What would be your reaction if you find that your brother is gay?
I do have a brother, so I can’t go by the *gasp* I have a brother?!?!?! route.Well, if Chinju grows up and comes out, my reaction will probably be “Awesome. Hi five!”And then I will proceed to tie him to a chair and show him my impressive collection of fan art.And the Richard Madden pictures too.We could squeal and fanperson together!How do you want me to react?My family is an orthodox conservative one. My parents are homophobic.If my brother came out to me, I will hug him and tell him that I would always have his back.If he needs to, he could crash over at my place.I would stand by his side, and give him the support that he needs.My brother is an annoying little shit, but he is the only person in my family whom I trust completely.He is only eight, but is aware about LGBTQ+ issues, thanks to the Rick Riordan books.I have taught him that being gay is normal and natural, and that we mustn’t hate people for being born the way they are.He understands, and is an ally. I once heard him tell mum about Alex Fierro, about they are genderfluid, about how beautiful they are, and about how fascinating (to his eight year old mind) being genderfluid is.My mum glared at me silently and told him that in India, genderfluid people would be thrown out of the house.Without skipping a beat, he said that anyone who did that would be a very bad person, as you mustn’t hate people for who they are.I love my brother.If he is gay, okay.I will be there for him, as I know that he’ll be there for me.
How should I react when my girlfriend posts a picture with another guy?
If she was cheating I doubt she would post a picture for everyone to see, including you, that she is cheating with this guy.I mean if I was cheating I wouldn't think putting a picture of the girl I'm cheating with is a good idea unless I wanna get caught.it might just be a friend she has, I wouldn't worry about it, “Id just say nice picture on your profile” she would then tell you who she Is, she will say a friend most likely, then say ok, and don't bring it up Again. After all you cannot control what she does With this guy, if she happens to have cheated, then break up, but worrying about this while you are away, will just be pointless since there is nothing stopping her to do things behind your back, it will make you look like an insecure bitch, and you will have a hard time thinking about this too much.Just talk to other women to keep you busy and distracted from your girl, Don't care too much, the fact that you don't try to control her will make her think why isn't he worried? Which will only keep the attraction for you, since there is nothing more attractive for a woman than a guy who isnt afraid to lose her.
I love a girl one year older than me is it okay for me?
Is to normal for a guy to fall in love with a girl one year elder than him - normal; practicality of it - no comments.There are so many cases of successful marriages where wife is elder to guy by few years, situation becomes tricker if the difference is huge.Two advise though - Women tend to think more maturely sooner than men, so it might lead to differences in thoughts; dont be surprised if she starts saying that you behave childish! Second women prefer to marry men elder than them as this is more acceptable in society; its like men like to show off their younger wife(example orange man) but not the other way(Demi moore and aston kutcher), parents like it this way too.But there are exceptions, my sister is an year and half elder to my brother-in-law and they have been together and married for 14 years, so go ahead, take chances; you never know!
Should I allow my 8-year-old son to take a shower with my 13-year-old daughter since we are busy in the mornings?
Oh boy, what do we have here?So does your teenage daughter want to shower with her brother?Does your son want to shower with his teenage sister?Or, do you just want to save water and money?If your teenage daughter wants to shower with he little brother, ask her why. Odds are, there is no good reason. Same for the eight year old.Eight years old is right about when kids start to feel self-conscious. My guess would be that the eight-year-old doesn’t fully comprehend what is happening.At this age, both are experiencing development. Your daughter probably is somewhat developed already, and sorry, but teenagers have sexual desires. A lot of times, teenagers experiment in the showers by themselves. If your teenager wants to experiment with another person, that’s a no-no in this case.If this whole thing was your idea, try a different approach. For example, in my house, girls get six minute showers and boys get five. This is mostly so the girl can shave, wash her hair, etc. Boys just can’t focus for very long in the shower. Limiting time in the shower would save money mor than having them shower together. When they are young, it’s one thing. But at this age? It’s just a hassle and will end up taking more time.If the only reason for all this is that you are busy in the mornings, have everybody either get up earlier or shower at night.