to care and other times behaving with indifference? Of course not - you love them, why on earth would you treat them such a way? Why would you make them question your feelings?You wouldn’t.