I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!! My parents want to send me to military school?
What should I do if I have horrible parents and they want to send me to a military school. They always accuse me of stuff that they did just so they can get away with it. For example about a month ago my dad stole something from a store and then when then when they caught him he said I had stolen it and I was almost sent to Juvi had it not been for the security cameras. Then there s the time when I was in 7th grade and they disowned me for a week even though it was considered "child abandonment" and then they bribed the judge and it worked. The only reason they accepted me back into the family is becuase my dad's boss found out and he told my dad he would fire and have my dad arrested if he didn't undisown me. Now fast forward to today I'm in 10th grade and 15. I have low grades and I've become an extremely rude person. I have 4 F's and 2 A's and my teachers want to have a parent teacher conference. My parents told me that if I have any F's they'll send me to a military school and I believe them because of all the things they've done to me. I wanna tell my teachers what my parents have done to me so that they won't send me to a military school but I'm pretty sure they won't believe me because everyone at my school including my teachers know I m rude. But nobody knows that the reason I'm rude is becuase of the horrible things my parents do to me on a daily basis. What do I do i don't want to be sent to a military school.
My parents want to send me to military school?
It hurts, but try to be submissive to them. I'm not telling you to agree with their policies, but just stop yourself from arguing against them, even when they're clearly wrong. Kill your pride and bear with them. I wish there was another thing you could do, but your parents seem to be harsh and non-loving. Maybe I'm wrong. Try to get out of the house as soon as possible. Military school isn't a good place.
My parents want to send me to military school! I don’t think they understand what’s going on. Are they overprotective/overreacting, or do I really deserve to go to military school?
Who knows you haven’t said what is going on and you want strangers with no info at all to decide?If you don’t think your parents know what is going on, tell them what is going on they might not be able to mind read anyone than people you don’t know can mind read.As for military school well it is good for some people and not for other people. It isn’t a punishment it mainly offers structure for people who do not have structure in their lives. IF you do not want that system you need to actually talk honestly to your parents and offer to them alternatives. I would be guessing you have in some way indicated to them you might be going off the rails. Poor behavior, substance problems rudeness failure to do your school work? Whatever is their concern you need to come up with a solution which holds you accountable and which indicates you have learned self control.
My parents want to send me to military school! HELP ME!?
Ok, so I heard my parents saying they were going to send me to military school. They have threatened me with this before, but they would explain afterwords that they were not serious, But this time, they were serious. I found my mom researching military schools and stuff like that. Im not a bad kid, Im 15, I have lots of friends, never been drunk or high, play sports, and my GPA is about 3.75. The only thing I have done wrong is that I am a smart alic and disrespectful to them. If they ask me to do a chore, I roll my eyes discretely, but I don't try to. It has become a bad habit. I got into a big fight because my dad was giving me lacrosse advice when he doesn't play lacrosse, so I was being disrespectful because what he was saying conflicted with what my coach was saying. So, number 1, am I wrong or are my parents overreacting? 2: What can I do to stop them from sending me to military school?
My parents want to send me to military school! Please help?
The last few months i have gotten in trouble quite a few times.. drugs,stealing, being disrespectful. I decided to make a change, stop hanging with druggies and bad kids ( im clean now), making better grades, and cleaning my room. I am putting the past behind me, but they still want to send me and i cant change there minds please help me on what to say?
How do I prevent from being sent to military school?
Is this a formal and official diagnosis? Are you being treated and currently under the care of a doctor(s)? Are you taking medications?Has your parents spoken to your care aid providers?I don't know anything about military school. However, your parents could be right and they could be wrong. Military school will provide structure, routine, discipline, exercise, training, etc. This is all good if you are of sound mind and can handle the stress and pressure, maybe the joking and teasing of squad mates. But depression is already a huge burden and form of stress. The added pressures and stress can exacerbate your illness. Further, you're away from family and friends for support which could also add to depression. This isn't a laughing matter. Too much can push you into the deep end.Your job now is to convince them of your condition. Have them with you so your doctor can speak to them about it and explain just how serious it can be if left untreated, or attending military school, and anything they may be prejudiced to.You can get a lawyer, but can you afford one? And is it really necessary for one? You need to show your parents an official diagnosis and they must be aware of your ongoing and continued treatment and therapy. Your parents should be in on everything if they are to be a part of your healing. Right now, they see you as a typical teenager.Ball is on your court now.
Parents are trying to send me to military school?
Ive kinda screwed up lately. But overall i dont think im that bad. My gpa is around a 3.2, i joined the army national guard but they caught me smoking weed a couple days after. Im a junior and they want to send me away asap. they werent mad about the pot just worried il get caught and get kicked out of the army. i think il be good for when my next piss test is and my grades i can pull up. i feel like the school they are trying to send me to are for over achievers and not loser like i am. its Fishbunre academy in Virginia. I live in VA about 3 hours out. in all honesty, the main reason i dont want to leave is because of my senior girlfriend. if it wasnt for her i think i wouldnt mind leaving.
Can parents really send their kids to military school?
Yes, they can and do.Military schools have kids who want a military career and hope that a military high school will be a good training ground for a service academy or military college.But there are other kids in military high school, kids who are behavior problems at home who parents just don’t want to have to deal with. And the parents do send them to try to straighten them out or at least be someone else’s problem.
My parents want to send me to military/private school. I probably deserve it. Any Advice?
So, I am going to ATTEMPT to give you some advice, cause where you're at now, it's going to be ******* hard to get you some magical miracle and stuff. I'm giving you this advice from what I would do being a year older than you (aka senior in school). It's not adult's advice, and I can't really tell you how they feel (though I'm sure I've got a pretty good idea from what you've said so far). If I were you, I'd stick it out. Suicide and running away aren't going to be worth it in the long run, you're only 17 and yeah, that's a long time you've got another good 80-90 something years left! It's going to be hard, it is; but tough it out. You need to prove it to them, that you are changing for the better. Especially your mom, tell her and try and show it to her. You're not going to see immediate change, but one day you will. Also you're so close to your senior year man; I understand all the fun and games and stuff but your friends, drinking and girlfriend aren't gonna be around forever (yeah, I sound like a *****, I know). Start to focus on your studies more, impress your parents and pull your grades up or you're going nowhere fast. Just saying the truth won't fix anything, and going back to your old habits DEFINITELY won't fix anything. Try hanging out with your parents more, sometimes they can be somewhat cool. Yes, it's lame, but this is the life of a student with an 84% average and I'm definitely going to college next year. From there, university and hopefully a good career. I know you're probably reading this like ugh wtf i don't want to do this; but if you just try and listen to my ideas you'll see it's actually quite effective. Hopefully you at least give this a try, and I hope everything works out for you! Good luck!
Help!! Mom wants to send me to military school?!!?
You are going to have to learn eventually that your actions will have consequences. If you don't find a way to quit, then expect to have fun in military school. My personal advice is that if you are trying to quit something, you need to find out why you are doing that thing in the fist place. Once you pinpoint what it is that compels you to smoke, you can determine a course of action to correct any existing issues. It may also be helpful to replace the smoking with something else. For example, I used to smoke cigarettes and cigars. Although I wasn't totally addicted, I could tell that I was headed down that road, so I wanted to quit. When I quit smoking tobacco I started to work out on a regular basis. I replaced something unhealthy with something healthy, and it made me feel better overall. The urge to smoke will still be there, but it will become less and less powerful over you as you learn how to conquer it. Good luck.